@Echo
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Posted by MacDaddyInfinite"I thought you guys dont listen and just let the words enter one ear to another."
Lmao, you sure did think, huh?
I sure did, cause he was always lost in our conversation
Posted by EllygantIf I like someone pretty much every conversation is cataloged accordingly to later provide them with exactly the things they want. If I love you then I do it automatically, to the degree I try to predict your needs based off history. Even idle chit chat is a way to connect with you later.
I think it’s why I’ve only dated mainly cancers and other Scorpios. They’re the only ones that recognize this focused effort off top. Most other signs accept it but overlook how vital it is to my being loyal to someone. Till I bounce anyways lol.
I didn't realize until now you're a Scorpio
Posted by tizianiYeah it's not a good thing in itself. Memorising past conversations.
It creates expectations that you won't change.
But gifting and generosity is different.
I miss your wise words Tiz
Posted by tizianiYeah it's not a good thing in itself. Memorising past conversations.
It creates expectations that you won't change.
But gifting and generosity is different.
😒
What a power struggle.. Sigh..
Posted by MacDaddyInfinitePosted by EchoI sure did, cause he was always lost in our conversation
Well don't let him off the hook, cause when dudes do that they do it on purpose. We still hear what you said, we're just pretending not to. To get the upper hand.click to expand
Damn, I am so gullible 🤔 hmmmm
Are you a scorpio? What sun are you
Posted by AneemA11What a power struggle.. Sigh..
??
Posted by EchoPosted by AneemA11What a power struggle.. Sigh..
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Good memories = power struggle
Posted by EllygantIf I like someone pretty much every conversation is cataloged accordingly to later provide them with exactly the things they want. If I love you then I do it automatically, to the degree I try to predict your needs based off history. Even idle chit chat is a way to connect with you later.
I think it’s why I’ve only dated mainly cancers and other Scorpios. They’re the only ones that recognize this focused effort off top. Most other signs accept it but overlook how vital it is to my being loyal to someone. Till I bounce anyways lol.
Have you dated a Capricorn before?
I have a problem with him.. 😢
Posted by EllygantPosted by AneemA11Posted by EllygantIf I like someone pretty much every conversation is cataloged accordingly to later provide them with exactly the things they want. If I love you then I do it automatically, to the degree I try to predict your needs based off history. Even idle chit chat is a way to connect with you later.
I think it’s why I’ve only dated mainly cancers and other Scorpios. They’re the only ones that recognize this focused effort off top. Most other signs accept it but overlook how vital it is to my being loyal to someone. Till I bounce anyways lol.
Have you dated a Capricorn before?
I have a problem with him.. 😢
I’ve attracted them before but I never really date, we talk for a bit then move on.
Cap men are like Scorp men, hit or miss and very intense either way. They’re either very manipulative and self-serving or exceptional, hard working and have immense generosity. I run into the second type more oft than not, but I find they’re also looking for more traditional women, stay at home, support the family type. That’s not for me so we normally politely separate at that point.
And they move very slow too. Earth signs in general like to set the pace and that pace is very measured and incremental. I like a little more speed and a little more back and forth, both people taking the lead at different times.
Caps respond to space very well. If he’s upset or pushing you out then it’s probably cause he needs to collect himself, he’s working hard on something or trying to make a decision. And he doesn’t want to be influenced by anyone other than himself, so he alone is responsible. It’s how they focus. Drop a short sweet affirmation and let him be. Then literally, don’t worry about it. Occupy your attention and mind elsewhere. If he is dedicated he’ll come back around, stronger than before. If not than you left with grace and knowing it was out of your control anyways.
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We're always listening, paying attention and mentally making a note of things to be used when you least expect it.
If you matter, we remember.
PS that works for lies too 🙂
Posted by EllygantIf I like someone pretty much every conversation is cataloged accordingly to later provide them with exactly the things they want. If I love you then I do it automatically, to the degree I try to predict your needs based off history. Even idle chit chat is a way to connect with you later.
I think it’s why I’ve only dated mainly cancers and other Scorpios. They’re the only ones that recognize this focused effort off top. Most other signs accept it but overlook how vital it is to my being loyal to someone. Till I bounce anyways lol.
Scorp: That smells nice, what are you wearing?
Me: It's my favorite. I think they may discontinue it. I can't really find it anymore. Why do you ask?
Scorp: Is it a secret?
Me: No, but you don't wear perfume.
Scorp: I'm just curious.
Me: Do you plan on buying me a bottle?
Scorp: *smirks* No.
