Irritating Aquas- Lots of Q's I've been holding in

They're all so confusing geez, and lately he's making me go nuts. I swear, I lay in bed at night, and fantasize about ways to break his little heart.

Is there something happening in the sky, like the complete constellation burned out? Any other Aquariuses feeling weird? Well, more strange than usual?

Here are his goodies:
Sun- Aquarius
Moon- Cancer
Merc- Aquarius
Venus- Capricorn
Mars- Scorpio
Ascendant- Probably either Virgo or Scorpio rising

The good thing is: he's been nit-picking me less than normal (by the way, is that more of a Cancer moon trait, or more of a suspected Virgo Rising trait?) Or would that just be a bad upbringing?

Okay, here is my list of complaints:
Usually he calls me, and mumbles, or he's at a loud party, but I can't hear him, and I say: "What?" and he always says: "Your phone is horrible, seriously, I've never had this problem with anyone". If by chance I don't speak clear enough for him he says: "Your phone is horrible, seriously, I've never had this problem with anyone." If he wants to run up behind me and bear hug me, its fine. If I do the same thing to him he says, "You know I need space" or "I'm not cuddly" -liar.
If he wakes me up at 2:55am, to see if I want to come hang out, its fine. If I wake him up at 12:30am because I left my running shoes over there, he claims he's worked hard all day, and for God's sake its almost 1am. What do I do all day? Sit on my ass?
1.) These things are on more than one occasion, and the point is, he's a hypocrite! And he doesn't even accept it.

2.) He's losing interest in sex (noooo!) but still loves to cuddle, or talk, or whatever else. Once a week does not cut it. He claimed he wanted to work out more, so sex would have to be limited. That was 3 weeks ago, he hasn't gone to the gym once. We were having sex a few days ago, and he just LAID there! Then said, I'm tired. That's fine to be tired, he didn't get any sleep = understandable. But don't initiate sex, then stop midway.

3.) No Christmas present! not even a card! not even a homemade free gift. zip, zero, zilch. What really makes this bad is a week before, he got me to do something on the basis that there was a really great Christmas present in the back of his trunk for me.

4.) He's going through periods of wanting tons of cuddling, and hugs. Then a dry spell comes on with none. And a claim that he isn't that type of guy. I need my cuddling!

5.) He can be right about a lot of stuff, but when he actually is

That's hilarious, yo.

5.) He can be right about a lot of stuff, but when he actually is wrong, and I correct him, he'll argue it to death. Example: We were watching Dead Man's Chest. He said this is the 3rd Pirates movie to come out. I said I think it was the second. And I was adamant for a while, but he doesn't even want to listen. So fine, owell. But then he says that I'm a female, and females just want to be right, even if they're wrong.

6.) He makes mountains out of molehills, is moody, excessively whiny.


And so many times, I've wanted to break it off, but then everything turns around again, and its wonderful. Or maybe its the Libra Venus.

Basically I care about him, and am still attracted to him. But liking him is a different story.

Is this because I've got major Scorpios in my chart? Would anyone else be annoyed by these, if they were sporadic, but still enough to be very noticable?

All this is making me cranky, just be nice, I feel like biting someone's head off

"All this is making me cranky, just be nice,"

Sorry, for some obscure reason I thought you enjoyed assholes.

My bad.

Sorry, for some obscure reason I thought you enjoyed markers.

My bad.

Oh, no Yama, I wasn't referring to you, I didn't see your post. But I am looking for any old reason to fight someone to get some aggression out


I also wanted to add:
7.) His kissing style is really wet. So I try to avoid kissing if I know one's coming

"but he aint behaving like this at all...
tho he has been looking a bit stressed out...due to his work schedule this n previous week...but he hasnt been obnoxious...
instead he is still caring...im sick right now...n he never forgets to ask me my meds n give them to me..."

Well, I don't know about other people, but I sure would like to know more about your personal life! Please tell me more(and no, your other thread isn't enough).

"Oh, no Yama, I wasn't referring to you, I didn't see your post. But I am looking for any old reason to fight someone to get some aggression out"

Damn, it was a pretty good line, too.😛

"I also wanted to add:
7.) His kissing style is really wet. So I try to avoid kissing if I know one's coming"

So, he's bad at kissing, doesn't enjoy sex, and is sexist and a hypocrite...The fuck are you still doing with this guy?

"what do u wanna know about me yama??"

Why do feel the need to share stuff about yourself that is barely, barely pertinent?

"yama...i thought it relevant that i tell her that my aqua also has the same planets...n that unlike her's he cares...
then i thought of my ex...who obnoxious as hell...the her's talks...he sounds like my ex sometimes...overbearing n irritating...
how is it not relevant here?"

How is it relevant?

Your Aqua isn't obnoxious, good for her! You ex is-well golly, there are so many ways she could put that information into use!

HEY! Mine cares!!! he does care about me!

I think I could put it to use, by process of elimination.
If they both had the same signs, except my Aqua's moon is in Cancer instead of Virgo, then obviously the Cancer moon makes him like this. Except that's probably not it. I think its because I don't have all the right signs to complement him.

And I'm still hanging on with him because when its good, its really good. But when its bad, the tension is thick.

Plus, I have this tingling feeling that he knows he's being difficult, deep down. And its a test to see if I'll abadon him like everyone else.

"I think I could put it to use, by process of elimination.
If they both had the same signs, except my Aqua's moon is in Cancer instead of Virgo, then obviously the Cancer moon makes him like this. Except that's probably not it. I think its because I don't have all the right signs to complement him."

Too bad astrology isn't quite that simple-there are many, many, many other factors involved(and not just astrological aspects, but environmental as well).

I know, I just wanted to side with her, because she was being picked on. And I couldn't think of a very convincing arguement

"uuhh yama...why r u picking on me...?"

I'm not. I'm sorry if you feel antagonized.

"its my right to give out the info i want...n that i think might be related to another person..."

Eh? Have I ever said it isn't? Who exactly are you responding to?