Immature vs Mature Scorpios

In all your opinions, what differentiates a mature Scorpio from an immature one.

For me, it's communication and courage.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Immature Scorps are the ones you hear about the most.

The stalkers, manipulators, and life ruiners. They are loyal to their own needs and no one elses. They are honestly the worst kind of people.

A mature Scorpio is the complete opposite. Sturdy, but understanding. Kind, but lethal if you fuck with them or someone they love. Loyal as all hell. Often wise beyond their years.

Those are the kinds of Scorps I've met the most, thankfully.

Totally agree! I also detest the pride in immature Scorpios. It's self-destructive and impedes their growth.

Mature = draws wisdom and learns from past experiences and uses them for personal growth; sees no point in revenge on, or manipulation of others. Able to put ego and pride aside. Mature shit like that.

Immature = opposite of above

The difference is in their volatility, their ability to be vulnerable and open without letting pride swallow everything that could be good, whilst at the same time allowing their ego to flow through rather than to be enslaved by it.

That is the key difference between an immature and a mature Stinger.

As a scorpio male, I have never went after someone for revenge nor manipulated anyone to gain or accomplish something. I have see many immature scorpios backstab, gossip, and because of their nasty jealous tendencies internally wanted someone at a higher rank to fall hopeless. I never liked male scorpios because of there shadiness and ego. You can see the unevolved ones stand out easily. They are usually narcissistic and egocentric to the point you want to punch them in the face,.

I feel I'm a pretty evolved Scorp. Like someone said, I've never felt the need to retaliate on someone as revenge. I truly believe bettering is the best revenge.

I do, however, feel i need to focus on my pride - or is it my stubbornness? Does a scorps Pride ever go away really?

Posted by aNEWday
I feel I'm a pretty evolved Scorp. Like someone said, I've never felt the need to retaliate on someone as revenge. I truly believe bettering is the best revenge.

I do, however, feel i need to focus on my pride - or is it my stubbornness? Does a scorps Pride ever go away really?

No aNEWday, it never really does but it is also a key part of our Stinger personality.

The very same stubbornness and pride, drives our will power and exists as a vital building block of our enduring strength even during the worst of matters and circumstances.

The difference being, as we mature we understand the responsibility that lies in wielding this double edged sword. We grow and learn, eventually knowing the ways in which one should wield it well and efficiently so.

Posted by TheLadyScorpio

Posted by aNEWday
I feel I'm a pretty evolved Scorp. Like someone said, I've never felt the need to retaliate on someone as revenge. I truly believe bettering is the best revenge.

I do, however, feel i need to focus on my pride - or is it my stubbornness? Does a scorps Pride ever go away really?

No aNEWday, it never really does but it is also a key part of our Stinger personality.

The very same stubbornness and pride, drives our will power and exists as a vital building block of our enduring strength even during the worst of matters and circumstances.

The difference being, as we mature we understand the responsibility that lies in wielding this double edged sword. We grow and learn, eventually knowing the ways in which one should wield it well and efficiently so.

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I see. This makes it clear and I totally agree.

This same "pride" has come from a lot of negativity that's turned into strength.

In that case, I don't think I weild it in the wrong ways. Yes, sometimes I may be stuck in my ways but it's usually for things that I feel strongly about, and as a mechanism to protect myself.

Posted by Shaun1994
In all your opinions, what differentiates a mature Scorpio from an immature one.

One who knows when to and when not to use the sting vs those who dont know

Posted by Shaun1994
In all your opinions, what differentiates a mature Scorpio from an immature one.

For me, it's communication and courage.

I don't think it's that black and white: mature vs immature. We all float between the two at any given time. For example, if you hurt a Scorp or you encounter one that's insecure about certain aspect of their life, he or she has the potential to become very passive in their approach (withdrawn, silent treatment, moody) state they're "taking space" or even become overly aggressive. They may justify their behaviour, as most do and say it's how they protect themselves etc, but wouldn't that behaviour still fall under the category of "immature" if we were talking about communication for instance?

I don't think I can say, even at this stage in my life that I haven't been immature in some instances and mature in others on any given week. It ebbs and flows, just like water 😛.

Posted by stopbeingdelusional
I have NOT yet met a mature scorpio in real life.

Every scorpio I know is immature in one away or another, including myself. Tip: just look at some of my posts 😆

I can definitely see Ryan Reynolds and Ryan Gosling be a goofball in personal life. lol

serious but still goofy.

maybe even Leonardo Di Caprio.

too band none of his ex's reveal what kind of guy he is...

maybe too scared or value the privacy.

Posted by Solitude
They never lose immaturity.

That's why they always remain goofy and corny.

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Posted by Solitude
They never lose immaturity.

That's why they always remain goofy and corny.

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Posted by dracula
I never liked male scorpios because of there shadiness and ego. You can see the unevolved ones stand out easily. They are usually narcissistic and egocentric to the point you want to punch them in the face,.

Funny thing is I feel this way about male Scorpios also. But this is probably exactly how I come off for most of my life. Its just hard for me to see. The pride is blinding.

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@enochthewise, that is true for the Scorps I came across when I was younger. I was able to handle all that shit but it got real annoying sometimes. Btw, i had a close friend named Enoch

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I miss Rabbit...

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