Help! Pisces female dating male Scorpio who is moving for work

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I've been dating a Scorpio (he's 29, I'm 32) for only 2 months (it's felt so much longer), and I feel like I've finally understand how he works, so I leave him space and time, don't worry that he only texts to make plans, no chit-chat in between, that he's hot and cold, etc.

There's so much I like about him, things that i've looked for in all my relationships, and now I don't know what to do because he's moving away for work (a $ 400 plane ride).

The problem is that he rarely shows his emotions, it takes him an hour to warm up and be affectionate, we talk a LOT, but he hasn't opened up much, so I don't know how he feels about me, if he'd even want to continue the relationship, if he's felt like he's had half a foot out the door, etc.

I'm crushed that he's moving because I know there's more there, there's a future there, but he's starting a new life. Do I ask him how he sees us continuing? Do I just assume and follow his lead? Do I tell him how I feel about him or is that too mushy/too much? Do I try to see him more before he moves (being hurt from past relationships, I can be too shy to plan things, especially on weekends)?

I never thought this would happen and I'm devastated, not knowing what to show or say or do next.