Can't stop thinking about her

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Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?
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Posted by Hax

Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?




You’re asking if she is loyal because you want to break up her relationship so you can be with her. You’re selfish. Date the Gemini or find someone else.
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Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?




You’re asking if she is loyal because you want to break up her relationship so you can be with her. You’re selfish. Date the Gemini or find someone else.

No. Just straight no.

Let her know your interested and serious about finding out, if she is interested and ready. Then the ball is in her court. Give her time she isn't single. Just be understanding and caring for the situation. If she is interested, it will put her into quite a pickle. You need to appreciate the situation your putting her in.
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It’s an advice for smart people...

Lol
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1. Stop wasting the Gemini’s time. I’m not a fan of Gemini’s but that’s just rude and inconsiderate.

2. Stop being a pansy and let her know you’re interested. Worst that can happen is you will be rejected and can go back to wasting the Gemini’s time.


Doesn't #2 negate #1?




Yeah I was just being a smart ass I wasn’t being serious. Lol


#2 was solid advice though lol


He will absolutely continue to waste her time because that is what men do. Lol


That's rude 😂. Gemitati is living proof that if you just wait a little longer...

you'll still be waiting.
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Oh joy of suffering...mmmm
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You don‘t love her, you are infatuated.

Tell her that you are interested and will pursue her once she breaks up.

If you can‘t do this then you aren‘t man enough by now and should stick to your fwb gemini. If you really want her then put on your big boy pants, tell her straight and live with the fact that you try to take another man‘s gf. That‘s nothing to be ashamed of as long as you don‘t try to manipulate things and keep on sneeking into her DMs.
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What I'd do in your predicament is beat around the bush for a few years, never tell her how I feel, eventually she drifts away and I end up marrying a Gemini I don't really love, we fight constantly and our kids hate us. I fall into a dead end job and drink myself to sleep every night, wondering what could have been.


You’ve just described 99% of earth population love life style . 🙈😭
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Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?




You’re asking if she is loyal because you want to break up her relationship so you can be with her. You’re selfish. Date the Gemini or find someone else.

No. Just straight no.

Let her know your interested and serious about finding out, if she is interested and ready. Then the ball is in her court. Give her time she isn't single. Just be understanding and caring for the situation. If she is interested, it will put her into quite a pickle. You need to appreciate the situation your putting her in.
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Don’t quote me bitch. If you want to tell OP that then tell him. My opinion is not invalid because you disagree.
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Posted by DrinkWater

What I'd do in your predicament is beat around the bush for a few years, never tell her how I feel, eventually she drifts away and I end up marrying a Gemini I don't really love, we fight constantly and our kids hate us. I fall into a dead end job and drink myself to sleep every night, wondering what could have been.

Yes because his only choices at love are the Cancer or Gemini woman. 🤷🏾‍♂️
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Don’t tell her.. I can’t imagine what kinda of conversation that will be.. reminds me of something I would do in my twenties. Maybe you could do it, and learn from your mistake, because until you mess up then you will never know. What are you expecting her to say when you tell her you have feelings? How realistic is it and does it get you anywhere? You need to show her interest and let her come to you, your body language and eye contact, and if there is a connection then let it grow. Don’t try and act like you’re trying to force anything. Let her decide about her boyfriend or whatever. The woman chooses the man, don’t act like you’ve chosen her and go blah blah I love you.. it’s not enough.. who is she?

And I know you get women who will give you advice in life, about getting women. What they will tell you will be things like.. be yourself, tell her how you feel, or be the nice guy.. then after that.. well how many guys get dumped for being the nice guy? Or friend zoned? How many women actually know what they want? Not many. How many change their minds? All of them?

All I’m saying is a lion does not go ask a zebra how to catch zebras.
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She probably takin' other dick elsewhere anyway so shoot your shot fam. Make sure to degrade her properly in bed if you get her.. so she knows her place and shit.


Lols ya

But just making sure, if the heart is well developed, she wil have no problem.. And if she is indeed having a problem, she can simply take a look at how the world turns and identify herself again..

At the end of the day, it is only for a good reason.

Not to worry 🙂
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Posted by DrinkWater

What I'd do in your predicament is beat around the bush for a few years, never tell her how I feel, eventually she drifts away and I end up marrying a Gemini I don't really love, we fight constantly and our kids hate us. I fall into a dead end job and drink myself to sleep every night, wondering what could have been.


You’ve just described 99% of earth population love life style . 🙈😭
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Sshhh sh sstt
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1. Stop wasting the Gemini’s time. I’m not a fan of Gemini’s but that’s just rude and inconsiderate.

2. Stop being a pansy and let her know you’re interested. Worst that can happen is you will be rejected and can go back to wasting the Gemini’s time.


Doesn't #2 negate #1?




Yeah I was just being a smart ass I wasn’t being serious. Lol


#2 was solid advice though lol


He will absolutely continue to waste her time because that is what men do. Lol
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What do men do other than being lost and confused.. Ohhh the feel to be directive is too damn strong.
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Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?




You’re asking if she is loyal because you want to break up her relationship so you can be with her. You’re selfish. Date the Gemini or find someone else.

No. Just straight no.

Let her know your interested and serious about finding out, if she is interested and ready. Then the ball is in her court. Give her time she isn't single. Just be understanding and caring for the situation. If she is interested, it will put her into quite a pickle. You need to appreciate the situation your putting her in.

Don’t quote me bitch. If you want to tell OP that then tell him. My opinion is not invalid because you disagree.


Nope. I just strongly disagree. The loyalty question is valid. Will she be loyal to the relationship she has and see it through regardless and blow him off simply because of that none serious commitment( they are not married) relationship?

Doesn't have to be.where there is a will there is a way. He can be honest and back up his words with actions. No bullshit no games no shady shit. Let her know put the ball in her court.

If my opposing view makes you feel invalidated, that's on you. You should look into why that's so easy to do.



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Great. You strongly disagree. Good for you but I’m not changing what I said. That’s all you needed to say. You can disagree until the day you die. I encourage it. But, I’m not changing what I said. Feel however you want to feel about it.
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Posted by Hax

Sun, Mercury,Venus and Asc in Scorpio and Moon in Aries man here. I've known this girl for 2 years now and I love her since day 1, but I just can't tell her. She is perfect.She is beautiful, her grey-blue eyes, her hair, her body, they way she looks at me, her voice, just everything. I am completely in love with her. She is an angel. We don't talk much but when we do I feel understood and calm. We have mutual friends and we definitely have a connection. She is a Cancer and has a boyfriend.. I'm not in a relationship, but there is this Gemini girl I hook up with, but she isn't even half of her. And they way she looks at me, even in his presence. I'm sure that she is interested in me too, but just too shy and scared. I want her and I just can't hold it in any longer. I can't stop thinking about her day and night. I want to tell her. She is 21, I am 24. Are cancer girls loyal? How do I tell her that I have feelings for her?



My favourite bit!
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She’s so interested in him that she’s with another man. Scorpio men and their unremarkable depth and delusion.