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hi guys i would really appreciate your input on my situation.. im a taurus girl with a gemini moon dating a scorpio with a leo moon for over 4 years now... everything was great in our relationship except the occassional fighting but everything changed in febuary of this year. he became very stressed and preocupied with work related stuff and his mother getting really ill and it just made our relationship feel so distant... but getting to the point, he has a really good friend who is a gemini (dont know his moon sign unfortunately) that would always come over, they have been great friends since high school and at first i hated that guy.. i dont know why my bf was friends with him. he seemed cocky and arrogant and sometimes just flat out annoying. one night we were drinking and playing cards at my bf's house with this gemini guy and i dont know what happened but we got to talking and we just really hit it off. i never really experienced something like this before. the more we talked the more we realized how much we had in common and how our sense of humor is so similar. over the next few months he came over regularly like he always did and we just built a really good bond and became great friends.. even my bf started noticing it and got a little jealous and when we faught he would tease me saying stuff like "well then why dont u go over to his place if ur so mad" and stuff. and when my bf would say things like that at first i would laugh it off but then after awhile i started thinking heavily about it and i realized that i started to develope feelings for the gemini that i denied for months.

recently i celebrated a birthday and the gemini came over and bought me a really nice gift. as the night progressed i got very drunk and ended up getting sick and my bf didnt even care. he was so busy getting wasted with his friends.. while i was puking in the bathroom guess who comes in? the gemini. i dont remember much but i know he held my hair back while i puked and washed my face with cold water and then took me to the bedroom with my best friend. and i feel like he kissed me on the cheek in the bathroom but i dont remember i was so wasted and felt so sick! the next day i woke up and i couldnt stop thinking about him. ok this is gonna be to long so fast forward to last week..

the gemini comes over and i told him my bf was at work. he looked a little disappointed but then we decided we should just hang out together. well to shorten this up after awhile one thing led to another and we started kissing. i dont know who made the first move or what happened but it just happened. then we ended up having unprotected sex on the couch and it was amazing. that day i got a pregnancy test and it came back negative and i got rid of it before my bf came home from work. i have not talkin to the gemini since but yesterday he sent me a long text basically confessing his love to me. and i think i feel the same way..

how do i break up with my bf and pursue this other
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how do i break up wth my bf and pursue this other guy? i care about him but the spark has been gone for a few months now..

do i tell him everything that happened and be honest with him or do i just break things off with him and date the gemini until we decide to go public with things? i dont know what to do but my heart is telling me that im in love with another man and its not fair for me or my bf to stay with him anymore. i havent texted the gemini back yet because im so nervous i dont know what to say and i dont even know where to go from here. i just know i wanna be with him but maybe we can never be because of his friendship with my bf. i dont know what to do.
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
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how do i break up wth my bf and pursue this other guy? i care about him but the spark has been gone for a few months now..

do i tell him everything that happened and be honest with him or do i just break things off with him and date the gemini until we decide to go public with things? i dont know what to do but my heart is telling me that im in love with another man and its not fair for me or my bf to stay with him anymore. i havent texted the gemini back yet because im so nervous i dont know what to say and i dont even know where to go from here. i just know i wanna be with him but maybe we can never be because of his friendship with my bf. i dont know what to do.
You just do what comes natural.


You already had feelings, then solidified them by taking it physical... And you want him.

Easy. Be truthful. Just say you like the gem and tell the scorp why, and call the fem up and go out.


Of we don't follow what we want, and continue to keep up something fake for the sake of appearance, or to protect another - we lose our passion!

And you won't do your current any favors by keeping him around when you don't want him.
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how do i break up wth my bf and pursue this other guy? i care about him but the spark has been gone for a few months now..

do i tell him everything that happened and be honest with him or do i just break things off with him and date the gemini until we decide to go public with things? i dont know what to do but my heart is telling me that im in love with another man and its not fair for me or my bf to stay with him anymore. i havent texted the gemini back yet because im so nervous i dont know what to say and i dont even know where to go from here. i just know i wanna be with him but maybe we can never be because of his friendship with my bf. i dont know what to do.
You just do what comes natural.


You already had feelings, then solidified them by taking it physical... And you want him.

Easy. Be truthful. Just say you like the gem and tell the scorp why, and call the fem up and go out.


Of we don't follow what we want, and continue to keep up something fake for the sake of appearance, or to protect another - we lose our passion!

