@BeaCancer91
11 YearsCancer
Do scorpio men *Test* you with Jealousy?
Do Scorpio Men Test You with Jealousy
Scorpio men often show their interest through subtle teasing and jealousy as a way to gauge your feelings. They may flirt or seek your attention to see how you react, but it does not always mean they are genuinely jealous. Understanding Scorpio's emotional depth helps interpret their actions accurately.
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Normally I don't deal with F/B..but I'm being nosy..curious. Hes really private, I literally know only a few things about him.
Best cure for your problems
DELETE FACEBOOK AND PRETEND IT DOESN'T EXIST
If not, you don't get to complain.
Hmmm,
So you're asking if he has the ability to get a female to post in his page and also has the ability to control your feelings in an effort to trigger an emotion in you?
Scorps arent that powerful.
No one can control your feelings. they can try, but your feelings are your own to control---or not. If you are a jealous (and nosy by your own admission) that's all you. All he did was tag you and post a status update. How you choose to respond is a choice you make.
Posted by LetltB
Best cure for your problemsDELETE FACEBOOK AND PRETEND IT DOESN'T EXIST
If not, you don't get to complain.
I'm not complaining, I was only asking.
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Control my feelings— I was just curious to see if they try the jealousy route. I don't care much for the other girl.
Did you do something to make him jealous? Could he be trying to pay you back for something?
Hmmm,
So you're asking if he has the ability to get a female to post on his page and also has the ability to control your feelings in an effort to trigger an emotion in you?
Scorps arent that powerful.
No one can control your feelings. they can try, but your feelings are your own to control---or not. If you are a jealous (and nosy by your own admission) that's all you. All he did was tag you and post a status update. How you choose to respond is a choice you make.
imes the charm...
The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Control my feelings— I was just curious to see if they try the jealousy route. I don't care much for the other girl.
click to expandApologies, I was trying to fix that typo in = on, but since it's quoted ignore the second post.
Anyway, your question should be do they play games and the second question you need to ask yourself is do I want to be involved with someone that plays games? That's all that really matters. If you're relying on FB to figure out his character, you're already heading in the wrong direction.
All he did was post a status update and ask your feedback on something, but already you're questioning his motives wondering if he's being disingenuous, so...
Posted by Fire-Water
Did you do something to make him jealous? Could he be trying to pay you back for something?
The only thing I can really think of..I missed his call yesterday, didn't call back, didn't mention either.
Posted by PhoenixRising
FFS, third times the charm...The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Control my feelings— I was just curious to see if they try the jealousy route. I don't care much for the other girl.
Apologies, I was trying to fix that typo in = on, but since it's quoted ignore the second post.
Anyway, your question should be do they play games and the second question you need to ask yourself is do I want to be involved with someone that plays games? That's all that really matters. If you're relying on FB to figure out his character, you're already heading in the wrong direction.
All he did was post a status update and ask your feedback on something, but already you're questioning his motives wondering if he's being disingenuous, so...
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Then I'm over analyzing
Posted by PhoenixRising
FFS, third times the charm...The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Control my feelings— I was just curious to see if they try the jealousy route. I don't care much for the other girl.
Apologies, I was trying to fix that typo in = on, but since it's quoted ignore the second post.
Anyway, your question should be do they play games and the second question you need to ask yourself is do I want to be involved with someone that plays games? That's all that really matters. If you're relying on FB to figure out his character, you're already heading in the wrong direction.
All he did was post a status update and ask your feedback on something, but already you're questioning his motives wondering if he's being disingenuous, so...
Then I'm over analyzing
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I think so. Just try to get to know him directly. Don't do the *sneaky detective work unless you have cause to. Especially using social media. You stated yourself, he's private so what is the likelihood he's posting his business (the stuff that matters to you anyway) in FB? Not to mention, as a water sign I would assume you also do not like it when someone draws conclusions about you without taking the time to get to know you right?
If things progress and you two become an item, then you can address any other girls circling this man. Until then, just get to know him.
*this is not the same as not being aware
Oh Jesus christ.
in = on
Posted by Reincarnation
He may be testing you.Whatever he is doing - he is completely aware of it.
