
HopefullyIrememberthisone
@HopefullyIrememberthisone
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Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonebland and boring when you two are alone?
So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, the thing is we "met" on a forum and while on there the "chemistry" even though online was pretty noticeable,things were playful and fun, then we moved to chatting over Instagram, where it was only the two of us and this is where things got pretty bland and kind of boring.
I don't want to go into details but sometimes he just goes cold, he has big mode swings but they're mostly when he's under stress or when he's tired, which I kind of learned to cope with. When he's like this I just turn it into joking if it doesn't seem like he's seriously stressed or I actually ask what's wrong and if he's okay if it seems like it's something bigger. But when I get moody he just gets moody back lol, it's like he has no interest in finding out the reason of why I'm being that way he just gets irritated and that's it.
We also tend to make a little breaks between texting, its mostly like 3 to 4 days and when we get back into it I just feel like he has already lost interest.
Firstly this is strange to me because I've never actually cared for anyone online in this nature since I just find it impossible to have a genuine connection over the internet and secondly I've never met someone with this many layers to their personality.
I'm a Leo btw.



Posted by nikkistar
Third times a charm huh?
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/does-a-scorpio-man-lose-interest-quickly-or-is-it-another-pretending-not-to-care-thing--8871009/
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/scorpios-inability-to-move-past-small-talk--8871067/

Posted by lesenfantterriblesyeah it is,especially because I get bored with people too easily but like I've said he has his moments where he really intrigues me, which is the only thing that keeps me interested
also, why keep talking to someone who is bland and boring?? that sounds like torture

Posted by bittercupcakeYeah that might actually be the case at the moment,I'm pretty sure he was into me until maybe like a week ago but I guess it was just as weak as it gets, it is an online thing after all lol
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢

Posted by bittercupcakeI never considered myself selfish once in a relationship but some I'd agree.
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢

Posted by bittercupcakePosted by Evoxxxscorpio2hmm... welllllll..... I'm saying as an outsider looking inward not inward looking out.Posted by bittercupcakeI never considered myself selfish once in a relationship but some I'd agree.
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
It's all about perceptions...what we perceive, how we are perceived, and who we truly are.
What you might perceive as a caring individual, others might perceive as uncaring or caring but only when it's of your convenience...and who you truly are is a balance between the two. A person who believes he's being a caring individual but it's actually being portrayed in a way that doesn't display that in a conventional way.
🙂 I know Scorpio men care - but .......... I noticed it's only when they're in the mood for it - which is a very small window and for a short amount of time lolclick to expand
Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢

Posted by RozaeonGood ? How's everything with you?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Oh there you are ! Where have you been ?
Lol you sure is having a lot of issues with this Scorpio.click to expand

Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, the thing is we "met" on a forum and while on there the "chemistry" even though online was pretty noticeable,things were playful and fun, then we moved to chatting over Instagram, where it was only the two of us and this is where things got pretty bland and kind of boring.
I don't want to go into details but sometimes he just goes cold, he has big mode swings but they're mostly when he's under stress or when he's tired, which I kind of learned to cope with. When he's like this I just turn it into joking if it doesn't seem like he's seriously stressed or I actually ask what's wrong and if he's okay if it seems like it's something bigger. But when I get moody he just gets moody back lol, it's like he has no interest in finding out the reason of why I'm being that way he just gets irritated and that's it.
We also tend to make a little breaks between texting, its mostly like 3 to 4 days and when we get back into it I just feel like he has already lost interest.

Posted by PhoenixRisingYeah that is the main issue and probably the reason I get bored with our convosPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
So I've been chatting to this guy for about 2 months, the thing is we "met" on a forum and while on there the "chemistry" even though online was pretty noticeable,things were playful and fun, then we moved to chatting over Instagram, where it was only the two of us and this is where things got pretty bland and kind of boring.
I don't want to go into details but sometimes he just goes cold, he has big mode swings but they're mostly when he's under stress or when he's tired, which I kind of learned to cope with. When he's like this I just turn it into joking if it doesn't seem like he's seriously stressed or I actually ask what's wrong and if he's okay if it seems like it's something bigger. But when I get moody he just gets moody back lol, it's like he has no interest in finding out the reason of why I'm being that way he just gets irritated and that's it.
We also tend to make a little breaks between texting, its mostly like 3 to 4 days and when we get back into it I just feel like he has already lost interest.
I would too. Take it off social media or move on because this won't get any better.
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Posted by LeoLady2017Tbh even if that was the case I don't really have the patience to wait for him to choose when to be hot, I would find it better if it's just him losing interest than him being like that and then when I cool off and he wants things back to hot, it could end up in him getting hurt if he just finds it normal to disappear and go cold even though he's still into the person because I don't find it normal lol
From my experience with scorpio men, this is common behavior. It's just their personality , so don't take it personally . I had one disappear & reappear at least once a week for months.

