Got my answer!!!

I deleted his number like I said, said no hard feelings whatever. Cue 2 hours later I get a text off him saying:

"Look, I started seeing someone in January and we fell out. Then I saw you for a bit but I shouldn't have used you but I still had feelings for you somehow. Then I made up with her. I'm sorry. Things with you were looking good but I really like this girl and I couldn't not give her another chance. I'm daft about her and I'm really happy with her just now. That's why I have been distancing myself from you cause I don't want to wreck it. I really am happy! And I really do like you but I'm sorry. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. I hope we can be friends, you've been there for me and that means a lot to me but I have to be like this cause I'm daft about this girl! I'm sorry again but that's the honest truth. I'm a bit drunk just now so please don't text back tonight! But if you want to talk to me text me tomorrow!x"

Yeah right then asshole like you're going to get off that easily. Hit me with that and then tell ME not to inconvenience you by texting you tonight!

Anyway, I am so past anger at this point. He's dead to me. Just thought I'd update everyone!

Best part of it is he then spends the next FOUR hours texting me - a mixture between him being sorry and giving me abuse for calling him a pathetic excuse for a man (amongst other things) and the proceeds to text saying "well she just ditched me again anyway so who cares" what like I'm supposed to feel bad for him!

Total weirdo. Lucky escape if you ask me. She's welcome to him, but clearly isn't that interested if she's ditched him twice already.

I'm not even that hurt. I'm fucking angry.

Scorpio or not he will rue the day he laid eyes on me.

Disgusted does not even cut it right now.

He's still texting me saying he hopes we can be friends. Pathetic.

Cannot believe I wasted 8 months of my live on a pathetic fucking coward who needs to grow a set of balls.

Alright, Cadillac doesn't appear to be around.. I say you kill him. Cadillac has lots of clever ways.

I don't need to kill him Sky.

I live in a small town. Pretty rough. I know just about everyone worth knowing. If he feels like being brave enough to step out in this town again good luck to him. Won't be anything to do with me though. 🙂

I have. He keeps texting can we be friends he's done nothing wrong blah blah. My last text to him said he disgusted me beyond belief and that he will delete my number and refrain from addressing me in any shape or form in the future.

Done nothing wrong lmao. That part actually amuses me.

He is deluded.

Posted by oldskoolflavor
he doesnt want to crush you..
just have you crawling at his feet until death parts you

The way I'm feeling right now that could easily be arranged.

Just let it go.

Being mad at him is giving him too much credit.

Just flip your tail and jump stream, never to bother to care to think of him again.

I have deleted his number and will not respond to anything he texts me from now on. Or ever.

His latest:

"We fell out. Then I met her. Then that ended. Then me and you had something for a couple of nights (erm try a month dickhead) and that's it! Then I made up with her. And now that doesn't even matter (yeah cos she ditched your sorry ass............AGAIN). I never once lied to you or two timed you. And btw you done far worse to me last year! Now we're even"

That last part just says it all.

Pathetic.

Elle I have said all I have to say to him. I don't care what he texts me.

And honestly? It won't be hard to not respond. From here on out I don't give two shits about anything he has to say or anything he does.

P I'm angry but I won't do anything. To be honest I don't even have to.

I know for a fact he'll be bricking it. That's enough for me.

Posted by everevolvingepithet
Some other chick he left you for doesn't want him.
^

That's about it, in two posts.🙂

Exactly. Still laughing at the fact he told me that though. And then proceeds to ask if we can be friends.

Loser.

And yeah I'm done.

I have one word for you MissP. "Bawbag", just because I wanted too. xx

You know, the story about the woman he left you for who doesn't want him now, was just that, don't you?

He apparantly is gaming you, trying to make you fawn over him .. if you think there is someone else, then you might be jealous .. and since you weren't, now she broke up with him and you are now suppose to want to cuddle his feelings for him.

It is a story.

I mean, seriously ... his tactics are classic Scorpio

Nah he was lucky to have even had my attention and he knows it. The other girl just sussed him out way quicker than I did. Kudos to her for that.

He'll be stewing, because now he has no-one.

Tough shit.

Posted by venusianbull
I have one word for you MissP. "Bawbag", just because I wanted too. xx

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His responses at first that were vague .... were to get you to chase him, get you to work for him.