And that is the magic of Scorpio.
Your radar doesn't lie, OP... common sense says he's looking to gauge your reaction.
I am going to assume this guy is in his early 20's as well and just say, good luck with that girl.
Posted by PhoenixRising
FFS, third times the charm...The user who posted this message has hidden it.
Control my feelings— I was just curious to see if they try the jealousy route. I don't care much for the other girl.
Apologies, I was trying to fix that typo in = on, but since it's quoted ignore the second post.
Anyway, your question should be do they play games and the second question you need to ask yourself is do I want to be involved with someone that plays games? That's all that really matters. If you're relying on FB to figure out his character, you're already heading in the wrong direction.
All he did was post a status update and ask your feedback on something, but already you're questioning his motives wondering if he's being disingenuous, so...
Then I'm over analyzing
I think so. Just try to get to know him directly. Don't do the *sneaky detective work unless you have cause to. Especially using social media. You stated yourself, he's private so what is the likelihood he's posting his business (the stuff that matters to you anyway) in FB? Not to mention, as a water sign I would assume you also do not like it when someone draws conclusions about you without taking the time to get to know you right?
If things progress and you two become an item, then you can address any other girls circling this man. Until then, just get to know him.
*this is not the same as not being aware
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This is true.
@Rein you are right in this. He is completely aware
@mont
Hmm.what is he up to.
@whatu
No he didn't tag her. She has the right to do whatever she wants,it was just his response. Im actually not jealous, I was only wondering.
Posted by BeaCancer91
@Rein you are right in this. He is completely aware@mont
Hmm.what is he up to.@whatu
No he didn't tag her. She has the right to do whatever she wants,it was just his response. Im actually not jealous, I was only wondering.
You didn't acknowledge his call.
Maybe he just wants to see if you like him, without asking
you directly.
🙂
You are not only over-analyzing you are also obsessing.
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are not only over-analyzing you are also obsessing.
Nah
Posted by LetltB
Best cure for your problemsDELETE FACEBOOK AND PRETEND IT DOESN'T EXIST
If not, you don't get to complain.
FB accelerates the inevitable break up of weak relationships.
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are not only over-analyzing you are also obsessing.Nah
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Ah and in denial. 😉
Posted by Reincarnation
He may be testing you.Whatever he is doing - he is completely aware of it. You are not dealing with an oblivious Sagittarius here.
Just be ultra feminine and let him chase you.
and what did saggis have to do with this ?
Posted by LunarMaiden
You are not only over-analyzing you are also obsessing.Nah
Ah and in denial. 😉
She's a Cancer. I believe she knows exactly what's going on with this guy. You need sensitivity to work with a Scorpio man. You have to read between the lines--at least until its a done deal and committed. Let's be real here. lol
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Add patience to the list........
Update
He SEEMS interested. We were talking about a lot actually. He asked; "What is your type of man? Is there some one you are interested in?" He told me what type of relationship he wants, what type of woman he is into..even asked me "Do I seem like I am your type." To which I somehow got the
... "I love talking to you, I'm glad you are my friend."... The ..Friend...Card?
I don't even know where that girl went..was it jealousy? or meant for otherwise??
ALSO In the middle of us talking he says "I am going to call you back...someone.. (HE STRESSED THAT SO HARD) is blowing my phone up...
Bahhh, I'll just flow with this.
@Rein he ended up giving me the address to his place, but he was very playful...we were playfully teasing though and he said, "I live at ..... "
I need to slow my brain down, and stop picking EVERYTHING apart. I am doing the cancer thing..I hate that.
My scorpio test me all the time but he doesn't try to make me jealous because he knows that behavior will only push me away. However he always sneaks up on me trying to "catch me in the act" secretly watching who I interact with and to what capacity, and I also know he secretly has people watching me and for them to report back anything suspicious to him.
No he does I know it for a fact because I've walked up on his buddy giving him an "update" and the expression on their faces was priceless. Not to mention his friends make it extremely obvious they're on "duty" when he's not around.
Update:
SO, I am still flowing with this.
