yeah SB is right....I think we can be much tougher on our Lovers (i never use that word btw....sounds like a soap opera) than our friends....its a different relationship....
Seriously I want the lover to be a friend too, I just allow my intense "lover feelings" to get too much in the way. I sometimes wished I could look rationally, and 10 steps back to see it as it really is, the way I see & treat my friends. Does that make sense?
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