Hi. I met a Scorpio in March this year and I noticed immediately that he had a crush on me. He would be really nice with me and find excuses to talk to me. But I noticed that A LOT of girls like him!!! He's just super nice and charming and I think that's why he attracts many women. Since he's so popular with women, I decided to let him do all the chasing. I never showed him I liked him, complimented him, or threw myself at him like all women do. Instead I acted a little aloof. Plus, I heard Scorpios like challenges so that's why I didn't want to make things easy for him. I wanted him to conquer me. After 3 months of chasing me and trying to get my attention, he abruptly stopped!!! He started to distance himself from me and one day he just stopped approaching me. And I assumed it was because I never gave him signs of liking him back. I thought Scorpio guys didn't give up easily so I thought I was doing the right thing by being aloof with him. It literally seemed like he had moved on and that he hated me for not being nice with him. He started being distant since July and a week ago I posted a selfie on Facebook and suddenly he liked it!!! I was surprised because I really thought he had moved on and forgot that I existed. Since I didn't want to be so mean with him and I wanted his friendship back, I decided to like a post he had put on Facebook the day before. This is the first time I ever liked any of his stuff or showed him affection and after that day he started talking to me again!!!!!! Now he's starting to be sweet again like before. I don't want to loose him anymore but I don't know if I should continue to be nice or act like he's not all that since many women like him. I just don't want to be another girl for him. I want him to take me seriously and I want him to conquer me and not take me for granted. BTW, I'm a Cancer so we're a good match. What advice can you give me?
