How much attention do you Scorpio woman want? (Page 2)

right! ehm.

You talk like you scorpios are this creatures that are on the spiritual side of life. My best friends are sorpios.
Forgive me but isn't the 8'th house also the house of shared money and resources, beside sex? Or why are people with 8th house venus attracted to money?
Please don't get me wrong. I'm not saying you are shallow individuals in any way. But let's be frank. money is power, and power is sexy.

Posted by ScorpSuperior
lol *Drive

Yeah my bad I lead you in the error ^.^

I aspire to be like he is in that movie.... Never say more than is necessary....
When I speak it is to the point, pertinent, and endearing...
Stare people directly in the FUCKING FACE when I'm saying everything thing w00t he is a fearless dude... course there are two parts where in real life that is just stupid... (meaning the two parts where he turns his back to someone he knows is going to potentially try to kill him... in real life he would be dead but it's a movie so w/e)

I just like his humble quite composure... I wanna be like that because I feel I am a lot more humble than I am perceived to be and a lot of it has to do with my big ass mouth.

I would like to think he is just meaning the fact of having the money...

Flashing your wallet to a lot of women is a big fat turn off...

Thank you Aqua! 🙂

Posted by scorchedearth
damn it elle! the second house isn't just about possessions. 😭

my aries stellium is there along with my sun and i don't really give a shit about money. only my VALUES.

/nerd rage over.

carry on.

Scorched, I bought you a bottle of Riesling. Do you drink Riesling?

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
If you call her again within the next 24 hours, she's going to be frightened. Because I will be frightened and I've never even met you. That's not speaking from a Scorp POV, but from a the average person's persceptive.

You bloody yanks crack me up with your melodramatic/neurotic crap! In Europe, a woman would be annoyed. Grow some balls, will yer!

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Frightened and annoyed mean the same thing here, you didn't know?

Posted by ellessque
do they?

I get annoyed easily.

I didn't think that meant I was frightened.

*scratches head*

No, sorry. I just wanted to see if I could get him to go and google it or ask someone. He's probably doing that right now.

Elle makes some valid points, gentleman.

I suppose I exaggerated with the word choice. "Caught off guard" or "taken back" would have better captured the reaction I was attempting to describe.

Yes I agree she does.

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Posted by Poisson
!! Uhm. excuse me...

Seriously though. Don't take any of it too personally... some women are just generally open and friendly, and can come off as more interested than they really are. I don't see your interactions with her, so I'm not saying that this is the case. She gave you her number. You've called and texted. The ball is in her court.

Good luck, bud. If things does progress with her, then maybe she can help you wax your chest.

Just remember that there are a lot of immature women out there who LOVE collecting numbers from men. They slavishly gaze into their smartphones (obviously because they're not particular smart to begin with), and feel an air of smugness envelop when another male sucker attempts to contact them (most of the time in vain). And all of this will be in-between their religious Facefuck sessions, where they're too stressed out managing their +100,000 friends - half of which they've never met (or only met once) and where at least 25% of their male 'friends' secretly want to fuck 'em...

Don't feed the ego! And remember, Everyone's Got One!

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Yes.... that is actually what I more or less expect to meet. Maybe not too quite THAT degree... that is like the epitome of a sociopath you just described there. However, if she is anything like that.... and has acted and done the things she has done, solely to gain my interest for her... She is one hell of a good actor and she should try to get into showbiz.

I personally have been around her for months now... I would be really shocked if she turned out to be like that!!!

Oooh, guys, look what I found...

- The polarity covers a number of themes, and if we consider the mundane side-effects of the 2nd then we might get some insight into the 8th as well. The 2nd is the house of money, of material resources and wealth. Thus the 8th has some affinity, not with death but with resources and values. Now let us dig a little deeper and understand that the 2nd has this association with resources, not because it was just decided thus at some point in history, but because it is the natural house of Taurus and this actually informs the concerns of the second and by extension forms the resonant polarity with the 8th. The 2nd then is nothing more than the mundane and natural area of concern of the Taurean principle. You might even say that it is the area of interest that a true Taurean might most closely attend. That is why the 2nd is about money, because Taurus, fixed earth, is a lover of the finest material joys of earthly existence; it enjoys good food, good wine, the finest and most sumptuous silks, the tactile sensations, contact with the earthy stuff and there is no more accessible means to realising fixed earth than through money.