And you won't do your current any favors by keeping him around when you don't want him.
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i agree with u thats why i wanna be with the gemini but it just sucks to be in this situation because its not any random guy i fell for........ i fell for his friend. i dont even wanna know what everyone is gonna think when they find out let alone my bf.
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You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
well dont tell scorpio. And also that gem guys is a fuckboy. Surely you couldnot trust him but again same can be said to you. People make mistake but this is huge. Don't give any hint to about gem.
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so dont tell my bf? just break up with him and move on and date the gem? i was thinking that to. and then in a few months we could go public with our relationship and then it wont seem like i cheated on my bf and left him for the gemini
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how do i break up wth my bf and pursue this other guy? i care about him but the spark has been gone for a few months now..

do i tell him everything that happened and be honest with him or do i just break things off with him and date the gemini until we decide to go public with things? i dont know what to do but my heart is telling me that im in love with another man and its not fair for me or my bf to stay with him anymore. i havent texted the gemini back yet because im so nervous i dont know what to say and i dont even know where to go from here. i just know i wanna be with him but maybe we can never be because of his friendship with my bf. i dont know what to do.
You just do what comes natural.


You already had feelings, then solidified them by taking it physical... And you want him.

Easy. Be truthful. Just say you like the gem and tell the scorp why, and call the fem up and go out.


Of we don't follow what we want, and continue to keep up something fake for the sake of appearance, or to protect another - we lose our passion!

And you won't do your current any favors by keeping him around when you don't want him.
i agree with u thats why i wanna be with the gemini but it just sucks to be in this situation because its not any random guy i fell for........ i fell for his friend. i dont even wanna know what everyone is gonna think when they find out let alone my bf.
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But would not a friend tell their friend the truth?

It's a release. Go claim your freedom.
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You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
well dont tell scorpio. And also that gem guys is a fuckboy. Surely you couldnot trust him but again same can be said to you. People make mistake but this is huge. Don't give any hint to about gem.
so dont tell my bf? just break up with him and move on and date the gem? i was thinking that to. and then in a few months we could go public with our relationship and then it wont seem like i cheated on my bf and left him for the gemini
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-shudders-

Please don't lie or omit things from the Scorpio. For the sake of honesty, and also your own conscious. I'm sure this is eating at you.
Go after what you want, as you should -- but do it honestly.
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Damn idk what to say. U only have 1 life. I agree with everyone geminis...u have gem moon...but they wishy washy ppl. Your 24 right? Love comes and go...if u dont see neither of these 2 as a potential husband then.....what r u doing it for lust....make sure its not a honey moon phase either. U been worh scorpio 4 yrs...love isnt perfect...u havent even barely tried working on ur rel....things arent always glitter and gold babe....
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You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
well dont tell scorpio. And also that gem guys is a fuckboy. Surely you couldnot trust him but again same can be said to you. People make mistake but this is huge. Don't give any hint to about gem.
so dont tell my bf? just break up with him and move on and date the gem? i was thinking that to. and then in a few months we could go public with our relationship and then it wont seem like i cheated on my bf and left him for the gemini
-shudders-

Please don't lie or omit things from the Scorpio. For the sake of honesty, and also your own conscious. I'm sure this is eating at you.
Go after what you want, as you should -- but do it honestly.
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i dont know if i have the guts to tell my bf what happened and how i feel..... maybe the gemini will tell him. i just feel so bad about everything. he knew his friend even before he met me. he really trusts us both and i know he trusts me so much so this is gonna be so heart braking for him
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Damn idk what to say. U only have 1 life. I agree with everyone geminis...u have gem moon...but they wishy washy ppl. Your 24 right? Love comes and go...if u dont see neither of these 2 as a potential husband then.....what r u doing it for lust....make sure its not a honey moon phase either. U been worh scorpio 4 yrs...love isnt perfect...u havent even barely tried working on ur rel....things arent always glitter and gold babe....
i thought i was gonna marry the scorpio i thought we were gonna be together for the rest of our lives but things change and things happen.... we talked about kids and everything but i just fell for someone else. this gemini makes me feel like i never felt before. even when he looks at me he makes me feel beautiful. i think hes the one and i know its crazy to say but thats how i feel
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some of u are making me feel so guilty. maybe i should just stay with my bf and pretend like this never happened and when the gemini comes over just stay in the room. i dont know.
I'm not trying to make you feel guilty. I'm trying to get you to face the consequences and be honest. You're young and you're human, so you still have lessons to learn. I personally have never cheated and never will.
However, it does happen. And it's horribly sad. But what's done is done -- just own it, especially if you're really serious about choosing to be with this Gem or stay with the Scorp. You can't pretend that this didn't happen.
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They deserve each other
The fact he was teasing about bf he already sensed it. When things occur he'll put two n two together.
Not sure why Taurus is not so bright
I mean It is obvious the ( scumbag of a man that he is) what kinda of guy is
U think he was being nice lol he is use the opportunity of weakenes when u in the bathroom n kissed u when u were clueless n drunk. N then messes with his Freinds gf. * shakes head u guys not that bright nor care about the character of the person
All about lust.
dont say that hes a really good guy. he would never take advantage of me like that. we just had this connection for months and he coudlnt help it. thats why when he came over its like we lost our minds nd we just started kissing and then ended up having sex. we had no control sometimes ppl make u feel like that.
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Talk to the Gemini...talk about what's important to him in terms of the Scorpio's friendship...it is at risk.

