How do you test or spy the ones you love ?

To all the scorpio guys and the girls dating scorpio guys.. How do scorpios test and spy the ones they love. And why do they do it. Please share your experiences

As this question is asked ... the assumption is made that you are loved.

You're guilty until you've proven yourself to be even more guilty.

Totally agree with Impulsv. It is initial screening stages. I want to suss out what kind of a person you are beneath this Impression you are trying to give off of yourself. Everyone likes to make themselves appear nicer, funnier, more honest etc then they are to impress someone. I like to suss out the real you before I allow myself to invest time into a relationship.

It applies to Cancer's we don't trust people right away either I spend time observing before I consider taking things further. I usually can feel out a person pretty quickly if I can trust them they need to prove themselves thou. I think Cancer's intuition is much stronger than Scorpios, we are far more observant.

The problem with Scorpios the person that they show the public a fa?ade nobody see the true Scorpio until they let you into their life they hide ALOT about themselves. When people see me it is what you see is what you get I don't change if I'm in a bad mood you will see it. I find my other Cancer friends are the same as me what you see is what you get there is nothing hiding behind a mask.

Scorpios get you lured in then they start revealing themselves about their past that's when you as the other sign start thinking ooh do I really want to get involved with this Scorpio.

I have learned don't tree trunk with a Scorpio's feelings once they trust you it will turn ugly if you do.

That last line ^^^ is most definitely true!

For me researching and testing are two very different things. Research and investigation are done consciously, but only on public things like social media; I have never followed or stalked anybody.
Now the "tests" that I think you are talking about in my case is totally subconscious. The other day this guy at work gave me chocolates, I said "hey lets share!", open the box and offer them to him, he said "no no ladies first" and I said "it's ok choose any" and he refused again. After that in my mind I thought "he has good manners: checked" but the thought even surprised me, if he had actually took the chocolates first it would have been a turn off. I didn't offer the chocolates first with the idea of testing him, but after the thought came to me I realized that's kind of how it turned out...
If all else fails just tie them and see if it floats like whatu said.

Oh btw I don't love this guy, I think I do this with just anybody, human behaviour is fun to watch.

Posted by LittleMissPerfect
Oh btw I don't love this guy, I think I do this with just anybody, human behaviour is fun to watch.

It is... Or it was... Then I realized just how many people are truly ugly on the inside.... Too many 😐

I realized to counter act that I need time to myself frequently to recharge the moon.

Posted by LittleMissPerfect
For me researching and testing are two very different things. Research and investigation are done consciously, but only on public things like social media; I have never followed or stalked anybody.
Now the "tests" that I think you are talking about in my case is totally subconscious. The other day this guy at work gave me chocolates, I said "hey lets share!", open the box and offer them to him, he said "no no ladies first" and I said "it's ok choose any" and he refused again. After that in my mind I thought "he has good manners: checked" but the thought even surprised me, if he had actually took the chocolates first it would have been a turn off. I didn't offer the chocolates first with the idea of testing him, but after the thought came to me I realized that's kind of how it turned out...
If all else fails just tie them and see if it floats like whatu said.

I tend to do this sort of thing myself.