Heartbroken virgo left by scorpio man

Hi, I'm new to this site to maybe find some help. So I will try to not write too much, as I usually tend to do. Me and my scorpio man had been together for almost 2 years now. We sometimes had our problems but we felt so strong for each other and we loved each other very intensively. He is my first true love and I literally is breaking apart. We have split before, but this time it is different. He moved very far away from me 5 months ago, and it was so hard for me since he used to live 20 minutes away from me before. Now it takes 8 hours with train to visit him. He promised before the move that he would come visit me too.. I can't visit him often since I'm still in school and I'm not the richest person.. but I still did everything to come to him. He is older than me but has no job right now so he doesnt have much money either. Now he was supposed to come to me, even though I know it never really sounded like he wanted to when we talked about it.. even though I offered to pay his trip and of course one week before he was supposed to come.. he suddenly from nowhere said he wanted to end our relationship.. he said he wants me in the future but I need to give him space.. I know I have to if I'm ever going to get another chance with him again. But it is so hard... I just can't stop texting and sometimes calling him. Most of the times he doesnt even answer me. A lot of the times he was angry and mean and he blocked me on all social media, the only thing he didnt block is my number. He gives me hope sometimes and says he loves me.. but he says he wants to be alone for months.. so he is so hard to understand. I know I'm doing wrong not respecting that he needs his space, but it's so hard to not contact him.. sometimes it feels like he likes to have power over me, that he likes it when I cry and do everything to talk to him etc. I'm so sad and I don't know what I should do. I think I already know I should leave him alone, but please can someone maybe explain why he might be doing this to me? Playing with my feelings and emotions.. He has scorpio in Sun, moon, mercury, Pluto, and ascendant. Please don't be rude. I know I might be very idiotic, but right now I'm so sad I just can't handle any mean comments. I'm a logic person but he somehow managed to make me feel so much. More than I've ever felt with anyone. I'm sorry this text is very long and the english is not the best but please, I really need someone to maybe explain to me what I should do and how... peace and love to you all.

Space. You calling him and reaching out to him, is 100% about what you need, and not what he needs right now. Right now, he is lost, and sounds like he is struggling and needs time to figure it out. You are young, and even if you two do not work out in the end, this is not the end all be all.

Dear Virgo, I'm sorry for the pain you feel. I know how it is, I was feeling the same way about a Scorpio once, the amount of tears I shed is uncountable.

I couldn't reach out to him, nor get any answer. He just shut me out. It was horrible, I cried for days.

Never got a logical nor sensible answer from him, but thankfully, healed with time.

I hope for you two this won't be the end, and that you will manage to work things out.

Right now, the only thing I'd suggest is to cry out the pain inside. It will heal you, because reaching out for him, and him.not answering, just deepens the pain.

Heal yourself, till he comes around.

And if he doesn't, it's not your fault nor your bad luck in life.

Most Scorpio males are handful, you have to be either a strong personality or or a subtle manipulator to keep them in order (no offense to anybody, this is what I saw in life, my experience).

They are not for sensitive ones, unfortunately.

Hope you feel better soon.

You need to stop talking to him completely. That's the only way for him to come back to you with renewed love and energy later. Good luck.

If you feel like he likes to have power over you..that's a problem. You're putting more energy into this than he is. Don't do that to yourself. Focus on you and take advantage of this space.

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Dear Virgo, I'm sorry for the pain you feel. I know how it is, I was feeling the same way about a Scorpio once, the amount of tears I shed is uncountable.

I couldn't reach out to him, nor get any answer. He just shut me out. It was horrible, I cried for days.

Never got a logical nor sensible answer from him, but thankfully, healed with time.

I hope for you two this won't be the end, and that you will manage to work things out.

Right now, the only thing I'd suggest is to cry out the pain inside. It will heal you, because reaching out for him, and him.not answering, just deepens the pain.

Heal yourself, till he comes around.

And if he doesn't, it's not your fault nor your bad luck in life.

Most Scorpio males are handful, you have to be either a strong personality or or a subtle manipulator to keep them in order (no offense to anybody, this is what I saw in life, my experience).

They are not for sensitive ones, unfortunately.

Hope you feel better soon.

Yeah, I won't manipulate. I just want to tell the truth and live. They seem to consider that a weakness, but I see it as a strength, and I view giving people the silent treatment as weak.

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I know you wouldn't. And to keep someone waiting on your answer on purpose is a weakness, their own insecurity, masked as a strong attitude.

Yeah, right 🙂

And then they say Geminis have no character....



