how fast is too fast to move in with someone —??

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i'm dating a scorpio male, we've been dating for almost 2 months now. and he is amazing!!! he treats me so good, the best that anyone i have ever dated has treated me. we can talk sooo easily, and we get along great. we spend a lot of time together, and i have not once found myself getting sick of him being around. not only do i feel a remarkable amount of passion towards him, but he also feels like a bestfriend. and i feel like i have known him for years, when that's not the case. he says he's in love with me, and i believe him. and i feel like i'm truely in love with him too. even though we have only known eachother for a short amount of time. lately we have been "talking" about some pretty serious stuff. he wants us to move in together, and we have even discussed getting married !!! (i don't know if this counts for anything, but we have not yet started a sexual relationship). my friends say it's a terrible idea for us to move in together, but i want to. he's the best, plane and simple. but reality says, you should wait awhile before taking this step. i discussed it with my mother, and she said to do whatever my heart tells me to do. but still, i'm not sure, because i have never done anything like this before. can anybody help —??

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I must ask who's name will be on the lease, the bills and stamped across your forehead. It is plain and simple to see that you don't have enough experience with people or life to make this move. If he loves you (which I doubt because only Christ can love so quickly and unconditionally) then he will wait for your relationship to prove it's worth before you make moves that it may take both of you alot of time, money and heartache to undo. It makes me kinda sad to read how people make a mockery to an emotion so mysterious and deep, as the true and spiritual meaning of love. Love is an ongoing concern, it's not a fly by night carny tent game.