caught scorpio man in a lie (Page 2)

Posted by CopperDove
I'm glad that everything seems to be fine Champagne. 🙂

I think a lot of people have a tough time distinguishing between intuition and fear at times, so hopefully this experience helps you to figure that out for the future.

I agree with others here that it's best to try to gather all info first - benefit of the doubt. I'm glad that he just came out with things and told you the details so you didn't have to ask anything.

I had someone sleuth me one time when everything was fine. They admitted it to me and we worked through it - I could forgive them. They didn't repeat it.

ty! i'm moving in with him in may so it's gonna take a lot from me not to snoop around but i won't do it. sometimes i wonder if he does the same to me lol he'll occasionaly mention things that i don't remember telling him

Posted by Champagne

Posted by CopperDove
I'm glad that everything seems to be fine Champagne. 🙂

I think a lot of people have a tough time distinguishing between intuition and fear at times, so hopefully this experience helps you to figure that out for the future.

I agree with others here that it's best to try to gather all info first - benefit of the doubt. I'm glad that he just came out with things and told you the details so you didn't have to ask anything.

I had someone sleuth me one time when everything was fine. They admitted it to me and we worked through it - I could forgive them. They didn't repeat it.

ty! i'm moving in with him in may so it's gonna take a lot from me not to snoop around but i won't do it. sometimes i wonder if he does the same to me lol he'll occasionaly mention things that i don't remember telling him

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You're welcome, and great! I hope that the moving in goes well. 🙂

I wonder if some of your fears about what happened recently were, at least in part, triggered by the very natural kind of anxiety a person can have about living with someone.

It will be a big change, and hopefully a good one. But it's understandable that you might have some shifting feelings and thoughts that might manifest in different ways. If so, try to work through them consciously and the urge to snoop might go down. Just an idea, I don't know if that resonates with you or not . 🙂