Posted by bittercupcakewell I only have a place and date of his birth and my full chart, so idk if that's enough or?Posted by lisabethur8Well, based on my reserach and observations - Scorpio men can run hot and cold. If they begin that way then that shows little interest but if it progresses then they eventually become that way....Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
but maybe if we see some placements, OP....
we can peek at how he goes about stuff and his attractions... lol
and yours too.
IDK - I would also love to see placementsclick to expand

Posted by bittercupcakeZodiac : TropicalPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisoneThat's fine...we won't know his house placements but at least we'll get a general picture of his planets... so shooot. 🙂Posted by bittercupcakewell I only have a place and date of his birth and my full chart, so idk if that's enough or?Posted by lisabethur8Well, based on my reserach and observations - Scorpio men can run hot and cold. If they begin that way then that shows little interest but if it progresses then they eventually become that way....Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
but maybe if we see some placements, OP....
we can peek at how he goes about stuff and his attractions... lol
and yours too.
IDK - I would also love to see placements
*Note: Idk why I'm getting the feeling he m.i.g.h.t. have an Aqua moon* lol - or venus/mars placements in thereclick to expand




Posted by bittercupcakeWell the was an absolute first hand insight lol,thanks you so much, this makes things very clearPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone0_0 .... you're right! TOO much Scorpio. That means that he's going to run very hot/cold....my ex was Leo sun / Scorpio moon and he'd be very hot and cold once we became emotionally involved. In the beginning he was very warm and embracing ALL the time - then as I dug deep, where his emotions lied, I realized there was a lot of pain and darkness...Posted by bittercupcakeZodiac : TropicalPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisoneThat's fine...we won't know his house placements but at least we'll get a general picture of his planets... so shooot. 🙂Posted by bittercupcakewell I only have a place and date of his birth and my full chart, so idk if that's enough or?Posted by lisabethur8Well, based on my reserach and observations - Scorpio men can run hot and cold. If they begin that way then that shows little interest but if it progresses then they eventually become that way....Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
but maybe if we see some placements, OP....
we can peek at how he goes about stuff and his attractions... lol
and yours too.
IDK - I would also love to see placements
*Note: Idk why I'm getting the feeling he m.i.g.h.t. have an Aqua moon* lol - or venus/mars placements in there
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
very selfish too....when he'd be moody - I'd always try and cheer him up; but GOD forbid if I ever was moody when he was having one of 'those days' because he'd be petty AND moody with me. He would ignore me when he'd get mad at me and when I would confront him he'd give me lame ass excuses -_- ... and he kind of laughed it off when I called BS ... but for the most part he'd always try and cheer me up when I was going through emotional distress
But..Scorpio moon is NO easy placement especially when they are THAT young. I see he has Sagittarius Pluto which means he probably is very young - around my nephews age 21 and younger. My ex was older but he still had a lot of issues... dealing with all that darkness is NO Bueno. I could tell the emotional struggle in his eyes - a lot of pain - lots of push/pull between him and I. When I'd get too close he'd push me away and when I was ready to walk he'd come back. It's a very intense and painful dynamic. I wouldn't recommend it.
That being said - what I experienced with my ex is exactly what it sounds like you will deal with especially because he's a Scorpio sun so he will embody a 'typical' Scorpio man. Remember Scorpios are ice - it can melt with your Leo sun powers lol - but you're both young and I don't see this working out. Same quality & challenging aspects take a lot of maturity from both individuals. And I can tell you aren't mature enough to sustain it (since you're already losing patience) and I doubt he is too.
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Did you always share your food? 😛Posted by bittercupcakeI never considered myself selfish once in a relationship but some I'd agree.
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢click to expand
Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by bittercupcakeZodiac : TropicalPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisoneThat's fine...we won't know his house placements but at least we'll get a general picture of his planets... so shooot. 🙂Posted by bittercupcakewell I only have a place and date of his birth and my full chart, so idk if that's enough or?Posted by lisabethur8Well, based on my reserach and observations - Scorpio men can run hot and cold. If they begin that way then that shows little interest but if it progresses then they eventually become that way....Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
but maybe if we see some placements, OP....
we can peek at how he goes about stuff and his attractions... lol
and yours too.
IDK - I would also love to see placements
*Note: Idk why I'm getting the feeling he m.i.g.h.t. have an Aqua moon* lol - or venus/mars placements in there
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lolclick to expand

