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new interest - scorpio 1st decan - any help ?
Understanding First Decan Scorpio Traits
First decan Scorpios, born between October 23 and November 1, are known for their intensity, determination, and emotional depth. They tend to be loyal, ambitious, and passionate, often seeking meaningful connections. Knowing these traits can help you better understand their behavior and dispositions during your meeting.
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!
Posted by Explicit
Damn that's tough. No matter what decan any sign is, throw on a Leo or Gemini Moon and it will drastically change them.I say be yourself and see where things go.
Btw, I really admire people who can just go and meet a new person and go on some date with them. I would feel so awkward. "So um... What do you do?" lol.
thanks, and it's funny that you said that - some guy just walked up behind me after I left the desk in the clinic and asked me out on a date - wow, you don't get that everyday - he seems nice so I said yes to coffee and to get to know him first which is what I need to feel comfortable in response to yours above - I have to talk enough up front to the point that I can go out and feel comfortable with that person - I could tell he knew I saw right through him as when he approached me he asked me if I was with ... the company he worked for - said he thought he knew me or thought I was a customer lol - right - first I thought it was a sales approach - then he sort of blushed and said well he just thought I looked nice and I'm beautiful and blah blah ... I'm schmarter than that lololol
I will always be myself and appear calm on the outside but I seem to swim inside - freaking Pisces Mars - I have to keep things on the down low - he may be a psychopath - one never knows ...
and you are right, not sure what the other placements are - he seems easy to talk to so far but we've only chatted a bit - physically he is not my type but I do need to be open to other types and explore that realm and why I insist sticking to a type when nothing is happening anyway - guess I'll have to find out where and when he was born
one red flag so far is that he's never been married - interesting for someone who is 55 no~ ...
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!
lol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
one red flag so far is that he's never been married - interesting for someone who is 55 no~ ...
Why?
I have no plans to ever get married. That doesn't mean I'm not looking for a lifetime companion.
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you know, I don't know other than most people go that normal route - at least once - I guess - I hear what you are saying - some people know themselves that well - know they don't want children and family life, etc. guess part of that is because I'm a very homey Taurus - so why would he not have a lifetime companion by now ? he said it was because he was in the military and moved around a lot
Posted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
his is 10/24 lol - hoping for other good placements lol - thank you!
Posted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
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I can tell LOL !
Thanks!
Posted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
lol
Posted by leowww
1st decan are the scorpios I like most!!Astrology is fun but don't let this kind of stuff get to your nerves or influence you!
Have a good time 🙂
Keep us posted!
thanks I will !
Posted by Explicit
Damn that's tough. No matter what decan any sign is, throw on a Leo or Gemini Moon and it will drastically change them.I say be yourself and see where things go.
Btw, I really admire people who can just go and meet a new person and go on some date with them. I would feel so awkward. "So um... What do you do?" lol.
and, well, we have to start somewhere ...
55 and never married? Wow, that is interesting. Well, I wish you luck and hope you have a good time. 😛
I know right, that's what I said to him - that was interesting cause I normally do not meet men who have never been married - one topic for convo at least ... thanks!
Posted by dolluxe
Like I mentioned in previous posts I have a LOT of Scorpios around me be it platonic friendships or romantic interests. One thing I've noticed, those born in November are less crazy compared to those born in October. Then again it could be their other placements..... Or my ex and current scorp are just nutjobs since they're born October 26th and 23rd. 😆
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lol ya know he kind of looked like that but I thought he was looking at my boobs lol
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!lol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
Not really red flag he could have had long term relationships last 15 years for all we know
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see how much you learn as you get older - every time I was out there in the dating scene I was always cautious about a man who had never been married - silly me for missing out - now I'm just curious - everybody is truly different !
Posted by TaurusinTexas
Sweet friend, just enjoy that coffee and don't worry about his Scorpio bits. Just be yourself, you're a taurus, he'll eat you up!lol not sure I want that yet - he's not my usual type but seemed nice enough so far as long as he's no psycho - 55 and never been married ? red flag ... but I will enjoy whatever has blown my way - see my other post for the "scoop" lol - thanks!!!
Not really red flag he could have had long term relationships last 15 years for all we know
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said he was in the military for 20 years I think he said and couldn't do anything long term ...
lol ya know he kind of looked like that but I thought he was looking at my boobs lol
Wouldn't be surprised if he was 😆
First decans are fun to be with, as Misted said they're laid back until you witness those moments
lol - omg, no thank you, I don't want to witness those moments - I am getting way too old for that crap - people go off on me now, I pull over and they will get out !
Posted by Impulsv
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio-stare/most-intense-scorpio-stare-6926049/Did he give I that stare!!
strange - no it wasn't like that - he seem confident in what he was doing but nervous underneath - he had very very blue eyes which I am not accustomed too with "stares" - normally it's the dark eyes that get me ... so it confused me but when I stared at him he had to look away
I don't get it ?
I don't get it ?
Y'all calling me crazy -_-
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no I didn't call you crazy - I said I don't like crazy - you haven't been crazy to me - you're always nice ...
? Hmmm... Just don't make up your mind so quickly. I don't think single at 55 = red flag. Just go with the flow and see what presents itself. He might be a great guy, you never know! Just don't sell yourself too short too quickly.
Good luck and have fun!
thank you, I am trying to just go with it and see - he seems like a really nice person ...
Posted by tcta
just met someone and found out he's 1st decan scorpio - I know nothing more - any general help on general disposition ? I just don't have the time to read all through this section on scorpio.My signs listed in my avi ...
we are just meeting for coffee tomorrow ...
I personally think they are more laid back in general.
