Is anyone MARRIED to Scorpio Male? or Dating Seri

Hi,

I am reading so much about the contradictions and two-sidednes
of Scorpio males. Most of the pain seems to be coming from
Gemini and Libra girls (me included).

What I have learnt is that they take things slow, are very
passionate (true) but also disappear for long periods of time
and be with other women while still pretending to be there
for you. To me it sounds downright selfish!!!

I am curious to hear from someone married to a Scorpio male
and find out if their dating was also as stormy? And how did it
eventually work out?

Basically what signs should I take seriously, when he shows
seriousness, because similar to someone else's posting on this
site, they also said that he expresses seriousness, yet either
dates other people or disappears for long periods of time.

Please help
Thanks

Hi Libra in waiting-
Thanks for responding to my message on What's up with you Scorps?! I thought it would be easier if I responded to you on your message board!
You are right! Our situations do sound very similiar....and you are also right about them seeming two-sided but I believe now that it is the men in question-not their zodiac signs. I told my Scorp man to get lost and suddenly he is chasing me....sending roses to my work....left four message's on my cell last night....and this is after no correspondence for a few weeks! I am thinking three things here.....he either enjoys the chase and not the capture....he was dating someone else in the meantime and that didn't work out.....or he feels really bad about the way he has been acting and realizes what he has thrown away! But, truthfully-does it really matter? Thinking about my situation....I have come to realize that this is someone that I don't want in my life!
I think about what my future would be like with a person that cannot or won't even be true to himself.....so how on earth could I expect him to be true to me?
I, like you, am a Libra and although we are indecisive by nature-once someone strikes us emotionally-we have a really difficult time letting those feelings go even if they are destructive to us, emotionally.
Don't let this guy play you! If he really wanted to be with you....nothing would stop him! And really-think about it-if you wanted someone more than anything in the world-would you push it away and try to destroy it-for the fun of the game?
I think not! I think that men who do this are not capable of having functional relationships-in the long term!
I hope somehow this has helped....I know how you feel...and I know the pain this has brought into your life! Think of you...and your future! We soooo deserve better than this!!!
Take Care-
Bethany

Hi Bethany,

You are sooo very right!!! But you also
sound so much more mature than me.

I am still trying to recover from it.
but also secretly hoping for, you know what!!!

Maybe one day I will learn my lesson.
Forget the relationships, I would be a
happier person myself.

I also believe that there is something
dysfunctional about people like me (like low self-esteem) that draws me towards these
tormenting relationships.

This after I just got out of another pseudo relationship (in my office)
where all the guy wanted to do was to control me. He would act in front of
everyone as if he had all my attention
but then when it came to spending time
together, he was gone.

Like one of my friends told me, that its
the trophy (girlfriend etc. etc.) syndrome that gives some guys a big echo
kick. Just want to show off.

Oh well, these guys, what can I say!!!!

Hope you are doing better. Sounds like you are.

HEY LIBRA IN WAITING,

I'VE BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND FOR ALMOST A YEAR, BUT WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR SIX YEARS. FIRST OF ALL, IF YOU'RE NOT SERIOUS ENOUGH TO HAVE A LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SCORPION, THEN DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. DIFFICULT,IS PUTTING IT MILDLY. IF YOU WEAR YOUR HEART ON YOUR SLEEVE, DON'T PURSUE IT. I HAVE A SCORPIO RISING SIGN, SO I'M EQUIPPED TO DISH IT OUT JUST LIKE HIM. IT HAS TAKEN ME ALL THIS TIME TO FIGURE OUT HIS STRATEGY. EVEN WHEN HIS SISTERS TRIED TO TELL ME, I HAD TO LEARN THE HARD WAY. IF YOU REALLY WANT THIS RELATIONSHIP TO WORK, LISTEN TO ME CAREFULLY. YOU HAVE GOT TO BE JUST AS SMART AS HE IS. FIGURE HIM OUT,WITHOUT LETTING HIM KNOW IT. OBSERVE HIS PATTERNS BECAUSE HE HAS THEM. DON'T LET HIM INTIMIDATE YOU. BE HONEST. STAY CONSISTENT WITH YOUR BEHAVIOR. YOU SEE, WE (ESPECIALLY FEMALE LIBRAS) HAVE A TENDENCY TO WANT TO PUT OTHERS BEFORE OURSELVES AND THIS IS A NO NO. HE'LL RUN OVER YOU. BE ATTENTIVE WITHOUT RUNNING AFTER HIM. KNOW THAT HE IS CAPABLE OF SAYING OR DOING ANYTHING, IF HE FEELS LIKE YOU HAVE HURT HIM. HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF. LET HIM KNOW THAT HE SHOULD BE LUCKY TO HAVE YOU BECAUSE I CAN ASSURE YOU HE FEELS THIS WAY. MY HUSBAND CAN BE THE SWEETEST PERSON IN THE WORLD. BUYING ME THINGS OR DOING SPECIAL LITTLE THINGS FOR ME, BUT IN THE SAME BREATH HE CAN BE THE MOST EVIL PERSON I KNOW. OUR RELATIONSHIP HAS ALWAYS BEEN LIKE A ROLLER COASTER, BUT IF HE EVER TELLS YOU HE LOVES YOU, THEN HE HAS THOUGHT ABOUT IT AND TRULY MEANS IT. ONCE HE TRUST YOU, DON'T EVER BETRAY HIM BY TRYING TO MAKE HIM JEALOUS. THAT'S A GAME YOU DON'T WANT TO PLAY. PLAY BY YOUR OWN RULES AND LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY.