The polarity of Scorpio, and thus the 8th, is also concerned with resources, but because Scorpio is fixed water the resources are emotional instead of material. Now we are not concerned with food for the body, but actually with food for the soul, now we need to discover what sustains us that we cannot touch. If Taurus is about having enough to survive, then Scorpio is about having little enough to survive. Taurus is about wealth and Scorpio about austerity and this informs the 8th house because it contains a lesson of Scorpio at its heart and by its polarity that lesson is tied up with Taurus. This is why the 8th is frequently concerned with legacies, because these are bequests of other people's resources and astrologically other people are contained within the opposition and if Scorpio tells us to be self-reliant in a non-material manner then our money is likely to come from others simply out of necessity. A strongly Scorpionic individual, or one with many 8th house placements is just not going to be motivated to amass wealth in the way that a Taurus/2nd house native will be and so a legacy might well be their best bet for material comfort in this incarnation. Of course, this matter of legacies goes deeper still because the essence of Scorpio is —loyalty unto death??, and this level of devotion

that is aligned to an ideal higher than mere financial improvement makes a powerful ally; actually the type of ally that one might consider worthy of reward when one is composing one's will.

So the 2nd then is about having enough to be self-sufficient and the 8th by contrast is also about not needing so much to be self-sufficient. They are both powers with the same objective: self-sufficiency but with diametrically opposed methods. The 2nd says —wealth buys freedom?? while the 8th says —less is more??. The 2nd represents life only in the sense that it clings to the earthly vibration with a vicelike grip while the 8th transcends the earthy fixation of Taurus and finds sustenance in the emotional consistency of such ideals as loyalty, self-reliance and above all Spartanism. Taurus then is Louis XIVth while Scorpio is Leonidas.

If you understand this, Louis and Leonidas, then you understand the 2nd and the 8th.

Nobody's gonna wanna read all that, but I got it from here: http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/scorpio-and-taurus-the-2nd-and-the-8th/

Posted by ScorpSuperior
Nobody's gonna wanna read all that, but I got it from here: http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/scorpio-and-taurus-the-2nd-and-the-8th/

I read it. IT's a very nice description put it's somehow poetic and lacks the real grip.
I'm sure you can find other article too where the "other people's money" is a small part form the definition of the 8th house.
I hate to be in contradiction with people, especially scorpio ladies 😉, but hey! this is dxp! it's the charm of this nuthouse. :=))))

I actually can't think of a role Ryan Gosling has played yet that I didn't find awesome....

Wow never thought about it before... I feel like some chick groupie now...

Posted by OvS

Posted by ScorpSuperior
Nobody's gonna wanna read all that, but I got it from here: http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/scorpio-and-taurus-the-2nd-and-the-8th/

I read it. IT's a very nice description put it's somehow poetic and lacks the real grip.
I'm sure you can find other article too where the "other people's money" is a small part form the definition of the 8th house.
I hate to be in contradiction with people, especially scorpio ladies 😉, but hey! this is dxp! it's the charm of this nuthouse. :=))))

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Yea, I did come across some. Just now and also in the past. I can recall, although not very specifically. I've read material that's said that Scorpio/8th house represents everything the taurus/2nd house does, only the former's energy is less self-contained and more other-directed than the latter.

I have limited knowledge of astrology, especially compared to many of you here. So, I just take what I read and chalk it up as interesting if nothing else. I can only speak from my own viewpoint, as we all do.

Posted by Poisson
The Notebook! God, it sucked balls! Couldn't even stomach finishing it...

Damn! LOOOOOOOOOOOL first female I ever heard make that remark SHOCKED!