You should have ended things with the Scorpio before things started (officially) with the Gemini but that is in the past.

If you tell the Scorpio, then it will hurt him. If you both tell him it will be to deal with your own guilt.

You need to end things with the Scorpio...period. This is not about the Gemini. It is about you ending things because you needed to. The Gemini just helped you see more clearly perhaps. Let's say the Gemini was not in the picture...seems like you were heading for a breakup with the Scorp anyway...things were just accelerated.

Talk to the Gemini and figure out a way to handle it. You both know the Scorpio. I wouldn't tell him that you two had sex. Tell him something he might know already...that things weren't working for a while...and you and the Gemini have developed feelings for each other. There will be more too it but it's really just as simple as that.

How the Gemini approaches this will also tell you a lot about his true character? Does he give a fuck about his friend? If he does he will be really concerned about how the Scorpio will feel and the outcome of you two pursuing things together. It was bad that he slept with you, but we're only human. If he is not feeling guilty and is not concerned about maintaining his friendship with the Scorpio, then the two are possibly not really good friends or the Gemini is a fucking shit.
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Posted by ElleDuMonde
Don't stay with the scorpio. That would be horribly cruel.

The gem isn't going to keep this secret very long. The clock is ticking.

You need to be the one to come clean first and then break it off. Be completely honest. You also must say that you don't want him anymore. He needs to hear that in order to heal.
okay so how do i bring this up and how do i tell him? :/

if this was any other guy then his friend it would be so much easier..... now i feel like i ruined a long friendship and my bf might even want to fight him. its all so bad.
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Talk to the Gemini...talk about what's important to him in terms of the Scorpio's friendship...it is at risk.

You should have ended things with the Scorpio before things started (officially) with the Gemini but that is in the past.

If you tell the Scorpio, then it will hurt him. If you both tell him it will be to deal with your own guilt.

You need to end things with the Scorpio...period. This is not about the Gemini. It is about you ending things because you needed to. The Gemini just helped you see more clearly perhaps. Let's say the Gemini was not in the picture...seems like you were heading for a breakup with the Scorp anyway...things were just accelerated.

Talk to the Gemini and figure out a way to handle it. You both know the Scorpio. I wouldn't tell him that you two had sex. Tell him something he might know already...that things weren't working for a while...and you and the Gemini have developed feelings for each other. There will be more too it but it's really just as simple as that.

How the Gemini approaches this will also tell you a lot about his true character? Does he give a fuck about his friend? If he does he will be really concerned about how the Scorpio will feel and the outcome of you two pursuing things together. It was bad that he slept with you, but we're only human. If he is not feeling guilty and is not concerned about maintaining his friendship with the Scorpio, then the two are possibly not really good friends or the Gemini is a fucking shit.
i was thinking this to. i dont feel the reason why to tell me and the gemini had sex? i could just say we fell for eachother and thats that. i think the sex part would just destroy my bf and theres no reason to go there.
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Talk to the Gemini...talk about what's important to him in terms of the Scorpio's friendship...it is at risk.

You should have ended things with the Scorpio before things started (officially) with the Gemini but that is in the past.

If you tell the Scorpio, then it will hurt him. If you both tell him it will be to deal with your own guilt.

You need to end things with the Scorpio...period. This is not about the Gemini. It is about you ending things because you needed to. The Gemini just helped you see more clearly perhaps. Let's say the Gemini was not in the picture...seems like you were heading for a breakup with the Scorp anyway...things were just accelerated.

Talk to the Gemini and figure out a way to handle it. You both know the Scorpio. I wouldn't tell him that you two had sex. Tell him something he might know already...that things weren't working for a while...and you and the Gemini have developed feelings for each other. There will be more too it but it's really just as simple as that.

