In real need of help. Going through a very tough time with my Scorpio boyfriend

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Libra_minz
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I was in a very tough phase of my life from a relationship perspective when I met this Scorpio guy.. We hit it off right since the start and he seemed to be the perfect one who swept me off my feet. He also was equally in love and the relationship became serious pretty soon. He stood by me as I went through my trials and we intended to get married soon. Both of us know each other since last 4 years and the last 1 year moved pretty fast as he met my parents,introduced me to his and the families agreed to the match. I would admit that I am a girl with strong will power,straighy forward attitude and I love very deeply. My weakness is temper and at times I tend to say things which may hurt the other person badly. This scorp guy my fiancee is a free spirited man not very stable and responsible but loves very deeply. I am the mature one in the relationship and hence we have had fights on different instances due to basic issues like time,expression,care element. We never came on a common ground as he used to get defensive and hated my temper. But still we loved each other way too deeply emotionally and wanted to spend the rest of our lives together... we have been planning for the wedding for 6 months now... the venue booking,wedding attire and all.. and suddenly 4 weeks back he said we should not get married... he spoke to his parents first and informed me later.. his parents also called it off and did not listen to anything I and my parents said. I am hopelessly in love with the guy and till the day he called it off we were discussing our wedding.. I am clearly devastated.. I cried like hell.. tried to give him reasons that we could fix the issues he is raising.. some fights are not the reason but he did not seem to budge. Since then he has not been contacting me himself..Whenever I contact he responds back or takes his own sweet time to respond.. never calls but returns my calls if he missed 2-3 of them. I am giving him his space and just message him once a day.. I met him over the weekend and he was trying to show me how stressfree he is.. booked his new car and all.. What should I do? Either he is very confused or he is trying to hide something.. his parents apparently are clear that this marriage should not happen now.. I want it to work out still.. Please please help.. I am a Libra just unable to take him off my mind. He said that right he does not feel like contacting me himself .. he may do so if he feels the need in the future.. as of now he is super cold and distant..