Do you guys like aggression?

Today I was told " If you wanted me, you could have me"
WTH? I told him, I was not going to campaign to get anyone. He as a man has to pick me and I pick him so that we can come together. This is very unlike any Scorpio I've known.

We've been dating for 4 months but I asked why we haven't become boyfriend/girlfriend yet. That was his answer

OMG, I think my SO said that to me at one point, if I recall (that was a looong time ago, lol). Still don't get it. I mean there's only so much a girl can do. What, does he want you to chain him in the basement and lock the door? It smacks of game playing to me. I guess just make sure you're being possessive enough but not controlling in any way, lol.

Oops, didn't realize this was in the scorp forum. Yes, he probably WOULD want you to chain him up somewhere, but fun. Mine isn't scorpio, this may be a guy thing. Anyway, carry on...

looks like he wants more access. I haven't had him to my house (I've got kids), I haven't cooked for him (he's asked about my cooking a couple times) and my work schedule doesn't allow us to see each other a lot (I have more control over that than he does).
I think I say more than I do and he does more than he says