How to show a scorpio woman you love her? (Page 2)

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you know what i would do? tell her you want to take her somewhere but be mysterious about it. then take her to a place where they sell jewelry. try to make it some place unique too. then just say "what do you like baby?" choose a piece of jewelry with her. give her your input too . make it collaborative. then buy that butter for her.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


Hahah, Crabtank, I think I love you!

She seems like a drama queen.

She has venus in scorpio.

She wanted to make sure i didn't stop having feelings for her. I told her that if she wasn't interested in me, that I would have to get over her and get rid of or hide my feelings for her. She was like " can you not do that". So I was like "hey, I can't be interested in someone else and STILL KEEP MY FEELING FOR YOU".....she seemed upset by that.
We've spent the past two days together, totally platonic. I totally want to take things to a physical level...but she said she hasn't seen me as anything more than a friend. And she said she is going to have to re-evaluate her relationship with me, know that she knows I have feelings.

I'm not going to bite my time, I can't see how I can turn things in my favor at this point. Looks like it is up to her.

Dude

I know.

She has my balls!!! She started crying when I told her that I would have to get over her if she wanted to start dating another dude.

Please, lay on the suggestions.

Dude thanks Shaks.

I got scared when she started crying. You are right though, everytime I put her in her place she fixes her shit. I can't force her to start being physical with me though. Or maybe i can.....

"Please, lay on the suggestions."

What's the deal with the crying every 5 seconds?

Cappie...her expectations are that, since you told her that you like her in THAT way, you'll follow her round like a little puppy. So dont. Just toss her aside and go out and mingle. She'll go mental, but c'est la vie. She just has to deal.

No, you cant force her to be physical unless you're a little psycho...just put her in the friends category and keep things moving.

Oh...and just so you get a heads up...venus in scorpio is vindictive...but dont let that scare you...the best way to deal with any of that venom, should it be thrown your way..is to blank it.

She asked if I would still be friends with her if she started dating this guy, I say probably no. She started crying. We've hung out the past two days, we hung out as friends and I didn't try anything.

She kept trying to ask me about it, I said I don't know... I can't promise that I wont stop being friends with you. That is where the crying came from. She was wayyyy more emotional than i've ever seen. I sort of just left the future of us in the air, didn't promise her anything except I made it clear that I wasn't going to be around if she started seeing someone else. FUCKING PERIOD. Then I said if she was going to continue dating this guy that i'm going to start dating other girls. Yeah so after that she called me first thing in the morning, we hung out all day, stayed the night at her place, I tried to touch her here and there but she wasn't into it. Then the next day I acted like I didn't care either way, I went cold again...

I'll heed this advice. I'm already talking to a girl online 🙂

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You're not drinking, are ya? 😛

haha, her and I were drinking during our conversation. I'm not right now...sorta tired I guess.

I hope you're not planning on asking the scorp on "real" dates. I mean...really...

If that's what you plan on doing...I WILL be saying a told you so when you get your heart thoroughly trampled on.

You need to put her on the back burner...like NOW ! Just toss those feelings you have for her aside...for your own sake. I know you can...with that cap moon. Just focus man...FOCUS !!

OK newbie. She is on the back burner. I'm back on the market. She totally got upset too when I told her I was going to date other people and get over her.

I'm in full FOCUS MODE. My goal this week is to get a date with another girl by this next weekend. I'll hit up the bars tomorrow night.

Thank you all for the advice. I'm about to get my cajones back!

The most hot and heavy that her and I got was like a year ago and she had an asshole, non-reassuring boyfriend at the time. So in essence, she was cheating.

There is sort of a push/pull, and since I told her that I wanted to explore my feelings for her, she has acted touchy feely..then cold.
I know when a right time to make a move is...and haven't seen that recently with her.

I'm going to go out with other girls to change the dynamic of this relationship. Its silly. I'm not going to drop every thing if she wants to talk to me. I'm just going to present myself as an independent catch. Distance myself and focus on me and my needs, since they are not being met with her. And that is what i'm going to focus on.
I think i'm a pretty amazing lover, I wish she saw that somehow.

I'm ignoring her. She left some of her stuff at my apt, so I have to give it to her at some point.

She can cry about me in someone elses arms

""How to show a scorpio woman you love her?""


Buy her...dIa-mONds...::in the voice of Beloved::

lol Anyone see that film? Worst movie in history.

I hate love triangles.

I'm not doing to make her jealous, I'm doing to get over her, and regain control of my life. I never guaranteed that I would be friends with her after this either. I just told her that i'm not going to be around if she dates other dudes. Then I said that I am going to start dating other girls, and she wanted to make sure that I wouldn't get over her or kill my feelings for her.

Guess what! I don't hold onto feelings for other girls if i'm dating someone else. Just. Does. Not. Work. for mr cappie.

"She can cry about me in someone elses arms"

Hahaha...I knew you had it in you cappie. I'm proud. You should NEVER under any circumstances EVER let a scorp control you. They'll bury you in a hole soooo deep, you pretty much wont be coming out a sane person.