help ! Scorpio woman

Hi Scorps !
There is a Scorpio woman who is really coming on strong with me . I am taken and I just want to be her friend .As a Libra man I am programmed to flirt back , she is beautiful and seductive and I realize how dangerous this situation can get.

I am planning on giving her a '' Please let's just be good friends'' speech. Will that make her sting me,flirt harder or leave me be ? I have alot of Scorpio female friends and they are all very sweet and great friends. This one rips me to shreds with eye contact and she seems rather headstrong ,we have alot of mutual friends so I just can't ignore her . Trying to keep my cool... any suggestions would be kindly appreciated 🙂

Posted by libragemmale
Hi Scorps !
There is a Scorpio woman who is really coming on strong with me . I am taken and I just want to be her friend .As a Libra man I am programmed to flirt back , she is beautiful and seductive and I realize how dangerous this situation can get.

I am planning on giving her a '' Please let's just be good friends'' speech. Will that make her sting me,flirt harder or leave me be ? I have alot of Scorpio female friends and they are all very sweet and great friends. This one rips me to shreds with eye contact and she seems rather headstrong ,we have alot of mutual friends so I just can't ignore her . Trying to keep my cool... any suggestions would be kindly appreciated 🙂

1, Be honset 2, be tackful 3, control your flirting because its give her the wrong vibes.
Scorpio sometimes hurt easy not all time so be careful. Peace!

thankyou xxm , i'll do my best and that's all i got ..

I'm not a Scorpio, but giving that speech would be too direct. What if she really did just want to be friends? I know a Scorpio woman married, and I'm a woman too, and married too, but we give each other the stare..studying each other.

Another classic example of Scorpio's making a B line for us air signs. I am a Gemini and I attract what seems to be only water signs, mostly recently Scorpio's.

I would just tell her you are flattered but you are with someone. Keep it clean, short, precise. Do NOT send mixed signals such as "programmed" to flirt thing you mentioned. Scorpio's don't play around so keep it honest.

ok guys you all have great points , maybe she is just studying me but when I see that look in her eye I know exactly what she is thinking. She's a pro at seduction -more in how she acts , not what she says.

What Xin is saying to keep it clean short and precise might be the way , I am naturally gentle so I think I can figure out what will work.

elle the biggest fear I have in my life is an unhappy marrage. So that's it in a nutshell , my wife commented to me last week that this woman was a little rude to her , yet she is charming as can be with me. I don't want my (Virgo) wife to feel threatened I hate friction , I want peace , but like I said we have alot of mutual friends and she always seems to be at the same social events , always hanging around. That is why she is hard to ignore (not to mention the fact that she is clearly interested and beautiful)

that is the core of the problem

please don't make light of this, I came in here for help

Looks like it's about time to find a new group of friends. There is a shark in your midst and it's just the beginning. If she was rude once to your wife she will be again and that will more than likely send your SO looking for the issue or the cause. Most females do when there is another hanging around in their territory. I would tell her straight up look I am with someone and that's that. Then if it keeps happening I would move to a new group of friends if need be.

Even if the other woman assumes he is having problems why the hell is she sticking her nose in his business? Damn. Id be like do you mind?

+1 to Triple Z!

So seriously why is it Scorp's are attracted to us air signs? Even if the Scorpio did get her claws into Libra she would hate him by next week. All air signs that I know of are natural flirts especially us Gemini's. And boy does that rile them up.

Anyways Elle how does one cook jets anyways? Is there instructions on allrecipes.com?

Muah ahhhh ahhhh!

thanks for all of your comments , I'll mull it over , I really don't want any trouble and I assure you she's not thinking about strawberries

Posted by Xin
+1 to Triple Z!

So seriously why is it Scorp's are attracted to us air signs? Even if the Scorpio did get her claws into Libra she would hate him by next week. All air signs that I know of are natural flirts especially us Gemini's. And boy does that rile them up.

Anyways Elle how does one cook jets anyways? Is there instructions on allrecipes.com?