Agreed.
First decan Scorps are more relaxed.
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thanks - that's good cause I'm very laid back myself - at least until someone pisses me off lol
I am a first decan scorpio rising and if this helps:
This Scorpio/PLUTO decan of Scorpio rising is, of course, the most typical. Very much of what was covered above applies fully, but there is more. The fixed nature of Scorpio gives you a tremendous amount of tenacity (staying power). Once you set out to accomplish anything, you will persist regardless of the obstacles until you finally succeed. Aiding this determination is the cardinal sub-influence of this first decan, which can help to supply you with the stamina, energy, and drive to persist very actively.
Of all with Scorpio rising, you are the one who is most private and secretive. You absolutely will not reveal anything about your personal life unless you expressly desire to do so. Actually, you may be too personally "self-contained" for your own good since others with whom you must relate may think you are covering up things which might be a threat to them. Remember that your own suspicions can arouse the suspicions of others. Work on learning to be a bit more open and trusting until you find a real reason not to be.
Your physical appearance typically inclines to darker skin and hair color than those with other decans of Scorpio rising. Eat sensibly or you could develop a weight problem, especially as the years pass. You truly like to maintain the status quo and adjust rather slowly to changes in your everyday life; therefore, you'd do well to strive for "regularity" in as many areas of your life as possible. In career/work/business, you might be especially successful if you become involved with some type of research or investigation. You may be expert at ferreting out anything that's hidden from normal view.
It's probable that you have a very accented libido which makes you (and others) very much aware of how sexy and sensual you appear. It's not uncommon for you to get rather personal, even gross attention from some others which you'd rather not have. If you dress too provocatively, you may be inviting situations which you could do without.
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
I am a first decan scorpio rising and if this helps:This Scorpio/PLUTO decan of Scorpio rising is, of course, the most typical. Very much of what was covered above applies fully, but there is more. The fixed nature of Scorpio gives you a tremendous amount of tenacity (staying power). Once you set out to accomplish anything, you will persist regardless of the obstacles until you finally succeed. Aiding this determination is the cardinal sub-influence of this first decan, which can help to supply you with the stamina, energy, and drive to persist very actively.
Of all with Scorpio rising, you are the one who is most private and secretive. You absolutely will not reveal anything about your personal life unless you expressly desire to do so. Actually, you may be too personally "self-contained" for your own good since others with whom you must relate may think you are covering up things which might be a threat to them. Remember that your own suspicions can arouse the suspicions of others. Work on learning to be a bit more open and trusting until you find a real reason not to be.
Your physical appearance typically inclines to darker skin and hair color than those with other decans of Scorpio rising. Eat sensibly or you could develop a weight problem, especially as the years pass. You truly like to maintain the status quo and adjust rather slowly to changes in your everyday life; therefore, you'd do well to strive for "regularity" in as many areas of your life as possible. In career/work/business, you might be especially successful if you become involved with some type of research or investigation. You may be expert at ferreting out anything that's hidden from normal view.
It's probable that you have a very accented libido which makes you (and others) very much aware of how sexy and sensual you appear. It's not uncommon for you to get rather personal, even gross attention from some others which you'd rather not have. If you dress too provocatively, you may be inviting situations which you could do without.
thank you - I will post later once I see how coffee goes
Posted by tcta
just met someone and found out he's 1st decan scorpio - I know nothing more - any general help on general disposition ? I just don't have the time to read all through this section on scorpio.My signs listed in my avi ...
we are just meeting for coffee tomorrow ...
I personally think they are more laid back in general.
Agreed.
First decan Scorps are more relaxed.
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No way, we are warriors 😄
First decan of Scorpio, which is ruled by Pluto, the second closest minor or dwarf planet to the Sun and named after the Roman god of the underworld.
In astrology, Pluto is synonymous with transformation, elimination, regeneration, rebirth as well as healing. It is also powerful, determined, obsessive and compulsive. That might be why your nearest and dearest would describe you as a fearless warrior that not only possesses great tenacity and courage, but also the remarkable ability to rebounce from failure and start afresh. You are emotionally resilient and can see or rather, create opportunities for growth in the face of turmoil, challenges, setbacks and stressful situations.
I think 2nd(Pisces) decan is most relaxed, then 1st(Scorpio) then 3rd (Cancer)
Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
http://astrotunity.com/scorpio-decans-personality-traits.html
that link could describe me in a lot of ways - but the only Scorpio I have is in Neptune and I don't know a lot about astrology - still learning ... so seeing those traits in someone else I would "get it" - thank you!
Posted by Unwording
I had a pumpkin spice latte earlier this morning, thinking how the hell do they manage to squeeze an entire season into a cup of deliciousness-- MAGIC! Highly recommend it. lolHave fun. 🙂
sounds delicious and apropos so rather than my usual cup of black joe, I will have the "pumpkin spice latte" ooola lah !
Posted by Unwording
I had a pumpkin spice latte earlier this morning, thinking how the hell do they manage to squeeze an entire season into a cup of deliciousness-- MAGIC! Highly recommend it. lolHave fun. 🙂
sounds delicious and apropos so rather than my usual cup of black joe, I will have the "pumpkin spice latte" ooola lah !
I promise.
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cute and thanks - is this BG2 - gurl !
I promise.
cute and thanks - is this BG2 - gurl !
No, I believe she's gone Feral. lol
oh ok - she was back - maybe just here and there ... nice to talk to you !
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just met someone and found out he's 1st decan scorpio - I know nothing more - any general help on general disposition ? I just don't have the time to read all through this section on scorpio.
My signs listed in my avi ...
we are just meeting for coffee tomorrow ...