Silent treatment is, for me, the lowest form of manipulation and sign of emotional immaturity.

No one can be blamed for not being strong, etc, but it is nasty to train your insecurities on others.

That's why you have to be really, really deeply aware of yourself and your place in this world not to be affected by that behaviour.

Then again, you'd think that anyone who got to that point of life, would never put up with that insane behaviour.

But life offers different development of situations, so it really depends on the person and the situation in question.

The OP is young, probably also the Scorpio in question is too, so maybe growing up, maturing together, may soften some rough edges and mold two people to suit each other more.

All the best.

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OP, I'm sorry. Try to distract yourself from the searing pain in your chest until that passes. I know he is the only thing that can make you feel better, but waiting for him to make you feel better will only seal the situation you're in, where you need him and he dangles you at will.

This.

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Dear Virgo, I'm sorry for the pain you feel. I know how it is, I was feeling the same way about a Scorpio once, the amount of tears I shed is uncountable.

I couldn't reach out to him, nor get any answer. He just shut me out. It was horrible, I cried for days.

Never got a logical nor sensible answer from him, but thankfully, healed with time.

I hope for you two this won't be the end, and that you will manage to work things out.

Right now, the only thing I'd suggest is to cry out the pain inside. It will heal you, because reaching out for him, and him.not answering, just deepens the pain.

Heal yourself, till he comes around.

And if he doesn't, it's not your fault nor your bad luck in life.

Most Scorpio males are handful, you have to be either a strong personality or or a subtle manipulator to keep them in order (no offense to anybody, this is what I saw in life, my experience).

They are not for sensitive ones, unfortunately.

Hope you feel better soon.

Yeah, I won't manipulate. I just want to tell the truth and live. They seem to consider that a weakness, but I see it as a strength, and I view giving people the silent treatment as weak.

I know you wouldn't. And to keep someone waiting on your answer on purpose is a weakness, their own insecurity, masked as a strong attitude.

Yeah, right 🙂

And then they say Geminis have no character....



Silent treatment is, for me, the lowest form of manipulation and sign of emotional immaturity.

No one can be blamed for not being strong, etc, but it is nasty to train your insecurities on others.

That's why you have to be really, really deeply aware of yourself and your place in this world not to be affected by that behaviour.

Then again, you'd think that anyone who got to that point of life, would never put up with that insane behaviour.

But life offers different development of situations, so it really depends on the person and the situation in question.

The OP is young, probably also the Scorpio in question is too, so maybe growing up, maturing together, may soften some rough edges and mold two people to suit each other more.

All the best.

Everybody has their shit they deal with. The silent treatment, for me, makes me relive the death of my father on a visceral level. Having a parent die is the ultimate "ghosting." That's some rough shit. And of course, that part of it isn't his fault, but I did tell him that, and it didn't change his behavior at all.

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What worries me in your case, is his insensitivity to some deep emotions and "issues". He shouldn't be behaving like that at his age.

Looking from his angle, you saying that to him, may have raised in him a feeling of you manipulating him, trying to control him with the serious reasons such as your father's death.

If it is so, then he doesn't believe you in general, has no trust in you.

It can be many things, I hope soon will come time when you will be able to discuss it. Without you going mad.

Stay calm.

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Posted by Hare
Anyone attributing this behavior to "Scorpio" probably doesn't have much actual relationship experience. Men of all signs can do this.

I suggest extreme @rockyroadicecream therapy AKA "Go the fuck outside".

Maybe they can, but a Scorpio is the first to have the fucking nerve to do it to me. I mean, y'all want respect, but you disrespect other people. Fuck that.

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Same.

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Dear Virgo, I'm sorry for the pain you feel. I know how it is, I was feeling the same way about a Scorpio once, the amount of tears I shed is uncountable.

I couldn't reach out to him, nor get any answer. He just shut me out. It was horrible, I cried for days.

Never got a logical nor sensible answer from him, but thankfully, healed with time.

I hope for you two this won't be the end, and that you will manage to work things out.

Right now, the only thing I'd suggest is to cry out the pain inside. It will heal you, because reaching out for him, and him.not answering, just deepens the pain.

Heal yourself, till he comes around.

And if he doesn't, it's not your fault nor your bad luck in life.

Most Scorpio males are handful, you have to be either a strong personality or or a subtle manipulator to keep them in order (no offense to anybody, this is what I saw in life, my experience).

They are not for sensitive ones, unfortunately.

Hope you feel better soon.