GOOD LUCK

Dating or marrying a Scorpio male is like asking for punishment. Yes, they can be sweet but so can Theodore Bundy or that other New York serial killer/rapist. And who wants to play that game of hard to get? My Scorpio was seeing other women and would never admit it. I didn't care and he still wouldn't tell me. I dropped him as soon as I found out that he had led some poor Libra girl with a drinking problem believe that he was going to marry her. (they were living together) When she went back East to tell her mother he called her up and said he reconsidered and was dating someone else. She got drunk and drove into a retaining wall and died. Does he feel guilty? I doubt it he's the coldest person I've ever dated. I think Scorpio men suck. I've dated 3 of them and they all want to have anal sex. I think they are all bisexual. They like sex - any kind of sex they can get.

That is too funny! I am currently involved with a Scorpio and he wants nothing BUT anal sex! And there are rumors around this small town that I live in that he is BI!!! Let me ask you something does your Scorpio man only get semi-erect when he is having sex with you? I ask because my man only gets semi!!! I have not let him do the anal thing to me although he tries constantly-I have a feeling that if I let him he would get a full erection! You are right that Scorpio men suck!

Excuse me...I'm Scorp and married to a Scorp. While he's not as romantic as he used to be, he is neither an asshole (if you'll excuse the correlation to the aforementioned comments)or manipulative. Sounds to me like you two have had a few bad experiences. If you feel this way, just stay away from Scorps. I think you'll find jerks under every sign.

Regarding did/does my Scorpio man get a hard on. Yes he did, but he had special needs which I haven't run into before. There was one exception when I got my period and he asked if I was into anal sex during that time of the month and I said no - so that time he had a hard time getting it up. As our dating progressed instead of becoming more intimate (huggy/kissy/cuddly) he started to dominate and became very cold. He needed me to talk dirty to him, when he took me to dinner he immediately would say something like he was imagining me with no clothes on - I believe he did this in order to try to intimidate and dominate for feelings of power. After he repeatedly tried to get anal sex and spanked me hard I stopped seeing him. I suggested he find his own sub/dom group. First of all let me clarify. I do agree that there are some Scorpio men that are okay. My sister has been married to one for over 20 years. Not without any problems. They are tight with $ $ , secretive, whiners, needy, sensitive, immature, moody, and take a long time making up their minds but only a second to change them. I believe my Scorpio man had an overly dominating mother, doesn't like women much. He needs women but at the same time he's afraid of being dominated, thus he has to dominate for feelings of power in order to get a hard on. My Scorpio has some definite warps in his personality.

It sounds like the two previous posts have had some bad experiences with scorpio men. But you should look at it like this. You can only be dominated or manipulated by a person (regardless of their sign) if you let them. I admit, scorpio men will try to manipulate you, but it really depends on how you handle the situation. If you're strong mentally, then you'll call him on his bullshit. Their true colors always show at some point. And then you know what your getting. If you can't deal with it, then move on because you can only try for so long. As far as the sexual situation goes, to each its own.

Sassy, I wouldn't call it a bad experience. Just a learning one. And yes, I did call this Scorpio on his bullshit and he just denied it. That's his problem not mine. I posted the experience because unfortunately a lot of women who are delicate in nature, like Libras, can get seduced by this type of guy and before they know it they've lost their power. Scorpio men can be sexy and magnetic and if you like anal sex, then I definitely recommend dating a Scorpio. Yes, to each his own.

Hey Unknown from LA
Unknown with semi-erect boyfriend here!
You are too funny but right on it when you talk about these cold Scorpion Males. Everything you said sounds just like my anal sex loving limp-prick man except the part about being domineering. My boyfriend would probably like to be the one to wear the diaper and shit his pants and have me change it for him! YUCKY! Scorpio men SUCK!