Posted by RozaeonNot gonna be posting food cause I'm on a strict diet at the moment lol all the goodies gotta go.Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Better, thank you for asking ^^Posted by RozaeonGood ? How's everything with you?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Oh there you are ! Where have you been ?
Lol you sure is having a lot of issues with this Scorpio.click to expand

Posted by MyStarsShineLol no food sharing at the moment very strict clean diet right now. I'm good btw how about yourself?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Did you always share your food? 😛Posted by bittercupcakeI never considered myself selfish once in a relationship but some I'd agree.
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
How are you?click to expand



Posted by lisabethur8Shows why he seems so hard to handlePosted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by bittercupcakeZodiac : TropicalPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisoneThat's fine...we won't know his house placements but at least we'll get a general picture of his planets... so shooot. 🙂Posted by bittercupcakewell I only have a place and date of his birth and my full chart, so idk if that's enough or?Posted by lisabethur8Well, based on my reserach and observations - Scorpio men can run hot and cold. If they begin that way then that shows little interest but if it progresses then they eventually become that way....Posted by bittercupcakei didnt get that either...
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
but maybe if we see some placements, OP....
we can peek at how he goes about stuff and his attractions... lol
and yours too.
IDK - I would also love to see placements
*Note: Idk why I'm getting the feeling he m.i.g.h.t. have an Aqua moon* lol - or venus/mars placements in there
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
he got way too much scorpio for your Leo sun. lol (a stellium)
and he's got scorpio moon too, it's probably why you think he's boring.
Leo sun with Scorpio sun does well if the Scorpio has Fire or Air moon.
and you have an earth or water moon and most definitely if the Scorpio man has a stellium in libra.
i dont know why...but stellium in libras in Scorpio men seem to do very well with Fire suns/Air suns.
for example,Eric Dane is a Scorpio with Sagittarius moon, and a 4 stellium libra planets,
https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Eric_Dane
& his wife has a Taurus moon,
no rising so it's incomplete. lol
and there's other Scorpio men, like Jonny Lee Miller who has been 2x with Air suns, because of that Libra stellium. It's just an example. https://www.astrotheme.com/astrology/Jonny_Lee_Miller
you're going to find him boring. His water and earth is going to overtake and your Leo sun is not feeling all that great, the fire is going to be put out. This is why you already were yawning in the beginning.
Or else why would you be complaining?
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Posted by Deedee86Yes we have lol, it's just mostly texting because I had no time for any like long night phone calls
Have you two ever actually spoken? Have you heard his voice? Have you seen his face?
If not, I would be highly suspicious.

Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by Deedee86Yes we have lol, it's just mostly texting because I had no time for any like long night phone calls
Have you two ever actually spoken? Have you heard his voice? Have you seen his face?
If not, I would be highly suspicious.click to expand