Yeah, I won't manipulate. I just want to tell the truth and live. They seem to consider that a weakness, but I see it as a strength, and I view giving people the silent treatment as weak.

I know you wouldn't. And to keep someone waiting on your answer on purpose is a weakness, their own insecurity, masked as a strong attitude.

Yeah, right 🙂

And then they say Geminis have no character....



Silent treatment is, for me, the lowest form of manipulation and sign of emotional immaturity.

No one can be blamed for not being strong, etc, but it is nasty to train your insecurities on others.

That's why you have to be really, really deeply aware of yourself and your place in this world not to be affected by that behaviour.

Then again, you'd think that anyone who got to that point of life, would never put up with that insane behaviour.

But life offers different development of situations, so it really depends on the person and the situation in question.

The OP is young, probably also the Scorpio in question is too, so maybe growing up, maturing together, may soften some rough edges and mold two people to suit each other more.

All the best.

Everybody has their shit they deal with. The silent treatment, for me, makes me relive the death of my father on a visceral level. Having a parent die is the ultimate "ghosting." That's some rough shit. And of course, that part of it isn't his fault, but I did tell him that, and it didn't change his behavior at all.

What worries me in your case, is his insensitivity to some deep emotions and "issues". He shouldn't be behaving like that at his age.

Looking from his angle, you saying that to him, may have raised in him a feeling of you manipulating him, trying to control him with the serious reasons such as your father's death.

If it is so, then he doesn't believe you in general, has no trust in you.

It can be many things, I hope soon will come time when you will be able to discuss it. Without you going mad.

Stay calm.

I can't right now. I am a raw nerve. I have to stay hidden instead. You really think he'd think I tell him those things to manipulate? I'm just begging for mercy. He has none.

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We don't know what he thinks. That is a possibility, considering he belongs to the sign in which control holds the main importance. He might be thinking you're insecure and want to buy him with that. He may be thinking that on the subconscious level, not being aware of it, which results in the incomprehensible behaviour on his part.

I know you are honest, and you are honest in your hurting.

It's hard for me to understand how some people can stand seeing others in pain, without blinking.

I don't want to believe they are ruthless, but sometimes it looks like they really are.

It's psychological, some deep insecurity there.

Very often, those people function great in other spheres of life, that's why it is so hard to understand this kind of behaviour (when they are at a certain age).

@virgolyran hey, this isn't a really a sign thing, or a male/female thing, what it all means is that he feels weak right now and like he can't give you what you need, which is him, which makes him feel more weak, and you can't give him what he needs which is you, which makes him even more weak.. that's double the weakness and the strain, so it's better to pretend (in his mind) that it isn't happening.. What I would do here is, before things end up in full silence, I would pull back for about a day, maybe 2, then come back with some positive stuff... and make him feel good, this is going to hard but it will distract him from problems and make him feel good about life. Meanwhile, try and figure out how to meet up, you figure this out and let him do him, then after a week or so pitch him the idea of seeing him.. and you might be good if you do that. Either way it will be a long road because of the distance. It's going to take a huge amount of commitment down the road from now.. If what I said doesn't work, and it should, than you need to go fully silent on him for at least 3 weeks. Keep things really upbeat and positive, be who he needs right now, and in the long run you'll get what you need.

I've been on both sides of this in life. If my partner is distancing it's because I'm not providing strength to her, If I distance from someone, it's for the same reason. Basically the other one is being too needy and I can't help.. or vice versa.. it's not good or bad, it just is.. and it can be solved. Offer love and strength and happy vibes. Then offer solutions, to the distance. You're so young and in love and you want to just show up and take ya away, I get it. It can't happy though, so you have to be the rock here. In this moment. If that makes sense

@virgolyan sorry for the typos, I'm typing this out at red lights lol (cont) Show support, strength and throw happy vibes his way then try and solve the distance issue. Don't be needy or angry, don't tell him you need him right now, don't tell him you're gonna move on and freak out and don't get angry.. because he can't solve any of that for you right now, in fact, he probably needs you to solve that for him. Do that. Then you guys will be good. And it doesn't have to end. If you push too hard in the other direction I'd give it 1-3 weeks before he goes fully silent on you. And you don't want that

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this fascination with scorpios is mind boggling, i don't get it. i really don't.

My crab friend is being pursued by a Scorpio. She doesn't really care for him and actually has him wrapped around her finger.

It's quite funny.

But I think he's an unevolved scorpio.

What I'm trying to say basically

Scorpios can go to crabs.