Posted by BullGem
Wow, way to make the taureans sound superficial, SS!! 😛

Really? lol Did it come off that way?! I hope not. I certainly don't think that at all. 3 of my closest friends are Taureans, so I have witnessed firsthand how much substance and depth they contain.

Posted by Poisson
The Notebook! God, it sucked balls! Couldn't even stomach finishing it...

Wooow. You're the first female I've ever heard say this. Even I cried and I'm not usually a fan of the "Chick Flick" genre. Stone Cold Poisson lol

You scorpios are the best I know when dealing with money and saving them.

I found the devotion to his wife with Dementia or Alzheimer's whichever it was she had... was very beautiful

Now the story in of itself... well yes very predictable your right.

Never thought about it in that respect... but aren't most love stories predictable?

The only one that I can think of at the moment that I never saw the ending coming was... The Tourist

And that is sorta a unconventional love story haha

Posted by OvS
You scorpios are the best I know when dealing with money and saving them.

Well....🙂 *blushes* I am known to be good with money, if I may say so myself.

Posted by Poisson
To me it was just soooo overly sappy and clich?...and predictable. I like romantic movies well enough, but I felt like I was being spoonfed sugar, syrup and molasses with that nonsense. Give me some subtlety. Make my brain work a little, ya know? I apologize to anyone who loved that movie. /rant.

lol I think I know what you mean. I've only seen it once several years go, and at that particular time I was in the mood to be mushy and emo. Haven't been in the mood to watch it again since, lol. I will eventually see it again tho.

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Posted by BullGem
Wow, way to make the taureans sound superficial, SS!! 😛

Really? lol Did it come off that way?! I hope not. I certainly don't think that at all. 3 of my closest friends are Taureans, so I have witnessed firsthand how much substance and depth they contain.

Nah...I'm kiddin' ya!
Unfortunately I have met one taurus girl who proudly declared she wants to marry rich and do little to no work. smh... I feel ashamed for her.

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Geez. Good luck to the courageous man who lands her.

I'll say this story. When I was College there was one girl I wanted more than any other. I would text and call she would NEVER, I MEAN NEVER TEXT ME back or return my messages. But I would see her out and she would act like nothing has happened. I would make a joke about her not answering her phone once or twice and leave it at that. Found out she was trying to break it off with her BF. Eventually we Smaged. Because I chilled and figured her out. If you know she doesnt return calls then stick with that and keep it moving but still be cool with her when you see her. So chill and hope you run into her out and kept the smiles coming and be that cool funny dude. DONT BE Needy. I dont care what sign she is. She will run for the hills if she feels like your a burden when your not even an item!

Posted by PP
I'll say this story. When I was College there was one girl I wanted more than any other. I would text and call she would NEVER, I MEAN NEVER TEXT ME back or return my messages. But I would see her out and she would act like nothing has happened. I would make a joke about her not answering her phone once or twice and leave it at that. Found out she was trying to break it off with her BF. Eventually we Smaged. Because I chilled and figured her out. If you know she doesnt return calls then stick with that and keep it moving but still be cool with her when you see her. So chill and hope you run into her out and kept the smiles coming and be that cool funny dude. DONT BE Needy. I dont care what sign she is. She will run for the hills if she feels like your a burden when your not even an item!

Yes man you are very right...

Actually to tell you the truth me wanting to do what I've been talking about is really kinda selfish...
Cause it's me who's got this emotional problem at the moment not her...
I only started it because for some dumb reason I was getting the impression I should but in hindsight... I think if that was what she was really wanting she would have let more know a lot more directly... and not quite so subtly like I was thinking.

Im going to be cool beans now all though as I've been all semester... no more of this "do you want a ride to your car shit" "oh your cold want my flannel?"... no moe that shit just gonna be there if she ever needs me... In truth she really doesn't need me or anyone... she is trying to get that degree just like me and I'm only complicating matters for her...... I think MAYBE it's fucked for good... I sounded like a little bitch on that voice message but w/e... Was trying to express myself...