Me: Hmph. Liar. *laugh*
Posted by tizianiYeah it's not a good thing in itself. Memorising past conversations.
It creates expectations that you won't change.
But gifting and generosity is different.
Hmph.
Posted by EllygantPosted by EchoPosted by EllygantIf I like someone pretty much every conversation is cataloged accordingly to later provide them with exactly the things they want. If I love you then I do it automatically, to the degree I try to predict your needs based off history. Even idle chit chat is a way to connect with you later.
I think it’s why I’ve only dated mainly cancers and other Scorpios. They’re the only ones that recognize this focused effort off top. Most other signs accept it but overlook how vital it is to my being loyal to someone. Till I bounce anyways lol.
I didn't realize until now you're a Scorpio
Lol! What’s you think I was before?
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A fire sign
Posted by HeartofTopazzThat was a nice story
Lmao
Posted by UnusualVaginalDischargeOh i thought we were sharing happy memories
I have a good memory if the stuff I’m memorizing is important to me
You could!! 🙂
Posted by GobbyWell, you're well and truly fucked... 😆
.well damn thanks LOL
Posted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
I was thinking the same thing when I read it lol.
Posted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
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Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
I was thinking the same thing when I read it lol.
Ok I googled it, it’s the little plushie in her avi pic 😅
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Lmfaooooo I just saw this
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
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YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
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Oh, that was a cute movie. I didn't think I would like it.
Posted by EchoYESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Ah, that is probably what made it all the more enjoyable for him to give it to you.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by EchoYESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Ah, that is probably what made it all the more enjoyable for him to give it to you.
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😂😂😂😂 You just reminded me, the night he gave it to me - I didnt even snuggle up with him in bed I put the baymax between us. And his like "what the fawk?" With that confuse sheepish smile of his
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
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Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Nooo expect this, it’s a good thing. My Scorpio ex was the same. If I was having a bad day or emotional he would watch my fav movie with me and get me a whole box of Cinnabon’s (he knows I loved those). He just wanted to see me happy, they’re super sweet.
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😐 the only difference is.... we dont have a title or a label.... like... we aren't even dating
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Nooo expect this, it’s a good thing. My Scorpio ex was the same. If I was having a bad day or emotional he would watch my fav movie with me and get me a whole box of Cinnabon’s (he knows I loved those). He just wanted to see me happy, they’re super sweet.
😐 the only difference is.... we dont have a title or a label.... like... we aren't even dating
Don’t worry about labels just go with the flow, eventually it will fall into place. We didn’t talk about it, we just kept seeing each other all the time than one day he called me his gf and asked me if I wanted the same, our relationship started. Enjoy this moment. ☺️❤️
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AWWWWW you give me hope 😫😘💕
Posted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Nooo expect this, it’s a good thing. My Scorpio ex was the same. If I was having a bad day or emotional he would watch my fav movie with me and get me a whole box of Cinnabon’s (he knows I loved those). He just wanted to see me happy, they’re super sweet.
😐 the only difference is.... we dont have a title or a label.... like... we aren't even dating
Don’t worry about labels just go with the flow, eventually it will fall into place. We didn’t talk about it, we just kept seeing each other all the time than one day he called me his gf and asked me if I wanted the same, our relationship started. Enjoy this moment. ☺️❤️
AWWWWW you give me hope 😫😘💕
💗💗
he wouldn’t get you your fav gift if he didn’t care about you. Look at his actions.
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I had to hide my other forum after reading this.
Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Nooo expect this, it’s a good thing. My Scorpio ex was the same. If I was having a bad day or emotional he would watch my fav movie with me and get me a whole box of Cinnabon’s (he knows I loved those). He just wanted to see me happy, they’re super sweet.
😐 the only difference is.... we dont have a title or a label.... like... we aren't even dating
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Not every Scorp likes to use labels. I don't. At some point, you should get a sense of what is happening though if you want more.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_Posted by EchoPosted by Mariposa_This was cute, what’s a baymax? Lol
From the movie Big Hero 6
I’ve never seen that movie. I’m gonna get it so me and my little one can watch it.
Baymax is actually that plushie right next to me on my main profile pic 🙂 and it's a really good movie
Yeah I had to search it up lol is that the one he gave you?
YESSSSSSAS 💕💕 omfg cause looking for a Baymax in stores is also hard to find.
Well he made it happen! 💗
Honestly that is a first for me, for a guy to make things happen
Nooo expect this, it’s a good thing. My Scorpio ex was the same. If I was having a bad day or emotional he would watch my fav movie with me and get me a whole box of Cinnabon’s (he knows I loved those). He just wanted to see me happy, they’re super sweet.