Leave poor mutables alone ? We have too much love to give to these headasses

Scorpios love power and he knows he has power over you because of your love for him. He knows he can use you to his advantage through your feelings for him. And he'll keep giving you a little "I love you" here and there to keep you stringing along. Don't.

Be strong Virgo ? Find someone who will appreciate you.

Liikkkkkeeee... a fire sign!! 10/10 100% best experience 11/10 would recommend dating one.

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K here's a classic song for the pain caused by Scorpios ?‍♂️

I agree.

The OP's man and my Scorp should show us why WE should give them a reason or they should GTFO.

Pooty gonna warn you if you think this is painful right now I'd suggest you try to cut ties with him cause this won't be the last.

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This. From experience. Over and over again...

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K here's a classic song for the pain caused by Scorpios ?‍♂️

I agree.

The OP's man and my Scorp should show us why WE should give them a reason or they should GTFO.

Don't know how old your man is but if he's up there too late for change.

I don't think you get the situation. I've poured my heart out to him. I've made my feelings and desires clear. And he has chosen to ignore me. He is the one who has cut ties and I'm just reeling.

That's why I said he's not going to change and I do feel bad about the situation you're in and trust me I know it's not fair cause I used to do it.

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Why did you use to do this? I'd like to understand. Unless it's a simple, filling a void, when they come back, with no emotional ties, feelings or investment? The Scorp who did this to me repeatedly is 40.

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!

I am playing it forbears and I said I am in and I don't give a damn that I don't even know the rules!

And we grow closer together slowly but surely! I will wait forever! Because he is my heart and sole and we are best friends!

Don't have time? Get out!

Too proud? Get out!

Too stupid? He will get out.

Get over yourself with this sign!

Or get out!!!

Don't waste your time and don't cry!

Just get out or submit yourself and I don't mean if he is an ass...

If you feel he is worth it!

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K here's a classic song for the pain caused by Scorpios ?‍♂️

I agree.

The OP's man and my Scorp should show us why WE should give them a reason or they should GTFO.

Don't know how old your man is but if he's up there too late for change.

I don't think you get the situation. I've poured my heart out to him. I've made my feelings and desires clear. And he has chosen to ignore me. He is the one who has cut ties and I'm just reeling.

That's why I said he's not going to change and I do feel bad about the situation you're in and trust me I know it's not fair cause I used to do it.

Why did you use to do this? I'd like to understand. Unless it's a simple, filling a void, when they come back, with no emotional ties, feelings or investment? The Scorp who did this to me repeatedly is 40.

I will only do stuff like this if disrespected I won't do it just cause like most of you are complaining about here.

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So if you felt disrespected, why would you go back and play the game, on repeat?

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K here's a classic song for the pain caused by Scorpios ?‍♂️

I agree.

The OP's man and my Scorp should show us why WE should give them a reason or they should GTFO.

Don't know how old your man is but if he's up there too late for change.

I don't think you get the situation. I've poured my heart out to him. I've made my feelings and desires clear. And he has chosen to ignore me. He is the one who has cut ties and I'm just reeling.

That's why I said he's not going to change and I do feel bad about the situation you're in and trust me I know it's not fair cause I used to do it.

Why did you use to do this? I'd like to understand. Unless it's a simple, filling a void, when they come back, with no emotional ties, feelings or investment? The Scorp who did this to me repeatedly is 40.

Cradle robbing, eh?

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Nah... If they were 25, then yes. 😉

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Since the topic has evolved a bit I'll say this about Scorp men.

I've loved two. Very devotedly and intensely. For very different reasons. Only sign I've loved on a romantic level like that in my life so far.

One was awful. Everything that is bad about our sign was embodied in him, his actions, his choices. I hated him with a sharp intensity afterwards. One day he did just enough to really break through my attachtment to him. I saw him for who he was. And I didn't hate him or want him anymore. After that, he was really just this small emotionally weak person who wasn't even worth me being upset over.

The other was my partner and friend for five years. It didn't work out for the long run and we did hurt each other a bit towards the end. But he taught me how important love and respect are in a relationship. His presence in my life helped build me into a better person. I will always revere him for being that in my life.

They both sit on opposite ends of the spectrum. The awful Scorp did have very sweet and endearing qualities. And my love of five years Scorp did have his own control and manipulation issues. Neither was a perfect devil or angel. People aren't that simple.

But in the end, both grew me into a better, more whole person on my own. One through love and respect. The other through abuse and manipulation. My experiences with them meant much more when I was no longer with them either. Which when you think about it, is a very scorpionic theme. With each ending there's a new beginning.

