I heard this scorpion say

" you got to be willing to show your s.o all the cards you have, otherwise how can they ever trust you? Fucking secrets man those are the enemy of trust."

I need to live by this..

Posted by Impulsv
Yup all open! Another scorp here posted we Depending on SO .

There is a point to this.
That scorp knew nothing about astrology I agree with this...

What if someone is also inclined to be secretive.
Should you be the bigger person and reveal yourself?

they never stop talking about themselves. annoying as hell and not sexy.

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those are fighting words lol

Posted by warmwaters
Should you be the bigger person and reveal yourself?

If you see it as being "the bigger person"..the point is missed.

I don't have secrets..well nothing I wouldn't be willing to share. So take my perspective from a non secretive person point of view. It might (most likely) not be on par with the way you approach stuff.

Depending on how you relate with others..there are people who can inspire you to open up or others you deem trustworthy quicker than the rest. If no one around you seems trustworthy..then it's either the entire world against you (i know it sounds like the scorpio deep seeded belief)..which is impossible, or the issue lies with you.

I have a scorpio friend and she told me once it's not the secretiveness in her..but stuff should be share if/when the circumstances arise. For her it's not that much of an issue with the other person but the nature of the environment and what prompts those secrets to come out.

As look as you're genuine, people will respect your privacy in keeping secrets. It's just keeping secrets that would affect their actions where there's a problem. I don't push for people to open, or pry..but I am a naturally curious person. It makes me come across as invasive at times. The Scorpios I know irl are amused by this but don't feel themselves in danger of me using stuff as ammunition. It's very chill in general. They do call me naive and foolhardy so there's a point there for me to grasp too 🙂.

Posted by warmwaters
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those are fighting words lol

sorry, i thought y'all were supposed to be dark n sexy and the ones that sit next to me are anything but 😢

Do what feels natural to you.

People will or will not trust you by instinct anyway IMO

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by warmwaters
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those are fighting words lol

sorry, i thought y'all were supposed to be dark n sexy and the ones that sit next to me are anything but 😢

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I knew this one Scorp, she was real dark and sexy. She was so cool about her observation of the world and the people, I really admired her.

Then for some reason she started making me believe that she knew shady things about me, and would become teasing. I was so paranoid, and I never did anything 😄 Shit just got creepy there, and we lost contact, thank god

my s/o tells me all the time he believes in vulnerability.. and actually he claims that is the reason why he liked me so much.. because i wasn't afraid of being vulnerable.. but actually i saw it more as being open and trying to connect on a deeper level.

I don't have secrets, but I'm not open to everybody, people have to earn my trust before I can be open with them. When that happen I'm like an open book to all their questions.

I don't like talking about myself for no reason.

Posted by Wynter

Posted by KittenLaRouge

Posted by warmwaters
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those are fighting words lol

sorry, i thought y'all were supposed to be dark n sexy and the ones that sit next to me are anything but 😢

I knew this one Scorp, she was real dark and sexy. She was so cool about her observation of the world and the people, I really admired her.

Then for some reason she started making me believe that she knew shady things about me, and would become teasing. I was so paranoid, and I never did anything 😄 Shit just got creepy there, and we lost contact, thank god

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lol rly! 😆