His story about not wanting you because there is someone else (for 2 months now) was clearly in place to make you jealous and make you chase him really hard ... because coincidently, she breaks up with him the next day of telling you.

What a coincidence, eh?

He blows up your phone trying to get you to react.

It's all just a manipulation to get you to think he's in demand, that he's special ... so you'll chase after him really hard.

Posted by P-Angel
You know, the story about the woman he left you for who doesn't want him now, was just that, don't you?

He apparantly is gaming you, trying to make you fawn over him .. if you think there is someone else, then you might be jealous .. and since you weren't, now she broke up with him and you are now suppose to want to cuddle his feelings for him.

It is a story.

I mean, seriously ... his tactics are classic Scorpio

My friend actually thinks it's all complete bullshit about there being someone else. Certainly doesn't add up given that he met this girl in January at a time when I was finished with him and yet he was constantly phoning/texting trying to get me to talk to him again.

At one point last night when we were arguing (by text) I said well where is this great girl then why aren't you with her instead of texting me all night? He didn't respond to that. Then an hour later he says she's ditched him anyway.

Either way who cares. He's a dick.

The other woman doesn't even exist

Posted by P-Angel
His responses at first that were vague .... were to get you to chase him, get you to work for him.

His story about not wanting you because there is someone else (for 2 months now) was clearly in place to make you jealous and make you chase him really hard ... because coincidently, she breaks up with him the next day of telling you.

What a coincidence, eh?

He blows up your phone trying to get you to react.

It's all just a manipulation to get you to think he's in demand, that he's special ... so you'll chase after him really hard.

If that's the case then he's just fucked up big time. Because after this I will never ever entertain any of his bullshit again.

He's made his bed and he can lie in it. Alone. And pathetic.

The main thing is that you find a happy stream and swim.

I feel better at least for knowing now what he's like. Although to be fair my friends have been saying for ages that he's a head fuck and no good for me. So I thought he was better than that. My mistake.

Not one I'll be repeating though.

Posted by MissPirate
I feel better at least for knowing now what he's like. Although to be fair my friends have been saying for ages that he's a head fuck and no good for me. So I thought he was better than that. My mistake.

Not one I'll be repeating though.

Well at least you confirmed something valuable Sweet-P.....He is immature and you are always considerate of others. This is just another lesson in life. Move on and celebrate you and the wonderful person you are!
xoxox

Wow, I think you are lucky to see what a mess he is now or things could've gotten really bad for you.

Thanks everyone.

I've calmed down now that I've had a good nights sleep.

On the plus side at least now I know and can get on with my life and forget about his pathetic ass.

Besides what goes around comes around. Good luck to him.

And given that this girl has dumped him twice already if they do get back together I've a sneaky suspicion that she's going to do to him what he did to me and that he gets a taste of his own medicine.

Posted by THEKingofLibra
"what goes around comes around" ??

What kind of a pathetic loser shit is that. You are the master of your own domain! Go out there and fuck him up!!

Lol I really don't need to. As I said before he'll be bricking it wondering what I'm going to do. He won't be showing his face out any time soon either for the same reason.

If I react he'll expect it. What he won't expect is me to just move on. All the while though he'll be sitting wondering..........what is she gonna do.

🙂

Besides I'd rather invest that energy into my own life and not his.

Well either way I don't care.

He's the one sitting there with no money to do anything or go anywhere, zero prospects and he's just been dumped.

At least only one of those is true for me.

Anyway I'll get over it.

Honestly he's probably went for someone quieter and more boring in bed.

Sexual dynamo he was not.

FFS!

Now texting saying he knows I'm mad at him but he still wants to be friends and that if he hadn't got back with her before he'd have gave it "everything" with me cos I'm lovely and he really likes me. Eh whatever.

No I am not responding. Assume that he's still dumped so trying to save whatever he can with me so I'm getting all this trying to be nice crap.

Wouldn't surprise me if it was all made up to be honest. Was thinking about this before and would never have thought someone would make up stories for no reason (I mean who the fuck does that really) and then I remembered something about another Scorp guy years ago who one of my friends was seeing.

Without telling the story but after they'd split up he'd basically called and left a message on her voicemail PRETENDING that he was having a conversation with someone else about her. She let me hear the voicemail and I'm telling you it was the craziest shit I've ever heard. I was like WTF. He admitted later that it was bullshit and he'd just done it to get back at her.