There that's it. That all my poetic fluff for this thread. 😄

Every single person we meet in life is a lesson.

Yep! Some are sentences, some are chapters and other mofos take up entire books lol.

Lol ? Not all Scorpios are evil I think each sign has bad seeds.

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Oh! No? You really all natzi men sent to the earth to make us poor girls suffer!

Because of your magnetic personality and strong sexual powers and all... and we can't stand when you don't lick our fingers in awe!

Just kidding! You know what I mean bro?

Stupid women with attitude and Scorpio men is just a...never to be!

If you are (woman) too pretty orntoonproud - find yourself a...Virgo or God forbid Gemini...lol

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

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Who are we crowning?

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Since the topic has evolved a bit I'll say this about Scorp men.

I've loved two. Very devotedly and intensely. For very different reasons. Only sign I've loved on a romantic level like that in my life so far.

One was awful. Everything that is bad about our sign was embodied in him, his actions, his choices. I hated him with a sharp intensity afterwards. One day he did just enough to really break through my attachtment to him. I saw him for who he was. And I didn't hate him or want him anymore. After that, he was really just this small emotionally weak person who wasn't even worth me being upset over.

The other was my partner and friend for five years. It didn't work out for the long run and we did hurt each other a bit towards the end. But he taught me how important love and respect are in a relationship. His presence in my life helped build me into a better person. I will always revere him for being that in my life.

They both sit on opposite ends of the spectrum. The awful Scorp did have very sweet and endearing qualities. And my love of five years Scorp did have his own control and manipulation issues. Neither was a perfect devil or angel. People aren't that simple.

But in the end, both grew me into a better, more whole person on my own. One through love and respect. The other through abuse and manipulation. My experiences with them meant much more when I was no longer with them either. Which when you think about it, is a very scorpionic theme. With each ending there's a new beginning.

There that's it. That all my poetic fluff for this thread. 😄

Every single person we meet in life is a lesson.

Yep! Some are sentences, some are chapters and other mofos take up entire books lol.

Lol ? Not all Scorpios are evil I think each sign has bad seeds.

Oh! No? You really all natzi men sent to the earth to make us poor girls suffer!

Because of your magnetic personality and strong sexual powers and all... and we can't stand when you don't lick our fingers in awe!

Just kidding! You know what I mean bro?

Stupid women with attitude and Scorpio men is just a...never to be!

If you are (woman) too pretty orntoonproud - find yourself a...Virgo or God forbid Gemini...lol

Lol ?‍♂️

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When are you monsters going to make women get you an easy way?

Why are you making them wait and suffer and cry? Will there be like Scorpio blowing retrograde witch will make you all bright eyes bushy tales? When God when??!

Lol

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

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Does it help?

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

Does it help?

Yes, actually. It's my last line of defense to give me a backbone when my Gemini mind gets too scattered, my Pisces energy gets too emotional, and my Taurus bits are too attached.

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There is no pride in love!

If there is - there is no love!

Pride is killing it!

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

Does it help?

Yes, actually. It's my last line of defense to give me a backbone when my Gemini mind gets too scattered, my Pisces energy gets too emotional, and my Taurus bits are too attached.

There is no pride in love!

If there is - there is no love!

Pride is killing it!

What you're calling pride I am calling having boundaries.

By the way, I have eaten my pride over and over for this guy. I've apologized first. I've apologized when it wasn't my fault. I've given him insights into myself that were vulnerable and hurt. I don't think he's eaten his pride a single time. It's not even about trying. I tried. I tried not trying. I begged. I focused on myself. I tried to get over him.

There is no pleasing him.

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So why than?

We Gemini don't let anyone to abuse our feelings!

If I had him failed once - he would be history!

I submit to him because never in years he had ever made me feel bad.

Dissapeared? Yes. But came back with explanations and it was more than acceptable.

I came here to ask why. I've got my answers. Since then we were inseparable.

Until I made a wrong move and pushed.

I was actually nasty!

After I read here I had called and had most loving and satisfactory answer.

He was in a turmoil. We both married.

However...

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

Does it help?

Yes, actually. It's my last line of defense to give me a backbone when my Gemini mind gets too scattered, my Pisces energy gets too emotional, and my Taurus bits are too attached.

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What is your human woman tells you to do?

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

Does it help?

Yes, actually. It's my last line of defense to give me a backbone when my Gemini mind gets too scattered, my Pisces energy gets too emotional, and my Taurus bits are too attached.

What is your human woman tells you to do?