Posted by Deedee86That's exactly how I see it as well,I think most people do,but unfortunately there's just no chance in that happeningPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by Deedee86Yes we have lol, it's just mostly texting because I had no time for any like long night phone calls
Have you two ever actually spoken? Have you heard his voice? Have you seen his face?
If not, I would be highly suspicious.
Ok....just checking. I was going to say that he may be a married, 65 year old shut in.
But, he and I share a sun, Venus and Mercury placement. For me, a texting or social media only relationship gets old really fast. I need real life interaction. It's hard to connect and evolve with someone when you can't look them in they eye or touch them.
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Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by Deedee86That's exactly how I see it as well,I think most people do,but unfortunately there's just no chance in that happeningPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by Deedee86Yes we have lol, it's just mostly texting because I had no time for any like long night phone calls
Have you two ever actually spoken? Have you heard his voice? Have you seen his face?
If not, I would be highly suspicious.
Ok....just checking. I was going to say that he may be a married, 65 year old shut in.
But, he and I share a sun, Venus and Mercury placement. For me, a texting or social media only relationship gets old really fast. I need real life interaction. It's hard to connect and evolve with someone when you can't look them in they eye or touch them.
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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Sounds healthyPosted by MyStarsShineLol no food sharing at the moment very strict clean diet right now. I'm good btw how about yourself?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Did you always share your food? 😛Posted by bittercupcakeI never considered myself selfish once in a relationship but some I'd agree.
Despite popular belief.... Scorpio men are actually selfish - especially the young ones... they are hot/cold and what not once the relationship progresses but...
this guy just doesn't sound like he's interested or has lost interest.....just my 2¢
How are you?click to expand
Posted by Deedee86Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by Deedee86Yes we have lol, it's just mostly texting because I had no time for any like long night phone calls
Have you two ever actually spoken? Have you heard his voice? Have you seen his face?
If not, I would be highly suspicious.
Ok....just checking. I was going to say that he may be a married, 65 year old shut in.
But, he and I share a sun, Venus and Mercury placement. For me, a texting or social media only relationship gets old really fast. I need real life interaction. It's hard to connect and evolve with someone when you can't look them in they eye or touch them.
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Posted by LeoLady2017
From my experience with scorpio men, this is common behavior. It's just their personality , so don't take it personally . I had one disappear & reappear at least once a week for months.

Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol

Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
Lol. It really isn't.
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Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
Lol. It really isn't.
It really isn't what lol
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Posted by PhoenixRisingLol well I guess there's always worsePosted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
Lol. It really isn't.
It really isn't what lol
Really isn't a lot Scorpio placements in his chart.
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Posted by HopefullyIrememberthisone😆 I suppose so....Posted by PhoenixRisingLol well I guess there's always worsePosted by HopefullyIrememberthisonePosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by HopefullyIrememberthisone
Zodiac : Tropical
Sun Scorpio 17°40'
Moon Scorpio 0°31'
Mercury Scorpio 22°21'
Venus Libra 13°43'
Mars Virgo 5°43'
Jupiter Capricorn 14°17'
Saturn Aries 1°06' R
Uranus Aquarius 1°03'
Neptune Capricorn 25°19'
Pluto Sagittarius 2°26'
Lilith Leo 15°30'
Asc node Libra 7°20'
this is his, soooo many scorpios lol
Lol. It really isn't.
It really isn't what lol
Really isn't a lot Scorpio placements in his chart.
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Posted by Scorpio123Are you from a different country/continent? why dont you meet up, in person, you know, like normal people do if they are interested?
Why are you still just texting after 2 months? ?

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2You haven't gone—
Lol you sure is having a lot of issues with this Scorpio.

Posted by GemitatiNope lolPosted by Evoxxxscorpio2You haven't gone—
Lol you sure is having a lot of issues with this Scorpio.
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Posted by Pandora101Posted by Scorpio123Are you from a different country/continent? why dont you meet up, in person, you know, like normal people do if they are interested?
Why are you still just texting after 2 months? ?
Maybe I missed some vital information, sorry... why are you communicating online and texts? why not in person? what is the barrier?
and, OP, you said, you are not for long late night calls.... you seem so invested, so it must be that he is not calling you? I dont understand really what is going on
you cant have a relationship with someone you have never met in person
are you that bored? or what is it?
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Posted by RozaeonLol harhar nopePosted by Evoxxxscorpio2I see, instead you will post pictures of your car :pPosted by RozaeonNot gonna be posting food cause I'm on a strict diet at the moment lol all the goodies gotta go.Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Better, thank you for asking ^^Posted by RozaeonGood ? How's everything with you?Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2Oh there you are ! Where have you been ?
Lol you sure is having a lot of issues with this Scorpio.click to expand
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I don't want to go into details but sometimes he just goes cold, he has big mode swings but they're mostly when he's under stress or he's tired, which I kind of learned to cope with. When he's like this I just turn it into joking if it doesn't seem like he's seriously stressed or I actually ask what's wrong and if he's okay if it seems like it's something bigger. But when I get moody he just gets moody back lol, it's like he has no interest in finding out the reason of why I'm being that way he just gets irritated and that's it.
We also tend to make a little breaks between texting, its mostly like 3 to 4 days and when we get back into it I just feel like he has already lost interest.
Firstly this is strange to me because I've never actually cared for anyone online in this nature since I just find it impossible to have a genuine connection over the internet and secondly I've never met someone with this many layers to their personality.
I'm Leo btw.