If a Scorpio man is unhappy

Will he let a relationship go or will he keep with it until he finds someone who he thinks is better and will accept him. I am a Taurus, contemplating breaking off an engagement with a Scorpio. I have flimsy evidence he posts on Craigslist looking for "hot black ass" (we're both white) and I just don't know anymore. I love him, but more and more I read that Scorpios must have secrets, must have the novelty of the forbidden and taboo and love to have flings while he has a steady wife at home. I am heartbroken and I always believed that if a man is unhappy, he'd just leave. I live in his home, he makes more than me, I'm not giving him anything but love and affection. I feel like if he doesn't love me, why not just go? Why in fact ask me to move in with him and then propose to me in front our family and friends? If any Scorpio men or women can chime in, I would really be grateful thank you.

That's flimsy evidence——?

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The flimsy evidence is that a friend sent me the link to the ad. The ad asked for black women to respond for "friends, maybe more." There was a picture with the face blacked out. My fiance is a bodybuilder and this guy is very built. The guy also described himself as being in a town that is right next to ours, he is the same age as my fiance. My friend said she sent an email to the address and it was returned as undeliverable.

You at least owe him a chance to explain...and defend himself to something he may not even have anything to do with.

Sagi, your icon makes me miss my Riley Jay.

yeah. that's flimsy evidence LOL!!!

you should ask him up front and see what he says to your 'evidence'. if it's true, you can discard him but if it's not, then you have at least shown enough respect towards him by not drawing your own conclusions.

communication in all things is key.

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I'd say the real issue here is that you think it may be him. (Forget how you can't tell if it's his body..) Why on earth would you suspect hm of that if you trust him?

So why did you already not trust him?

My first hand knowledge is this.

Scorpio's (men) will never tell you unless you ask. Should you choose to ask the question that you don't really want the answer to, I suggest you get a copy of the Craig's list and show it to him directly.

Also you are his fiance. Shouldn't you be able to always feel you could talk to your man about anything?

This is also the Scorpio power or mystic.

I have saddly broken the code and am seeking to resolve this relationship in the best karmic way possible. (kickin ass isn't a karmic option unfortunately)

Best Wishes and good luck 😢

I have flimsy evidence he posts on Craigslist looking for "hot black ass".



What the fuck are you still doing with this guy? is that the type of husband you want?

Dump the prick and find something better seriously. He's nasty and dirty.

Hmmm, in my experience, a scorpio man will stick to a relationship, even if he is unhappy and yes he will have flings outside his relationship/marriage. I know two scorp men who has done or are doing that and my Godfather did it while I was growning up. Everyone is different, but uhmmm, I am starting to wonder if this is a scorp male thing or not.

You are a woman, and if you feel it then it is worth looking into. I have a feeling he has done other things than this to make you question his faithfulness.

"a scorpio man will stick to a relationship, even if he is unhappy and yes he will have flings outside his relationship/marriage."

Nothing personal to you, QS, but I've heard this over and over on this board.

If a person is unhappy, only they can change that because it's so extremely personal. If one's happiness is contingent on another person doing a certain thing or being a certain way, then that person really needs to rethink their committment because in my opinion, they are not ready for one. They will always blame someone else instead of taking responsibility for their own lives.

Children pout and do things like that. "It's their fault I'm not happy. Whine, whine, boo hoo..."

Regarding the quote pertaining to particular scorpios who find themselves in this situation, perhaps they should consider that if they communicated to their lady/SO/wife about how they feel, chances are they wouldn't have to cheat. I've heard the excuse about their being "secretive". There's nothing wrong with having your own personal space, but in a relationship, it's about trust and having confidence in each other. By communicating, the relationship may stand a chance of lasting or at the worst, it will end. But at least there would be no deceit -- which is really what hurts the most.

i was in a relationship with a scorpio male who did the same thing. and more and more i hear that a lot of scorpio guys have a wandering eye...BUT it doesnt necessarily mean that they want anything more than a look. my relationship was a rollercoaster dealing with his wandering eye. if you are strong enough to deal with that, then stay - that is the main question. his reason for looking around constantly? he was comparing every girl to me - to see if there was anyone better...but there wasn't. i thought this was just a bs excuse at first... but more and more i came to understand it... a lot of scorp males i know are prone to give backhanded compliments. not to mention, this is the most popular scorpio male technique of keeping their emotions at a distance because they are so afraid to lose themselves in love. they need to be in control of their emotions, but being in love scares them to death because they are losing control. it doesn't mean they won't be loyal to you. you just need to keep your control by not letting his roving eyes bother you. it's only superficial and scorp males are very flirtatious in general but it doesnt mean he will cheat on you. one scorp guy i know flirts with all the girls he works with ... even with me... but only later did i find out that he was engaged and eventually did marry the girl. even though he's married now, he's still flirtatious, but the wife doesnt seem to mind and understands it's not serious. he wouldnt marry her unless he really loved her. you cant push a scorpio to do anything he doesnt really want. so if he asked you to marry him, then that means he wants YOU. i wouldnt ask him about the ad post though since it was "flimsy evidence" it would prob make him angry and make him feel like you're snooping on him...and scorps don't like their privacy to be invaded. scorps are also about power struggles. he was attracted to you because of how you were so stay your wonderful self and dont get distracted by this flimsy evidence. that's how you've had the upper hand and how you can keep it. scorps will not jeopardize something they've worked hard for including your love. they may come damn near close to it but they will most likely not cross the line.

"Nothing personal to you, QS, but I've heard this over and over on this board.

If a person is unhappy, only they can change that because it's so extremely personal. If one's happiness is contingent on another person doing a certain thing or being a certain way, then that person really needs to rethink their committment because in my opinion, they are not ready for one. They will always blame someone else instead of taking responsibility for their own lives.

Children pout and do things like that. "It's their fault I'm not happy. Whine, whine, boo hoo..."

No offense taken. Just stating what I have seen with a couple scorp men, wether it was a personal experience or not. Me as a scorp woman would rather leave than cheat. If I am unhappy, I shouldn't stay if I tried hard enough to see if it could be fixed henced, I am divorced.

By the way I don't condone this behaviour at all. However I try not to judge others. It just isn't my cup of tea personally.

They never go away completely. Not if they ever loved you. Trust me, I know.

"They never go away completely. Not if they ever loved you. " ~QueenScorpio

Then why go away in the first place? Is love not strong enough to keep it together? Of course, it is. However, we may confuse what love is. Romantic love only can be so heartbreaking. But real love will see you through.