Muah ahhhh ahhhh!

i am a Gem, and I am not a flirt. Cancer and Scorpios combine that i know tiptoes around me because I'm too serious and emotional. So they say.

thanks again all for making me feel like the pathetic dumbass that I obviously am . The only choice now it to decide on the rope, gun or a high bridge on which to kill my cocky and assuming self with. Just think t, his gives you one less Libra in the world to put up with .
ooops ! that must have been my mercury in Scorpio leaking out 😉

Honestly I don't give a flying F what anyone thinks here. My experiences with Scorpio's have been intense ones. You can say whatever you want won't change my opinion at all. This girl could be an Aries, Cancer, doesn't matter ill say the same damn thing. The fact is Scorpio's are intense people. I seriously highly doubt she is just ha ha ha flirting. Pff. Sounds more like she's almost flat out dominating him. Coming around being rude to his wife, she's a shark what you want me to say yay butterflies, rainbow ponies and flying around with flowers in our damn hair? You know that's a friggin lie.

@plutomoon
Well your placements must be interesting then. Most Gemini's or the ones I have come into contact with are super duper flirty just like me.

And the whole cute act doesn't work with you Scorpio's. Batting eye lashes I am just a widdle bunny wooking for wove. Yeah right more a Scorpion hiding in a damn costume. So cut the crap. Scorpio's are predators. And it would be much more liberating if you quit posing like a housepet.

That's right judo motherfucking chop your asses in here. Waaah Tahh!!! Ill round house a bitch like Chuck fuckin Norris.

Anyways @Libramale - Just don't acknowledge or even flirt with this female. I would advise from one air sign to another to take the high road on this one.

All kidding aside I want to thank you for letting me into the Scorpio mind. Amazing how Xin is the only one out of ALL OF YOU who took note of the fact that this woman was rude to my wife. Lady Scorp I appreciate your comments , you are a Golden Eagle , my favorite Scorpio type ! bless you all

and zipzap I appreciate your words as well, and I'm glad i came in here for advise,,really 🙂

It's well worth the effort EV , I'm busy in the office today and it doesn't take much for me to check this thread and learn a few things . gotta love dxp . it's there when you need it

Posted by libragemmale
All kidding aside I want to thank you for letting me into the Scorpio mind. Amazing how Xin is the only one out of ALL OF YOU who took note of the fact that this woman was rude to my wife. Lady Scorp I appreciate your comments , you are a Golden Eagle , my favorite Scorpio type ! bless you all

Yay extra points for me! I did mention that because that to me is letting me know its not all innocent. She was rude to his wife that right there is disrespect. A woman who disrespects another but puts on a mask for the man let's me know her intentions are not good.

My apologies Ellybean , your input here (both views) has not gone un-noticed .Not that any of you should care , I actually get along famously with most Scorpio women , I truly admire most of them .

Posted by Xin
And the whole cute act doesn't work with you Scorpio's. Batting eye lashes I am just a widdle bunny wooking for wove. Yeah right more a Scorpion hiding in a damn costume. So cut the crap. Scorpio's are predators. And it would be much more liberating if you quit posing like a housepet.

LOL do all geminis have a widdle? or do they all just talk waddle?

It's all good Inscorp , no I did not see her be rude, but my wife does not make up lies ,we've been married a lonnnng time and I know when she is honest,serious and true . And to my wife's :she married a Libra so she has to deal with women befriending me all the time. Now I'm NOT blaming the Scorp ,I just wanted some input on the situation from other scorps. I believe in honesty and I that is one thing Scorps and Libras have in common. No doubt

Posted by Xin
She was rude to his wife that right there is disrespect. A woman who disrespects another but puts on a mask for the man let's me know her intentions are not good.

Posted by iwin32
LOL Just don't flirt back man and keep doing your business. You're the one making your life complicated. lol

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Amen!

@iweiner32

Shut up Gwar! Oh wait that's a picture of a wraaaastler! Shut up you! Get back to your crabby cave! *Gets crab punter ready*

Posted by Xin

@plutomoon
Well your placements must be interesting then. Most Gemini's or the ones I have come into contact with are super duper flirty just like me.

You're right. I'm still waiting for my Gemini in me to kick in. I have a lot of air, and it's supposed to be dominant in my chart,,,,,