You live and you learn...

Man The way Drive ended was like... you wanted him to be with that girl.. BUT she probably would forever have this Image of him crushing some guys skull in violently to death...

She would never forget that...

Posted by Poisson
To me it was just soooo overly sappy and clich?...and predictable. I like romantic movies well enough, but I felt like I was being spoonfed sugar, syrup and molasses with that nonsense. Give me some subtlety. Make my brain work a little, ya know? I apologize to anyone who loved that movie. /rant.

Another female here to say --

I never felt compelled to watch
this movie when seeing it on my
program guide.
I just now watched the trailer
on YouTube, and still,
it didn't grab me.

It may have if I were younger, idk.

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Posted by OvS
Come on, as a woman it's natural to be interested in money. As long as the man is self made and does not brag about it.

are you fucking serious?

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+1 My only quote for the day, and well deserved. As you were....

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Posted by ScorpSuperior
Nobody's gonna wanna read all that, but I got it from here: http://chirotic.wordpress.com/2008/06/07/scorpio-and-taurus-the-2nd-and-the-8th/

my aries brain couldnt read past the first 3 words. hahahaha.. smh.

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LOL. Yea, same here. I kind of skimmed through and found words that had been mentioned in this thread, lol.

I can't watch that. Once I start tearing up, I'm done. It could be over for me. I'm not ready atm. I'll definitely watch it later. Thanks 🙂

Wow that was sweet Poisson...

It put the biggest smile on my face

Posted by BlackIndian22
Hey man, just call her when she decides to call you. If she doesn't, then forget her ass. I mean if a woman likes you, she wont miss a day of calling you. No one is that busy. If she playing games with you, find someone who can give you plenty of attention. There are women out there who love giving their men attention. You might have an airy Scorpio on your hands. Which may be tough to handle. I bet she has air in her chart, because she's too independent for you. You will know if she has water in her chart, cus she won't be as distant as an airy Scorpio

Hey thnks Indian!

However, last night the feelings got too great... funny for an Aqua to say right... well they was too much they were beginning to get too great as it was... but I was managing but last night was BOOM actaully all day yesterday too really..

I could not study at all whatsoever for my Accounting Final today like I got zero studying done I just couldn't focus!?
I was like the hell with this mediocre BULLSHIT I'm either gonna have her or not...
I'm done with this in between shit... It is interfering with my school life and regular life...

I decided I would bug the living shit out of her on her phone with text messages because at this point I'd rather be without her or... have her.... being friends pffft I'm only friends with girls who I will eventually get with ....
Well I think my being totally open with my feelings totally.... caught her off guard and she tripped up big time....
Caught her in a lie.... Which actually makes me mad that she is intentionally playing mind games because ....
Well I don't know why for sure she .... I would assume to get information about me because she doesn't not seem like a player but I've been wrong before.....
Anyhow she tried to argue her way out of it but it only made it more obvious and she KNEW
HAHA right now I feel GREAT I win! haha She needs to remember that just becase she is smart does not mean I'm dumb
Whether or not it's gonna go anywhere I dunno... This Scorpio looks like I will need to be very clever....
I wish she hadn't caught me off in the middle of telling her something because I think if she knew it....
This would all end or go by much more smoothly.... BUT NO the first time she decides to chime in on 12 15 some odd texts is when I'm sending that one! Now if I send that it will totally look like manipulation...

Poisson, are you a photographer of sorts?

yeah ...... I guess I am 😢

Posted by Poisson
I can't blast Aquaruans just quite yet. A have a few friends that are Aquas and they're good people, a few are brilliantly smart. One is my BFF of 15+ years, who I'd call if I even end up killing someone. He'd drive over with a shovel, a tarp and a bottle of gin.

You seem nice enough of a guy. Just refrain from being a neurotic, that's all.

Posted by ScorpSuperior
Poisson, are you a photographer of sorts?

More of a hobbyist. But I love it.

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Figured as much. Good stuff.