Hey Girls,

I'm very expressive in getting my needs met, but I'm not into anal sex or anything that is going to make me throw up. I don't have a problem expressing what I want from a man. Most of the scorpio men that I know are freaks, but not in a bi-sexual kind of way. They love doing whatever it takes to hook you sexually, then once they feel like they've got control over you, it's all over. When you get right down to it, Scorpio men don't like weak women. Just read up on the characteristics of a scorpio, they usually fall for women who are just as strong minded as they are. They love strong willed women. Until he completely trust you, his true feelings will never be shown to you anyway, but now if you ask someone who is close to them, they'll tell you the truth.

Ms. Los Angeles,

I'm a Libra with a scorpio rising, but it really doesn't have anything to do with astrology. Any man can have negative qualities, just like any woman can have a strong will. You just have to know yourself and what you will and will not put up with. You have to learn something from your mistakes in each relationship because if you don't, your doomed to repeat them. When getting involved with scorpio men, if they start to show the same tendencies as the one before, it's time to kick him to the curb and keep moving. And your right, giving women the heads-up on possible problems can be very helpful, but it all depends on how the female chooses to use the info.

Sassy, you are very right in everything you say. I totally realize that signs don't dictate who a person is, however that is what this board is about and for what it's worth helps me to make sense of a person's behavior. I didn't know Scorps liked strong women. Thanks for the advise. I have a question to ask you and wondered would you mind answering me privately. My address is wilmawave@aol.com You're lucky you married a Scorpio man - I hear they are hard to get. I'm just mad that I had to leave my Scorpio because he changed after a month and I really liked him.

To Unknown:

You are so funny! If you think he is BI then I advise you leave him or take extreme precautions to protect your health!! Have a nice weekend everyone!!

Hi everyone,

Phew, what a discussion!!!!! Thanks Sassy, you are right on the
mark. I somewhat was thinking along the same lines but still
needed to confirm.

You are right, that Scorpio males like strong women and believe it or not,
Libra women can be very strong (including me).

I have no problem moving on with this guy if he doesn't want
it and he knows that and is probably one of the reasons why he is
still aorund. But, the emotional fools that we are, he plays on it
and I feel guilty about not responding when he makes sweet
gestures. So there you go, he's got me.

I have learnt to value this relationship for several reasons. First,
I am older and have been through a lot. I have also been somewhat
callous about my relationships in the past. So I thought this time
around I will give it my all. But with my luck, it had to be a
Scorpio male!!!!!

I know he has to have some strong feelings for me because
our situation is very bizarre. For him to even keep it up, speaks
a lot about how he feels.

OK OK, here it goes. I am 13 years older than him, have 2 children,
and currently separated and going through a divorce.
He is in a totally different phase of life, in terms of finishing
up grad school and finding a job. So I have always maintained
that we should keep it a friendship, should see each other alot,
since we are so atracted to each other and then eventually he has to move
on.

But he is so caught up in the whole thing, refuses to take it lightly,
and gets mad at me for being so short-sighted. Meaning I should
take him more seriously. That's the other thing. They take
themselves so seriously.

But Sassy, you are right, a lot depends on how YOU handle
the situation and no one can use you unless you let them.

Unfortunately, I am learning this lesson quite late in life.

What a great forum to vent out and learn from others.

Thanks to all
Have a Great weekend.

Libra in waiting, Scorpio men take everything seriously. Anything from relationships to the color of peanut butter. I love my husband very much, but sometimes I don't necessarily like him. I tell him that all the time. He goes crazy about the smallest things and most of the time I can handle that, but he sometimes catches me on the wrong day and our house is a battlefield. They go from one extreme to another, sweet as honey or as mean as a snake. There is no in between for them. He, himself has given me some very important advice on dealing with him. You have to know when to take him seriously because he's passionate about everything. Scorpio men, deep down are very vulnerable. They're scared of being hurt and are very sensitive. They can lash out in the worst way when they're hurt.

His behavior is usually consistent whether good or bad. You can't change his behavior, but you can change how you react to it.

Being married to a scorpio man can be very difficult. He always talks about the women that want him (because he can have BIG ego) and my response to him is,
"they can have you, but once they realize what they're really getting, they'll be begging me to take you back." Then I tell him, "but I love you."

Have a good day....

Hi Sassy,

YOU ARE RIGHT AGAIN!!!!! What Can I say?
You also sound like a Libra to me. I think only a another Libra girl (due to their understanding and fair nature) or
another Scorpio girl (to stay even with them)can handle them.

