From Scorpio's perspective.. Scorp male.(long)

You have may have seen a similar post I made on relationships, but I was asking simple astrological compatibility. Now I'm looking for more depth into Scorpios mind frame. Now, do not at all get me wrong, I am not complaining, or saying there is any kind of problem what-so-ever, I simply like to discuss things and get other peoples opinions.

I'm an Aquarius in the beginning of a relationship with a Scorpio. Lots of people have said, astrologically we aren't compatible as more than friends. He's a strongly influenced Scorpio, I think about 5 in his chart.

In terms of sex, in past relationships he has most defiantly not been (we have been friends for years) typical of Scorpio, although I have read that some Scorpios tend to consider restraining a form of control. He says with me it's different and we do have sex frequently, has anyone else experienced something like this?

Moving onto the next thing, he has said to me that on and off he has liked me since a little after we first meet. I too have felt this from time to time. The night that sparked us being well us, was one of the most intense connections to anyone I have ever felt. However he had a gf at the time, the stick that I have got is that he didn't end up loving her much at all, and nothing was said and nothing happened. Anyway, a bit later a few weeks I think I started to realize I had not only fallen for him, but fallen in love, after dithering and dathering I just spat it out, only to get back what I least expected that he loved me too. He ended up cheating on the ex with me, and left her even though he knew at the time I did not intend to get into a relationship with him.
Eventually we got closer and closer, he hooked up with a few people in this time, as did I and we were both honest and eventually we have ended up in a relationship. I had freaked out and terminated it a few times, but we have always continued to keep communication lines open and stayed close.
Anyway, the point I am trying to get to IS that he has told me that I mean more to him than anyone else, and I don't get the impression he is lying however do any of you feel like this often and such. Scorpios are known for there honesty. When you say that someone really means everything to you, do you truly mean it the way you describe it? He treats me better than anyone I have been with ever has. However some people have said that's because I seem unattainable??

Pretty much, whats your opinion?

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Awesome :] Great to hear positive things 😄

Def the intellectual thing is hudge. 😄.

A lot of people said to me that we would get on cuz Scorpio needs to be in control and such, I actually haven't found this a problem whatsoever. What I am dead fixed on, either my partner agrees on it with me or he doesn't particularly take an interest in the issue and vis versa. I like that I can't boss him around and he demands the same level of respect I do. If there ever is a big issue, we leave it if unimportant. Or come back to it later and talk it through. I just love he's a talker.

Yeh, exactly, I am not a robot or anything and he gets that, but he also gets that I am not as emotional as he as, or maybe better put, in the same way. It's kids movies for me, and no matter how many times I watch My Girl gets me every time!!

He gets a lot of things about me and doesn't berate me or call me stupid for things plenty of others have.

He's also very very respectful of me of my life etc..

My Grandma is Aqua my Grandpa is Scorp. And they have been married almost 50years, and they are still very happy, I catch them holding hands and smiling and stuff still 😛.

My Aqua can seem to be all intellect until we watch his favorite movies (usually Sports dramas) and then he gets a little tear twinkle in his eye when the underdogs come from behind and win the game! Or when the father wants to play catch with the son (Field of Dreams)that kind of thing

I thought I only did this. That Kevin Costner can do no wrong. Does he cry when he watched We Are Marshall and Friday Night Lights? I sure as hell do.

Scorpio men, although said to be controling and possessive (and yes, I am finding this to be true to an extent)they have a very soft and sweet side to them that is pretty irresistable. Scorp ment seem to be of good nature, they are dependable. When they something, they mean it (like us scorp girls). It is a relief to find someone is like me on some level. I never got along with scorp men before except my Godfather I adore him. Not even as friends, their sarcasim would drive me nuts.

However, the recent scorp is fun, keeps me laughing and reliable and we all know reliability goes big with scorp girls. I am finding that I may be able to get along with a scorp guy afterall. Relief... Did I say they could be controling? I think a woman has to make it clear to them that they won't be controlled and things will smooth out.

Let me add this cuz I don't think it's been mentioned. For me, I may feel as if I love someone, but don't say it. Gotta feel like it's mutual..So when I do say it, you better darn well know that I mean it and feel it to the core of my existence!

***Let me add this cuz I don't think it's been mentioned. For me, I may feel as if I love someone, but don't say it. Gotta feel like it's mutual..So when I do say it, you better darn well know that I mean it and feel it to the core of my existence✨**

I know scorp women feel this way. Are you talking about scorp men as well.