I get done with what I had to do today, and I respond to a text he sent earlier. He calls me,"Can you help me to stay awake. So in so is drunk. She's going to stay here tonight. I live closer to where she is coming from. I don't know when she will be here, but she is suppose to go one more place, then come here at some point later tonight."
I just say okay. He sounds WORRIED about her. ([SO and SO] is the same girl through the thread.)(No I am not jealous. Don't you say it.) So and so calls, to tell him something. Now he's already worried shes drunk, and he soon learns the driver is too. He is now livid, and really worried about her. I am trying to calm him. I do a bit. He tells me he's going to sleep. Hes obviously to angry to talk. I send him a kiss.. I let my guard down for that..I don't do that... DONE
Moral of this update; I really don't know what to think, and I really was looking forward to staying up with him till the crack of dawn again....Now I realize she has the ability to change his mood....Who is this girl to him...She is 5years younger than he is. I learned today.
Honestly even with all the said. Jealousy is not my mood.I'm actually just caring, and hoping she calls/shows up so he wont be so worried. I know he probably didn't go to sleep. My heart is too big. I hope she will be okay too. :/
How does she go from being somebody he at some point wont give a second though about... i.e he's hung up on her, and ignored her to talk to me... to some one he TRULY cares for i.e what he did today...calling her repeatedly..
I'm in a world wind of something aren't I? I fear I may start to like him, It only an attraction to him right now, and I also care about his well being...back into my shell I run...
Bea.
We are on the phone, he just called me back..I knew he wasn't sleep..hes worried as hell.
The like is start...*mad dash for my shell*
starting*
You're in the friend zone. The "girl" is who he is into and has feelings for, you're going to end up hurt if you invest anything emotionally into him. He's showing you that she means a lot to him and she is his priority and who he wants to be with.
@Cancer Lady
The guys I don't see ANYTHING in at all period, are all over me. Ready to be with me, and such...
I treat him the same as I would like any of them though. How am I in the friend-zone? Did I wedge myself right in there? -.-
When I asked him "Are you interested in someone right now." and he said .."Yes." I should have probably been like ...oh..her... I'm just the cool person to him... :/ Why do I care really?
It just seems like hes interested..the daily phone calls, we stay up late into the next morning on my days off talking about anything..he always sends me a message first. I have initiated a few times but he's done it most of the time. He did say we should "hang out." one day. He told me he really liked talking to me.."I'm his friend." He finds me attractive. Other than that he hasn't done anything special. He does question what my type is a-lot, and he has asked if I could ever see myself in a relationship with him.
Yeah when he told you that you should have backed off. You wedged yourself in the friend zone when you continued to be available to him after he told you he was interested in someone else.
You like him so it's okay to care but be realistic about the situation. He is very much into "her" and that isn't going to change anytime soon. Not to mention why would you even want to be someone's plan B.
Okay he told you you're his friend and he's interested in someone else.
Curtain close The End.
I don't want to be plan B...ever, he called me and told me he was okay now..shes okay and coming over there I cant help, but be lit...fire in my bones a little, but you are totally right, and I am way in my shell now, no thank you to plan B.
@whatu
ughh. I am not playing at all..I'm trying to be a good.."friend" -.- lol....Now I can't go to sleep, because she's GOING TO BE over there... A movie of what WILL/CAN/MAY/MIGHT happen is going through my head... -.-
WIDE AWAKE.
Posted by Whatu
LMFAO this sounds exactly like the thread that cancer guy made about a scorpio girl. Cancers honestly stop playing with scorpio's. date libras and sags
Honestly, young Crabs suck at this.
When I was her age I was dating Fire and Air and had no issues.
Those guys are very direct and you know where you stand.
If they didn't want you, they don't toy with you.
You move on, none of this late night street corner psychologist sessions.
Posted by BeaCancer91
It just seems like hes interested..the daily phone calls, we stay up late into the next morning on my days off talking about anything..he always sends me a message first. I have initiated a few times but he's done it most of the time. He did say we should "hang out." one day. He told me he really liked talking to me.."I'm his friend." He finds me attractive. Other than that he hasn't done anything special. He does question what my type is a-lot, and he has asked if I could ever see myself in a relationship with him.