I'm not saying he never liked someone or whatever. I wonder though if he actually went out with someone or if he's just been chasing someone else. Either way he's lied before and doesn't even seem to realise how deluded he is he believes his own lies.

Posted by P-Angel
His responses at first that were vague .... were to get you to chase him, get you to work for him.

His story about not wanting you because there is someone else (for 2 months now) was clearly in place to make you jealous and make you chase him really hard ... because coincidently, she breaks up with him the next day of telling you.

What a coincidence, eh?

He blows up your phone trying to get you to react.

It's all just a manipulation to get you to think he's in demand, that he's special ... so you'll chase after him really hard.

I'm not saying that I am happy about agreeing with P-Angel,

but I think P-Angel is right.

The question now is:

Who is Master?

You are going to ignore him, but ....

If you ignore him with the hopes that he will contact you again;

HE IS MASTER.

If you ignore him and "really, truly" for reason that he is not
worth your time or consideration ( not even worth being angry about )
then ... he'll MAYBE be back ... but you will be master
and you won't get satisfaction if he comes back
and you won't be sad/expecting that he will but doesn't.
( prolly will, since he couldn't make it work with her last time - BEWARE )

SP whatever happens the one thing this situation has made me realise is that he is mentally unhinged and so on that note......I'm out. Why on earth would someone do all of that and for what? I find it quite disturbing actually. He needs help.

Honestly, if I were still to harbour feelings for him I'd need help too.

I am at fault for allowing this to continue as it has, someone (or a few people actually) commented on here a while ago about the game playing and that it never ends and that the only way to get out of it is to not play.

That is what I'm doing. He can try and drag me back in but it won't work.

This was quite simply the straw that broke the camels back. I can't even think about him now without feeling disgust.

Posted by MissPirate
FFS!

Now texting saying he knows I'm mad at him but he still wants to be friends and that if he hadn't got back with her before he'd have gave it "everything" with me cos I'm lovely and he really likes me. Eh whatever.

No I am not responding. Assume that he's still dumped so trying to save whatever he can with me so I'm getting all this trying to be nice crap.

Wouldn't surprise me if it was all made up to be honest. Was thinking about this before and would never have thought someone would make up stories for no reason (I mean who the fuck does that really) and then I remembered something about another Scorp guy years ago who one of my friends was seeing.

Without telling the story but after they'd split up he'd basically called and left a message on her voicemail PRETENDING that he was having a conversation with someone else about her. She let me hear the voicemail and I'm telling you it was the craziest shit I've ever heard. I was like WTF. He admitted later that it was bullshit and he'd just done it to get back at her.

I'm not saying he never liked someone or whatever. I wonder though if he actually went out with someone or if he's just been chasing someone else. Either way he's lied before and doesn't even seem to realise how deluded he is he believes his own lies.

Really, the correct response is:

"Well, I'm not your enemy and I will continue to be cordial with you.
I'll wave or say "hey" as we pass in public and not be a twit and pretend I don't see you.

You hurt me really badly so I couldn't say we're "friends"
but I do hope it goes well for you with her since that way at least
some good could come out of it. But forgive me please if I don't
feel like talking to you anymore.

I hope you understand and respect my wishes and that we'll both
just go our separate ways."

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That will likely cause a reply ...in 3 days ... which begins with
"Hey I "just" got your message now it was burried in a bazillion
other messages (beacuse I'm so damned popular )( lie )

... and you respond with:

Look - considering what you did - I think I've been very reasonable.
I am asking you to just forget about me so that I can just forget
about "you" and have a happy life. Please do that.

... and 4 days later he gets back to you after thinking about
what to say ...

and you reply:

What do you wan

God damned fucking form that doesn't warn when the post exceeds # of characters.

FUCK

FUCK

FUCK

... everytime I wander back I remember why I haven't been back.

I hope you can stop the dude from bugging you.

Why would I want to encourage him to continue to text me?

Thanks though.

I'm going to continue to post whatever lame assed crap he comes out with in case it helps others. 🙂

Why not eh. Plus I'm sure most of it will be laughable.

Wow! Glad I've never been involved with a Scorp! Bless your heart MP! Stick to your guns.