What if a scorp guy (who you aren't in a relationship with - just hanging out) often asks if you love him, or "tell me you love me?" It is cute but can be uncomfortable at the same time especially when you don't love him. Just like him.

Thank-you so much everyone. I love finding out this stuff.

You're definitely on the right track with your scorp man if he says he loves you he means it and know that it took alot out of him to even say it. Scorps do not want to be hurt so they tend to mask their feelings by being very nonchalant about emotions but underneath that exterior lies a tender man yearning to be loved and secure. That's sort of the problem with the aqua/scorp combo cause both have trouble with hiding their true feelings in fear of rejection. So with maturity, understanding of the other, and open communication this can really work and in my opinion be one of the most strongest couples around. I am an aqua girl and was in love with a scorp male and even though the feeling was there we both played too many games hiding our feelings until it was too late (i guess it wasn't our time). So my advice to you is "on your mind out your mouth" and don't let that sexy creature get away smile!

Sounds like good advice haha 😛

Recently met an aqua and yes he's very witty and we get on brilliantly..he planted a smacker on my lips..I had to quickly retreat and run away cos well I love my Aries...But I can see Aqua coming back.

Oooops I did it again, I made him believe, we're more than just friends...

He wouldn't say things like that if he didn't mean them. Trust me, we just don't say things to feel our mouths move! If he had the courage to tell you what he has said, he is definitely feeling it. Treasure that and keep it close to your heart, because the more he feels like you care about him, trust him, get him, the more he will move toward you!!!

"He ended up cheating on the ex with me, and left her even though he knew at the time I did not intend to get into a relationship with him."

This is a non-Scorpio flag. Unless they had a clear agreement or he told her, "hey, I'm gonna see other people okay?" I've done this in the past, but clearly let the other person know.

"Scorps do not want to be hurt so they tend to mask their feelings by being very nonchalant about emotions but underneath that exterior lies a tender man yearning to be loved and secure."

Scorpios can be big-time loners as well. We don't necessarily need to be in a relationship.

***Scorpios can be big-time loners as well. We don't necessarily need to be in a relationship.***

This is true for male and female.

the last scorpio male I encountered asked me about flirting my sense of flirting and being open with people, went down hill from their lol...I guess its that scorpio possessing his prey type thing, couldn't deal with my personality, guess thats why people say scorp and aqua doesn't go together well, I simply can't be possessed, no way, no how, jus not happening but I like reading other peoples experiences.

"I have a similar problem Tiki. I simply WILL NOT be possessed !!! That's my moon in aqua. And yet, I continue to have relationships with those damned Scorps. Sigh...such is life."

I rarely meet Scorp males, I'm intrigued enough to go their but man, I dunno, love the energy these 2 signs, really nice but I'm a people person, affectionate type, not so much touchy feely but I do have a tendency to focus on people that are in my presence which doesn't seem to fair well with Scorp males.

PlutoPride great story, I guess I should go older when it comes to men...wise turns me on lol.

Yes TaurusBabe he does, I'm so mental, love when a guy can turn on my neurons LOL!

Oh Pluto I know Aries women quite well, she's a warrior for sure and she will not tolerate any BS.

51 isn't old by the way, your jus getting started *grinning*

red wine and hot sex does the body good *cheese eating grin*

***My best friends often told me when they first met me that that thought I was a bit of a snob (perhaps I am just very selective as all scorps are), once they were allowed in of course their perception changed***

I get this a lot from the opposite sex. Men sometimes seem intimidated to approach me until they actually have a conversation with me. Except Librans for some reason. Weird...

BOO!

did you do it? this haloween? remember?

howzit going with the scorp? back to talking terms?

really? wow,i feel so ancient now! looks like i have been out of dxp spin for too long.
haahaa
oh now c'mon tell me what happened? i am curous😛

**off to check out the thread at the speed of spaceship enterprize**

haahaa,ok i am laughing so hard right now.like i can see the whole scene running infront of me right now.i had imagined something like this should happen.guess i was right afterall.good for little ghost.finally you got your treat😛

so finally so sound a little relieved.pooof!
now,just let him take the lead.i think he knows that by now,you take your sweet time to open up.i feel it is going to be smoother ride now.it feels good to see some happy news here,adds color to my otherwise grey world right now.

ah yes,it keeps me going,even i get pretty tired sometimes.because i know,at the end of the tunnel,there's light!!
haahaa
waiting for the paradise!😛

🙂
ah dont distract me now,otherwise i will turn into a fish and then waste the rest of my night in waking dreams.
**tries to pull back**