How can I keep a Scorpio man intrigued?

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Posted by Teena
"Guys value girls who don't give themselves easily"

I feel sad for you for having met the wrong kinda guys who made you think that mind games would work. Never would say be easy for them. But mind games is not the way.

*Act* sweet did you say ? N you still think you're being yourself? Umm.. good luck.


Posted by Iceprincess921


By the way, I'm trying to be myself
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You missed this part Teena. lol
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Posted by Teena
"Guys value girls who don't give themselves easily"

I feel sad for you for having met the wrong kinda guys who made you think that mind games would work. Never would say be easy for them. But mind games is not the way.

*Act* sweet did you say ? N you still think you're being yourself? Umm.. good luck.


Posted by Iceprincess921


By the way, I'm trying to be myself
You missed this part Teena. lol
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LOL! The even more hilarious part yes??
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Posted by Iceprincess921
Thanks for replying!! It's not really about playing games but I've had bad experiences before. My real self is a super nice girl. I like to be affectionate with guys and they end up losing interest quickly. So I feel like I'm done being too nice and available for guys. Since I like this guy I want him to really conquer me this time. I've never really gave a guy a challenge and I want him to see me as someone special that values herself and doesn't give her love to the first guy that comes along. That's all. I'm not saying I don't want him but I'm tired of always being the nice girl. Some guys take advantage u know... You're right that I have to be myself or he will see that I'm not genuine but I don't feel prepared to just open my heart until I'm sure he's worth it and he won't take advantage of me for being nice.

I'm a Leo with Pisces moon
You can be nice n unavailable too ya know.

Instead of acting like something you're not, you can genuinely slow things down n wait till you get to know him better before opening your heart to him..all that without having to *act* sweet or playing any control games.People take advantage only till you allow it.
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Posted by Iceprincess921
Thanks for replying!! It's not really about playing games but I've had bad experiences before. My real self is a super nice girl. I like to be affectionate with guys and they end up losing interest quickly. So I feel like I'm done being too nice and available for guys. Since I like this guy I want him to really conquer me this time. I've never really gave a guy a challenge and I want him to see me as someone special that values herself and doesn't give her love to the first guy that comes along. That's all. I'm not saying I don't want him but I'm tired of always being the nice girl. Some guys take advantage u know... You're right that I have to be myself or he will see that I'm not genuine but I don't feel prepared to just open my heart until I'm sure he's worth it and he won't take advantage of me for being nice.

I'm a Leo with Pisces moon
You can be nice n unavailable too ya know.

Instead of acting like something you're not, you can genuinely slow things down n wait till you get to know him better before opening your heart to him..all that without having to *act* sweet or playing any control games.People take advantage only till you allow it.
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What if you allow it and they DONT—

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Posted by Gemitati
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Posted by Iceprincess921
Thanks for replying!! It's not really about playing games but I've had bad experiences before. My real self is a super nice girl. I like to be affectionate with guys and they end up losing interest quickly. So I feel like I'm done being too nice and available for guys. Since I like this guy I want him to really conquer me this time. I've never really gave a guy a challenge and I want him to see me as someone special that values herself and doesn't give her love to the first guy that comes along. That's all. I'm not saying I don't want him but I'm tired of always being the nice girl. Some guys take advantage u know... You're right that I have to be myself or he will see that I'm not genuine but I don't feel prepared to just open my heart until I'm sure he's worth it and he won't take advantage of me for being nice.

I'm a Leo with Pisces moon
You can be nice n unavailable too ya know.

Instead of acting like something you're not, you can genuinely slow things down n wait till you get to know him better before opening your heart to him..all that without having to *act* sweet or playing any control games.People take advantage only till you allow it.
What if you allow it and they DONT—

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Gentlemen I say?
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Posted by Teena
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Posted by Iceprincess921
Thanks for replying!! It's not really about playing games but I've had bad experiences before. My real self is a super nice girl. I like to be affectionate with guys and they end up losing interest quickly. So I feel like I'm done being too nice and available for guys. Since I like this guy I want him to really conquer me this time. I've never really gave a guy a challenge and I want him to see me as someone special that values herself and doesn't give her love to the first guy that comes along. That's all. I'm not saying I don't want him but I'm tired of always being the nice girl. Some guys take advantage u know... You're right that I have to be myself or he will see that I'm not genuine but I don't feel prepared to just open my heart until I'm sure he's worth it and he won't take advantage of me for being nice.

I'm a Leo with Pisces moon
You can be nice n unavailable too ya know.

Instead of acting like something you're not, you can genuinely slow things down n wait till you get to know him better before opening your heart to him..all that without having to *act* sweet or playing any control games.People take advantage only till you allow it.
What if you allow it and they DONT—




Gentlemen I say?
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Don't gentleman take advantage every chance they've got? ?