Just tell it straight scorp....

i sent the scorp a shirt before his bday. it was a shirt that said,"either way we are screwed". it was about the election.

he didn't respond until i wished him a happy bday on his bday. he said thanks and thanks for the shirt. that was it.

well i saw him last night. i walked past him twice and he just glanced at me. then finally i came up again and i was let's talk and he's like hey here's my gf so and so. my heart sank.

i don't understand. he said he didn't want to be friends bc he couldn't with me and then he ends up with a gf in 2 months after we didn't talk. i thought we had a real connection, but i was terribly blind. it hurts. 😢

i rather he just told me straight. scorps are not fun...

No. We were just kinda dating or what you can maybe call dating. in his round about way he didn't want a relationship and then he didn't even want a friendship. he has his issues so i figured he wouldn't be in any sort of relationship so i was utterly shocked when he told me that last night.

i don't understand. he said he didn't want to be friends bc he couldn't with me and then he ends up with a gf in 2 months after we didn't talk. i thought we had a real connection, but i was terribly blind. it hurts.

Oh my, I'm sorry to hear that ... I'd be hurt too 😢 Especially if he can be with someone else but not you :O

I'm so sorry. That has happened to me before, too. Guys too emotionally "unavailable" for a relationship and a few weeks later, their Facebook status changes to "in a relationship." It does suck and it does hurt.

But, and not to kick you when you are down, I am not sure where he was not straight with you? He said he couldn't be friends with you or be in a relationship with you and you hadn't talked for months, yet you sent him a gift? It was a sweet gesture, but I am wondering why you did so after he rejected both the idea of friendship and a relationship with you? He didn't deserve that shirt or your bday wishes, IMO.

i know, i had hope that he was "struggling" with his internal stuff. i was just blind.

Are u sure he wasn't with her the whole time?

who knows. i have no more faith in people.

he "seemed" sincere when his ex gf called me and he told me and apologized several times that she wasn't. this new chick is a different one. for all i know he has a handful of gals. no matter the number it just hurts, but it definitely shows a clear pic and i'm thankful for it.

"seeming sincere" is part of their charm.
I think they keep relations with a lot of different
girls til they find the one they are looking for."

I agree with Ferdy but I'd have to add, until they find the one they're looking for.....for the time being 🙂

virgogotme, he was always contradicting himself which is why i was always confused. he wanted to be friends and we weren't friends like and then i couldn't be friends and then ate my words and then he said he couldn't be friends.

Understood virgogotime, now I know. But nothing else was clear with him, but has all cleared up now.