How do others react when you get angry?

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Noreallynow on Thursday, October 16, 2014 and has 15 replies.

How People Typically React When Someone Gets Angry

People often respond to anger with concern, fear, or avoidance. They may try to calm the person down or distance themselves to stay safe. Reactions depend on the individual's temperament and the context of the situation. Recognizing these responses can help you understand how your anger affects others and manage it effectively.

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I got so heated and upset the other day that people moved out of my way when they saw me coming. Then I guess it was written all over because I got asked, "are you okay?" "Calm down " "did I do something to you?"

Wtf!

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I know others walk away when my scorpio friend is mad with me I look at her what is your problem. I will ask if she looks upset I'm the only one she will tell anybody else she will walk away and say nothing.

Funny she doesn't lash out at anybody else but me I've seen her worst anger when she lets loose it reminds me of me because I can do the same. I cool off faster than she does she can stew on something for hours or it can be days.

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I don't push it I know the limits especially with my scorpio friend because hurtful things get said. One of my female Aries friends we had a fight screaming F you at each other she's never seen that side of me it takes a lot for me to let loose when I do watch out.

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Posted by P-Angel

Not only is the typical Scorpion proud to evoke such reactions .... it's common for them to put it on display.

Sad, really

I'm not proud of anything. I just asked a question. I only reacted like that because I was fucked with for so long. So, I blew up.

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Posted by TokerX

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I know others walk away when my scorpio friend is mad

That's because they are mature and do not seek conflict.

Isn't avoiding conflict a Gemini thing?

More like a Libra Rising thing. 😉 Gems create conflict just for the fun of it.
Anyway, any sensible counselor will tell you to walk away, cool down, come back and talk like 2 adults instead of engaging in a fight/arguement.

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Yes, some gems do create conflict for the fun of it, but turn around and bitch up when it's time to suffer the consequences for their actions. And talk a lot of shit, but won't do anything. Some, not all.

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Posted by TokerX

Posted by Stihl46
I don't push it I know the limits especially with my scorpio friend because hurtful things get said. One of my female Aries friends we had a fight screaming F you at each other she's never seen that side of me it takes a lot for me to let loose when I do watch out.

😕 Every time my Cancer sister would get mad at me I'd just laugh at her or yell something back resulting in her going to cry to one of my parents... So don't act so tough. 😉

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All cancers are not like that. I know many cancers that won't run away crying. You would actually be the one that's crying. I know some tough cancers.

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Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by P-Angel

Not only is the typical Scorpion proud to evoke such reactions .... it's common for them to put it on display.

Sad, really

I'm not proud of anything. I just asked a question. I only reacted like that because I was fucked with for so long. So, I blew up.

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Was it because of that twit who had a crush on your ex?

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Posted by TokerX

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by TokerX

Posted by Stihl46
I don't push it I know the limits especially with my scorpio friend because hurtful things get said. One of my female Aries friends we had a fight screaming F you at each other she's never seen that side of me it takes a lot for me to let loose when I do watch out.

😕 Every time my Cancer sister would get mad at me I'd just laugh at her or yell something back resulting in her going to cry to one of my parents... So don't act so tough. 😉

All cancers are not like that. I know many cancers that won't run away crying. You would actually be the one that's crying. I know some tough cancers.

Yeah sure, try me lol :p I'm a Gem with a Scorp Moon. I'm disconnected from my feelings, but if you aggravate me and I don't give a fuck about you or take pitty on you be prepared to meet that stinger, you will definitely be the one that's crying. 😉

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I know a gem with a scorp moon. Far from detached. Does shit and then runs away. Like I said though, not all are alike.

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by P-Angel

Not only is the typical Scorpion proud to evoke such reactions .... it's common for them to put it on display.

Sad, really

I'm not proud of anything. I just asked a question. I only reacted like that because I was fucked with for so long. So, I blew up.

Was it because of that twit who had a crush on your ex?

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She was scared as shit. Now, she doesn't go anywhere without her bodyguards. She talks shit when she's around people, but when she's by herself he doesn't have anything to say. I came through the door and her guy friend ducked and put his hands up like I was about to attack him. They're going around spreading rumors about me. Both of them doesn't know anything about me.

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Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Noreallynow
I'm not proud of anything. I just asked a question. I only reacted like that because I was fucked with for so long. So, I blew up.

Was it because of that twit who had a crush on your ex?

She was scared as shit. Now, she doesn't go anywhere without her bodyguards. She talks shit when she's around people, but when she's by herself he doesn't have anything to say. I came through the door and her guy friend ducked and put his hands up like I was about to attack him. They're going around spreading rumors about me. Both of them doesn't know anything about me.

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Idk... some people are just incurable assholes. :/

Maybe she'll leave you alone, now.

🙂

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by Noreallynow
I'm not proud of anything. I just asked a question. I only reacted like that because I was fucked with for so long. So, I blew up.

Was it because of that twit who had a crush on your ex?

She was scared as shit. Now, she doesn't go anywhere without her bodyguards. She talks shit when she's around people, but when she's by herself he doesn't have anything to say. I came through the door and her guy friend ducked and put his hands up like I was about to attack him. They're going around spreading rumors about me. Both of them doesn't know anything about me.

Idk... some people are just incurable assholes. :/

Maybe she'll leave you alone, now.

🙂

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Nah, as long as my ex aries friend keeps talking about me, she will never stop. She's obsessed....