How the Gemini approaches this will also tell you a lot about his true character? Does he give a fuck about his friend? If he does he will be really concerned about how the Scorpio will feel and the outcome of you two pursuing things together. It was bad that he slept with you, but we're only human. If he is not feeling guilty and is not concerned about maintaining his friendship with the Scorpio, then the two are possibly not really good friends or the Gemini is a fucking shit.
i was thinking this to. i dont feel the reason why to tell me and the gemini had sex? i could just say we fell for eachother and thats that. i think the sex part would just destroy my bf and theres no reason to go there.
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Things would be different if you were married, common-law and/or had children. Also, it's your guilt, and the Gemini's guilt that you have to deal with. You need to have a mature discussion with the Gemini too. You need to have a clear understanding of why this happened, otherwise it is a friend that screws his friend's gal and a gal who cheats on her BF. If it helps, I don't think you are a terrible person, and perhaps the Gemini isn't either.

I've never cheated on anyone but I try not to judge anyone either. Things are not always black and white. If you didn't give a shit about your bf and about people in general you wouldn't have come on her and displayed everything to everyone for feedback. If you didn't care about this Scorpio you wouldn't care about him being hurt and it's obvious that you do. You are trying to protect the Scorpio. You are trying to move on with the Gemini.
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You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
What a mother fucking gemini bastard. Bros before hoes man fuck. I am definitely relating myself more with my own vedic in taurus than my western gemini.
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hes a good guy and im a dignified woman. u dont understand because u've never been in a situation like this. i love my bf but im not in love with him anymore. havent been in awhile. and things just escalated between myself and the gemini and next thing u know were in love. i dont know what to say and i know its not right but it just happened. i wouldnt leave my bf if i didnt think the gemini happened for a reason. i feel like he could be the one. this never would have happened if we didnt feel this connection........
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It is a sad story, on one hand you will hurt the Scorpio if you leave him for the Gemini, on the other you will hurt the Gemini if you tell him you want to stay with the Scorpio.
If you leave the Scorpio you will ultimately realise after a while why you fell for him in the first place, and miss the things that he does which the Gemini doesn't and feel bad you left him !
If you really want to be with the Gemini you know you will have to talk to the Scorpio and I would expect him to be upset and angry, so their friendship also goes out the window!!
I cant tell you what do, but I will say you need to give the Gemini a wide berth for a few weeks so you can gather your thoughts and help to see things a little clearer, it will help the Gemini see things clearly too, that's just my advice, but ultimately you will do what you feel, but I hope you decide what's best for YOU.
Dont do things in haste and repent at leisure hun, just think things through carefully is all I'm saying, x
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It is a sad story, on one hand you will hurt the Scorpio if you leave him for the Gemini, on the other you will hurt the Gemini if you tell him you want to stay with the Scorpio.
If you leave the Scorpio you will ultimately realise after a while why you fell for him in the first place, and miss the things that he does which the Gemini doesn't and feel bad you left him !
If you really want to be with the Gemini you know you will have to talk to the Scorpio and I would expect him to be upset and angry, so their friendship also goes out the window!!
I cant tell you what do, but I will say you need to give the Gemini a wide berth for a few weeks so you can gather your thoughts and help to see things a little clearer, it will help the Gemini see things clearly too, that's just my advice, but ultimately you will do what you feel, but I hope you decide what's best for YOU.
Dont do things in haste and repent at leisure hun, just think things through carefully is all I'm saying, x
thank u for the advice.
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im gonna call the gemini. i know hes in love with me because he told me in the text and i know we both wanna move forward and be together. were gonna have to come up with a plan on how to tell my bf. maybe ill pack up my stuff when hes at work, write him a letter, leave it at his apartment and be gone by he time he gets home.
No, please don't do that. He deserves face to face.
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You ever seen the movie temptation? Go with your gut i hope it works out. One thing i will say and i havent so far in my 31 yrs of life experience this but i have a code....how u get them is how u may lose them. If im dating someone or i see someone they have a girl i leave them be...what they do to them they could do to me. Relationship this could work out for u and the gem i pray it does. But i feel spiritually nothing good can come from something that is based on a lie hurting someone else. This guy has to be ashamed of his self. Just think about it....i hope it works...everyone ive known who has taking someone from someone it never last long....and the person end up leaving u how they met u etc...is that the type guy u want? R u the type girl he needs? What else does this gem guy do besides light your fire inside? Wat happen when that flame dies out will u guys still be loyal to eachother....whats done is done though u guys already cross that line
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I don't understand. You had this secret emotional connection with the Gem for a while. Right? So why didn't you break up with the Scorp earlier?
Go ahead. Confess to the Scorpio. And eff him up for the next gal. More than you, Scorpio is gonna suffer. Depending on his nature, his next gf could suffer too.
This is not love. This was two people acting in the heat of the moment. Forbidden fruit story.
Once the shine is gone,let's see.
it all happened so fast i didnt even have time to think. but i know this isnt a fling or some honeymoon phase thing. i feel like me and this gemini knew eachother in another life and i feel like hes gonna be the one... its so unfortunate that we met like this and it had to happen in circumstances like this but i dont know what to say or what to do about it. i remember judging angelina jolie and brad pitt for what they did to jennifer aniston but it all makes sense now.........
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Posted by TaurusGal92
Posted by lovely77
Damn idk what to say. U only have 1 life. I agree with everyone geminis...u have gem moon...but they wishy washy ppl. Your 24 right? Love comes and go...if u dont see neither of these 2 as a potential husband then.....what r u doing it for lust....make sure its not a honey moon phase either. U been worh scorpio 4 yrs...love isnt perfect...u havent even barely tried working on ur rel....things arent always glitter and gold babe....
i thought i was gonna marry the scorpio i thought we were gonna be together for the rest of our lives but things change and things happen.... we talked about kids and everything but i just fell for someone else. this gemini makes me feel like i never felt before. even when he looks at me he makes me feel beautiful. i think hes the one and i know its crazy to say but thats how i feel
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your Gemini moon and other placements towards the Gemini guy, AND the fact you didn't feel that strongly for your scorpio sealed the deal??