Just before we got too initmate he almost begged me in his own way not to give in to him so quickly. At that point I was wondering, what's his problem? If he wants me so badly, then doesn't he really want me? As I said before, I have been pretty cool about it, so I told him, its up to you. If you don't see me now then I guess I have to move on. Then he gave in. But he also sort of changed. As if the chase was over. If only I knew!!!!

Also, the first time he cofessed his feelings for me, he was so intense, yet at the same time was coming down very hard on me (in a mean way) about something that I had done. I was so confused. I kept saying to myself, what is his problem—??

You are right, may be they are afraid of rejection or getting hurt. Now there is almost a very steady pattern.
He will say something very weird or pass a personal comment (sometimes mean or stinging) and then right after that comes the good stuff. I almost think that he is trying to cover himself as to how I would respond to him. If I didn't respond negatively to his mean stuff, then I think he thinks he is safe to say whatever he wants to, and it is usually very nice and sweet.

Now the trick is, not to allow the situation to degenerate to an abusive one, because I can see how it can.

Thanks again.

My advise and experience with a Scorpio man's stinging remarks is to let him know (calmly without getting mad or hurt)that it's not okay. I think the worst thing to do is to not say anything, because I find men in general are always testing boundaries in the beginning of a relationship to see how far they can push. If nothing is done the remarks could escalate and the relationship could get abusive if there is that tendency. As some people have said domination and control is an underlying issue and verbal abuse is one way of trying to obtain it. My Scorpio yelled at me on the second date in a restaurant because I couldn't finish my meal - a $ 7 fish taco with beans and rice. I told him that it wasn't okay and that the meal was unacceptable. A month later I couldn't finish a pasta meal because it was unpalatable and then he just gave me a dirty look. Maybe I should have just sent the meals back, but I don't do that. Maybe he felt hurt by these situations since he was taking me out and thought I didn't appreciate it but that's pretty sensitive to get so angry he had to yell at me. He's definitely not hard up for cash and he's always ordering more rounds of expensive drinks even when I don't want them. Go figure!!

I was married to a Scorpio Man for 25 years, but his Moon was in Gemini and his Venus was in Libra. I'm a Cancer with my Venus in Gemini and I have 2 other planets in Libra.

He was very passionate, jealous, sincere, intelligent, moody, possessive, suspicous, loyal, hard to handle, dominating and very intuitive. Everything a Scorpio is, except because he had many air signs and earth signs, he wasn't a womanizer. His Mars was in Sag., so he loved sports. But you would've thought I was a beauty queen, and that he had to keep me under lock and key. Whew! It was not an easy life. He never disappeared, he was too busy watching me! Life was never boring, lots of fights, lots of love and lots of years together. My Scorpio died 3 years ago from Diabetes complications. His last 9 years were very painful from kidney failure to 2 amputations, but he did make his transformation during that time and he went to a kind, thoughtful, unselfish, secure loving husband, father, grandfather - he did a complete 360. Just check to see what other signs are in their chart. It's when a person has a lot of water signs (emotional)or LIBRA in them that you have to worry.

Sorry to hear about your loss. But glad to hear that you were able to experience his 360 degree transformation. Thanks for the info on water signs in the chart. By the way, I came across a research article an astrologer did on 42 serial killers. Most of them had their suns or moons in Capricorn or Sagittarius. The Scorpio I was dating had a Cap moon and he was really insensitive and cold!

All Scorpio Men are different! They're EXTREMELY private people who are difficult to get to know and they're the most jealous and distrustful of ALL the signs in the zodiac. I'm not involved with anybody, but I can honestly say that I've known ALL KINDS of Scorpio Men, and as a Virgo Woman, I've been lucky to meet mostly nice ones. I don't know if I would marry one, but I would wait AT LEAST 1 year!

I don't blame you - it's NEVER wrong to wait until you're sure you're doing the right thing.

Traits of a Scorpio Man

Limp dick
Anal sex lover
Dominating, Jealous prick





What le fuck hahaha sorry boys this thread is awful.

I like how they called him by his full first name. Theodore bundy.

LMAO @ this tread

"My Scorpio died 3 years ago from Diabetes complications. His last 9 years were very painful from kidney failure to 2 amputations, but he did make his transformation during that time and he went to a kind, thoughtful, unselfish, secure loving husband, father, grandfather - he did a complete 360."


😢

I have Type 2 Diabetes.

Posted by xdimplez
" I think Scorpio men suck. I've dated 3 of them and they all want to have anal sex. I think they are all bisexual. They like sex - any kind of sex they can get."

True. Expect for the bisexual part. So where is the problem here?