There is nothing to do. I've sent him repeated emails. He has not responded.

We have a long-distance relationship. You know what an LDR with no talking is? It's NOTHING. There is nothing to break off. There is nothing to do.

My human woman tells me to protect myself and stop leaving my heart open like a jackass.

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Sorry I know nothing about long distance. It seems unreal to me. Feel your pain.

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Posted by PootyButt
She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

No he doesn't!

They both in!

He has his own way and if she thinks he owes her something - deal breaker!

You have to know whom are you dealing with!

You have a Scorpio you want - you kneel and submit!

If you can't - get out!

That's the name of the game!



Too proud? Get out!

So fucking be it.

Who are we crowning?

I was born with a crown. I have Mars in Leo.

Does it help?

Yes, actually. It's my last line of defense to give me a backbone when my Gemini mind gets too scattered, my Pisces energy gets too emotional, and my Taurus bits are too attached.

What is your human woman tells you to do?

There is nothing to do. I've sent him repeated emails. He has not responded.

We have a long-distance relationship. You know what an LDR with no talking is? It's NOTHING. There is nothing to break off. There is nothing to do.

My human woman tells me to protect myself and stop leaving my heart open like a jackass.

Sorry I know nothing about long distance. It seems unreal to me. Feel your pain.

Thank you.

The thing is, Scorpio or not, he's a man, and I'm the woman, and I won't be chasing him one more step. If he loves me the way I need to be loved, he'll come get me. If he doesn't, he won't. Either way, the right thing will happen.

I'm a cautionary tale too -- avoid LDRs. Avoid entanglements when you're already entangled.

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Your way or no way? No Scorpio way...

What are you? If you can't love - don't expect to me loved!

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She's been in a relationship with him for two years. He doesn't owe her a damn thing?

Whatever.

^ True

@ OP

Thats how some people are , in particular the lizard scorpios. Old story but i have had a scorpio declare his undying love for me n how crazy he is about me and than suddenly disappear , without anything wrong happening . I too was very young back then and it took years for me know that such guys are not worth it .

Anyway my suggestion - have your self respect in place and if its just a temporary issue then it will get sorted but since he backed out so its his responsibility to come back and if not then know that its him not you and not every thing is suppose to work out .

I am a virgo two and I have been in a relationship with a scorpio on/off . All I have to say is that you will feel pain, but there is high chance they feel pain too .

If he says he needs space give him space , but not for him , do it for you . I find scorpio to be very selfish at times - thinking about their own desires but not really caring about what others may feel or think .

Do you know what ? You are going to feel sad and miserable for a while , but you are strong and you can get through this . Each day at the time you will grow stronger and better and it will hurt less and less .

I have noticed that people like him always want back the love they pushed aside . He might someday come back but I hope that when he will you will be firm and strong .

First love is intense because you don't know how to deal with your feelings . But I believe there are amazing people lined up to come into our lives . You will love again , but without any surprises you will bleed and heart again . Please don't let him think that you are not good enough or that he is the only one that can make you happy . If they go low , you go high , be kind and nice even if he is mean to you . You will be better off this way . Forgive him and keep going it WILL get better I promise

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fukin scorpios?

They're supposed to be so loving and devoted. Where's the love? Where's the devotion?

Sorry, OP, I've been stung too, and I'm half out of my mind with pain and rage.

One could ask the same thing on cancer, don't even understimate them when they go the dark side.

We're all capable of being horrible people. I know your situation has been painful too. I was just hoping to see that rumored love and devotion for a long time, and I never got to.

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rumored love and devotion *key phrase*

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fukin scorpios?

They're supposed to be so loving and devoted. Where's the love? Where's the devotion?

Sorry, OP, I've been stung too, and I'm half out of my mind with pain and rage.

One could ask the same thing on cancer, don't even understimate them when they go the dark side.

We're all capable of being horrible people. I know your situation has been painful too. I was just hoping to see that rumored love and devotion for a long time, and I never got to.

rumored love and devotion *key phrase*

Well, I can't let this go without taking up for him. He has shown me love and devotion in small ways, and it did matter to me, and I did appreciate it. He has spent time on me.

But he won't give me the reassurance I need. I've tried, and I just can't make a security blanket out of the scraps I have collected.

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Interesting that you would use the word, "scraps". Some told me on here, I think it was last summer, once they ghost you all you'll get is scraps from him after that. That's exactly how he made me feel.

You need to separate this idea in your head that him loving you = him wanting to be with you. He will always have love for you but right now he doesn't want to be with you.