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some of u are making me feel so guilty. maybe i should just stay with my bf and pretend like this never happened and when the gemini comes over just stay in the room. i dont know.
Just curious.

I know you're a Taurus Sun, but what is your Venus and Mars placements?
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i didn't see her reply. cause maybe her mars likes what the Gemini offers her.
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I don't understand. You had this secret emotional connection with the Gem for a while. Right? So why didn't you break up with the Scorp earlier?
Go ahead. Confess to the Scorpio. And eff him up for the next gal. More than you, Scorpio is gonna suffer. Depending on his nature, his next gf could suffer too.
This is not love. This was two people acting in the heat of the moment. Forbidden fruit story.
Once the shine is gone,let's see.
I agree here honey moon phase....love isnt 100 perfect u know....then what will b the story with gem after 4 yrs. Love is hard work
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
You do know Taurus and Scorpio can last longer than Taurus and Gemini in the long run. Taurus and Gemini are neighboring signs. It's just physical attraction and you're fucking it up.
i never felt like this way before about anyone. i know ppl might think im a horrible person now but i never would have intended for this to ever happen it just happened. i fell in love with someone else and i cant control it. its not like i planned for this to happen. i have never cheated in my life and i just hate the position i am in right now and i dont now what im gonna do. 😢 in the text the gemini said hes willing to give up his friendship with my bf for us to be able to move forward together but i feel so sad for my bf that this is happening but i promise we never wanted this to happen.. sometimes people just meet and things happen and u cant control that.
What a mother fucking gemini bastard. Bros before hoes man fuck. I am definitely relating myself more with my own vedic in taurus than my western gemini.
hes a good guy and im a dignified woman. u dont understand because u've never been in a situation like this. i love my bf but im not in love with him anymore. havent been in awhile. and things just escalated between myself and the gemini and next thing u know were in love. i dont know what to say and i know its not right but it just happened. i wouldnt leave my bf if i didnt think the gemini happened for a reason. i feel like he could be the one. this never would have happened if we didnt feel this connection........
Hes an asshole and your a lying cunt who betrayed your scorp. I could have been in your situation many times in my life but i stopped at the emotional connection part, i will never have sex with another girl i like if i have strong feelings for her( I was with my ex -scorp while having many other scorp/sag/aqua/ etc in different phases of my life)

The fact is that you cheated on your boyfriend.
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it wasnt supposed to happen like this
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This is pretty bad situation.

I don't know... Just say to the scorpio that you have feelings for gemini guy. Don't mention that you slept with him (at first), bc he will probably go mental (I mean who wouldn't).
Or maybe both you and the gemini should have this talk with the scorpio—?

I really hope that the gemini has real feelings for you, because they tend to have a bad reputation...
maybe his friend should have the talk with him first? and then me? but i dont know if i could face him right now and tell him everything.
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