Bea, none of this matters. You are in your feelings, not thinking clearly.
He's not into you. He has told you this but you won't hear it.
It's been long enough for him to express a romantic interest, he has not.
You are pretty and sweet natured, he likes you clearly; you feed his ego.
You are hanging around and waiting for him.
This will eventually put you in a doormat or sex buddy position.
Is that what you want?
Look out for yourself and find a man who respects and cherishes you.
Put some distance, don't take his calls only to hear him cry about some other girl. WTF?
You are not his psychiatrist.
This connection you have with him is lukewarm at best.
Don't you want fire and passion in your life? Crabs are built for love, passion and romance.
Don't you want a guy to court you; come up to you and ask you out on a date and you guys both hit the town together. Travel to far away exotic places together.
Sneak kisses and hold each other? Sharing dreams, meeting each others friends and telling everyone that this is your guy and he says you are his girl. Don't you want that?
You deserve that, all you need to do is believe it.
You are wasting your time, your time is valuable.
Don't give it to just anyone.
When you find the right guy, you won't have to wait or convince him of anything.
He will see YOU, want you and let you know that he wants you.
Don't waste the pretty. 🙂
"LukeWarm." that made me laugh. 🙂
This is the only time he's called me to "cry" about another female. All of our phone calls consist of "getting to know each other."
Also I am not waiting around for him at all. I told him I'm not wanting a relationship with anyone whether I feel something or not. I am just not ready for that. It DID hit me hard tonight realizing I do like him:/ I was trying not to 😢 but he's hard working, he's independent, he's very intellectual, strong, sweet, and has a marvelous sense of humor, and oh...lets not forget that six pack... 😉
Regardless of him though I have been on some dates even throughout this entire "ordeal"
and YES I want all of the things you listed. 🙂
Hm, one of you guys said I was in denial, and soon would be confessing my "Undying feelings for him." I don't know who it was..ugh lol
and thank you Lunar
Posted by BeaCancer91
"LukeWarm." that made me laugh. 🙂This is the only time he's called me to "cry" about another female. All of our phone calls consist of "getting to know each other."
Also I am not waiting around for him at all. I told him I'm not wanting a relationship with anyone whether I feel something or not. I am just not ready for that. It DID hit me hard tonight realizing I do like him:/ I was trying not to 😢 but he's hard working, he's independent, he's very intellectual, strong, sweet, and has a marvelous sense of humor, and oh...lets not forget that six pack... 😉
Regardless of him though I have been on some dates even throughout this entire "ordeal"
and YES I want all of the things you listed. 🙂
Hm, one of you guys said I was in denial, and soon would be confessing my "Undying feelings for him." I don't know who it was..ugh lol
and thank you Lunar
Have you considered that you got friend zoned because you told him you don't want a relationship?
@mont
Yeah, and I realize I don't like the friendzone, I put myself in. I'm terrible, Lol but I don't want to dwell on this . I do like him, but I have to much going on.
I hate how I can't shut my thoughts off. Thinking things such as. "He may just really care for her, and that it is."
I am shutting my eyes on that note
Night
These games Cancer women play always back-fire on them and then they act innocent.
I have no pity on them when they come in here whining about it ... tbh, I have no pity on any person who whines because they don't like the choices they make for themselves.
You are playing him due to your jealousy ... and obviously to weak to own it.
*too
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Scorpio Sun, Taurus Moon, and I have been talking a lot lately.
He posts something on face-book, and tags me. ONLY ME. It was one of those.."tell me what you think of me." type questions. I answered it. He responded. That was that.
TODAY this girl. (I have done my share of investigation on her) she has a HUGE crush on him, and its obvious he may feel something too, but she too points out things she feels/think. Mind you .. I am tagged in it... so I can see whatever they say, whenever they say it.
Its hard to tell. Is he flirting? Is he trying to catch my attention some kinda way? Scorpio people do have a natural flirty disposition... I'm not really jealous, but it DEFINITELY caught my eye.
Maybe I am doing the cancer thing where I over-analyze things? In a previous FB status he posted," I wish so-so was off work right now." with said girl's name.
I don't know.