😐 the only difference is.... we dont have a title or a label.... like... we aren't even dating
Not every Scorp likes to use labels. I don't. At some point, you should get a sense of what is happening though if you want more.
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Damn, I wouldnt know where I stand. I'll be confused
Posted by EchoDamn, I wouldnt know where I stand. I'll be confused
I don't know, but I doubt that will be true. Like I posted, I don't use labels, but the men I've been involved with always knew when they had been claimed 😈. It's never been an issue*.
*Unless they were the type of men that needed labels. That often made me run in the opposite direction.
That doesn't mean it is the same thing for this Scorp. He may simple need to feel you out a bit more. It's the traditional water sign dance we tend to do with one another. So when you're ready to get clear on things, just get it sorted. Directly.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by EchoDamn, I wouldnt know where I stand. I'll be confused
I don't know, but I doubt that will be true. Like I posted, I don't use labels, but the men I've been involved with always knew when they had been claimed 😈. It's never been an issue*.
*Unless they were the type of men that needed labels. That often made me run in the opposite direction.
That doesn't mean it is the same thing for this Scorp. He may simple need to feel you out a bit more. It's the traditional water sign dance we tend to do with one another. So when you're ready to get clear on things, just get it sorted. Directly.
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🤔🤔🤔 I dont know. I already been doing sexual things with him already.
Held hands at the movies and whatnot, I dont know he hasn't said anything of me being his girlfriend.
Posted by CancerAquaSaggI need to find myself a scorp. Woa
Lmfaooo
Posted by GobbyA part of me wants to wish you luck...
However, another part of me keeps on seeing a vulnerable young woman, so desperate to fall in love that she's prepared to read too much into things before anything has been firmly established (while ignoring crucial red flags).
Scorpio men are very good at sniffing out vulnerable and easily impressionable women (and any man who talks about, or even hints at, marriage so soon should always be viewed as suspicious until they've proven themselves). Hopefully, your Scorpio is an exception but, as with any other romantic prospect, I think you should tread carefully...
🤔🤔 I dont want to get played. Cause him and I have a similar background story when it came to our past relationship.
The one that had it much more worst was him thou. Mines didnt involve any stabbing and whatnot, but his past did.
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Y'all have good memories or something? Cause I swore I thought you guys dont listen and just let the words enter one ear to another.
I thought I was talking to myself and making myself look like a psycho, let me tell you a few scenarios that have happened:
After my recent date watching Aquaman with the Scorpio we went back to his place and whatnot, enjoying another hour together.
He was talking about how his becoming sick with a fever, with coughs here and there. Until he randomly brought up "wanting to eat brownies"
I told him, I ate that the other day. He started playing around saying, "WOAH, HOLD UP. & you didnt share?!"
Me: "That's when you dropped me off the other day. You're not supposed to be eating brownies when you're sick anyways"
Him: WOAAAH, hey, dont tell me how to live my life!
Me: I already did, you gotta take care of your health
Him: Naaaah, you're cooking me brownies
Me: Hah, I ain't your wife. Go get yourself a wifey
Him: Okay, what ring size are you?
Me: The fawk?
Him: A 5 right?
Me: How do you remember that? Remove that memory from your head
Him: You think I'm kidding 🙄🙄
Another scene was the night before Christmas:
We were exchanging presents to each other. He told me to open his grandmother's present first than his. I got a cute little music note necklace than, it was his turn.
Now, I was having a hard time opening the gift cause he taped the gift bag 4 times so the present wouldnt be out in the open.
Watching me fawking struggle, he handed me his keys so I could open the damn thing! Ugh I was frustrated and calm at the same time cause I was also wondering why is the gift from him so big when I only got his favorite brand of clothes?
He laid down in bed covering himself, watching me
When I finally opened the gift, HOLLLYYYYY SHHHH--- BEHOLD HE GOT ME MY FAVORITE DISNEY CHARACTER: Baymax your personal health care, stuff plushie!!
So my little immature ass revealed the little kid within me
Me: OH MY GAWD!! YOU GOT ME A BAYMAX?! *mouth wide open*
I look at this muthafawker while getting all excited, I see him with his eyes close and his smile wide. This biiiitch know he got me something good.
And I only ever mentioned about Baymax once in November.
Bish got the audacity to ask me, do I like my present he got me. 🙄🙄🙄
Damn it facker, the fawk does it look like to you