Help fellow scorps

So I've been with this (28) taurus guy for a over two month now, and finally decided that I wanted to have sex with him. This was a huge step for me because I am a (24) virgin scorpio. We started making out on the couch like usual and then he moved me to his bedroom, and he just sat me there and left. Which honestly was kind of weird and got me very nervous, because I was just sitting there. He finally came back to the bedroom after 5 minutes, put on some music, and then tried to pick up where we left off. I was not really turned on by the whole thing anymore, but just decided to just ride it out to see where it was going to go. All of sudden with no foreplay or anything he just decided to throw his shaft inside of me with no warning. It didn't get it in at all because I started pushing him away. Afterwards he tried three more times but I finally just told him to stop because he was just hurting me. I don't know what was wrong with him. He knew before I was a virgin, and he told me he's had sex with virgins before.... so I don't know how this happened. Sex should not be this difficult, and I'm just turned off by the whole situation. Now, don't get me wrong I respect him for stopping after his attempts, and making me feel comfortable afterwards, but I'm just not sure about a next time at this moment. Has anyone else had this problem, and how do I deal with it?

Taurus aren't big talkers in the sack anyways. I think he meant no harm but that sign is very much about getting the job done. Maybe he did not consider how forceful he came across especially since this would be your first time and everything. I am unsure what would help talking with him before or during but what I do know is that with your placement you need to feel more than just your basic surface connection. Maybe next time you ease yourself into the situation until you feel that passionate connection your looking for. It seems like he may have come across as too cool for you which is why him pulling it out seemed random af. I think he assumed your level of arousal matched his. If you feel comfortable maybe lead him and direct him in a non verbal way with a few encouraging mm's for when he's done something right. Hope that makes sense....or you could just speak to him directly...idk