Leo and Scorp

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lol No worries Dazed .. Thx for clarifying ..

Celtic: I see what ur saying .. He is very open with his emotions from what ive seen so far .. He's not afraid to speak his mind.. In a good way that is .. What he likes what he dislikes .. His past relationship that lasted 9 yrs .. Also very intuitive of what I enjoy doing .. Asking many questions about myself ..

But I also see where the control may come in .. At one point he asked about my view on the womans position in a couple, Meaning if im the domestic type or more new school lol ..
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Posted by DazedScorp
Posted by celticlioness
Personally I think the communication between leo and scorpio is one of the best between two signs, when its good they are so open and honest with each other - especially emotionally



I don't know if I believe that.

Only because I've seen it happen so many times (including myself), where the Scorp isn't able to fully open his heart. He holds back his feelings, never expressing them, and causes frustration for the Leo.

Scorp wants all of your emotion. Leo gives all...
Leo wants all of your emotion. Scorp gives only half.

Leo begins to feel as if she's not worthy of the love that the Scorp has to offer. That's not her fault though, but rather the Scorp who's stinging himself without realizing it.

But other than that, I think it's a great match up.

Beware of power struggles within arguements however. One of you will eventually have to relinquish a bit of your power in order for two fixed signs to maintain a relationship.


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I understand what you are saying, but have you ever had a scorp open up to you - its amazing - and that's when Leo who gives all gets all. My very best friend is a scorp male and I love him dearly and he me, everthing I say about this combo is based on him, and our relationship. Leo/Scorp "get" each other. When scrop finally trusts the Leo he will give all and more. Its a lifelong friendship between the two - even arguments are understood, flying tempers and loud hotheadedness, forgiven in an instant by both parties - our other friends go quiet and retreat when we get into it, but they don't understand that we understand and there is no malice involved. This is where it will go wrong if a romantic relationship is brought into it - there will be no forgiveness - especially on the part of scorpio, communication will close down and the scenario you outlined above is whats left. Death to follow 🙂
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Hi Jessica777, I'm a Leo Sun/Scorp Moon also. I have researched this combo because of a Scorp Sun acquaintance I have, just eye contact makes me feel like I've known him forever, and I really wanted to know why. I'm wondering if the profiles that say for the relationship to survive, one individual must be willing to allow the other to assume the dominant role.

I agree with Dazed and celticlioness in that this combination could be amazing.

In every way 😉

Will be eagerly waiting for updates!



Yes amazing, romantically only for the short term though. IMO Leo and Scorpio make the best friends out of the whole zodiac, the instant getting of each other, that knowing each others thoughts - sometimes in company if something happens my scorpio and I just look at each other and know what we are thinking, we always make a point to talk about the "look" incident later, just to affirm that we are indeed better than all others 🙂 Again, IMO, scorpio will close down if he doesn't have control or the dominant role. The one sign I don't think I would ever enter into a realtionship with is Scorpio, because I know the connection would run so deep that the ending would be the biggest hurt ever.
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I'm a Leo with a Scorpion Moon engaged to a Scorpion with a Scorpion Moon.

Don't get him jealous. Only ever give the hint you're for him. He'll push you to places you've never imagined emotionally and physically. Only involve yourself if you're ready. And you need to maintain yourself as a powerful pair - NO ego trips. This is a pairing similar to the tango - beautiful if both partners are able to accurately read each other,beautiful if the power is shared and moving in a positive direction with no lapse of step or time.

The 2 biggest pieces of advice I'd give is to practice honesty - 100% . I'm sure in this sign/moon combination you're used to keeping skeletons to yourself. He'll read through that and doubt your ability as a potential mate.

And wait for actual 'sex'. Months. I waited 4/5. Usually I would not even wait one night hah - but this one was worth it.

Good luck.
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I'm wondering if the profiles that say for the relationship to survive, one individual must be willing to allow the other to assume the dominant role.




Absolutely.

I think that's true for any fixed/fixed relationship.



+1

....and I think that a scorpio has no real problem relinquishing that role to anyone (the dominant role), IF we trust you. That is why our "tests" are necessary. Both can maintain their perceived "power" but at some point a scorpio wants to fall back to that "behind the scenes" role with grace.

Unfortunately, it's difficult to do that because, again, we have to trust you.

Trusting you is sometimes easy, too easy....but then those "tests" result in opposite results and we start pulling away and TADA...you have the conflicts.


Then everyone's left wondering why it got so cold, and without a restart of communication, it's likely to stay that way, FML!
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I'd disagree with this last statement. If both parties separate physically for a few hours - then come back with no obvious defenses or armies, communications can resume.

Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing.
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Posted by DazedScorp
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."
"Both parties need the maturity to sacrifice of pride to maintain integrity of this pairing."


Got it?



Is this
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Yeah, in my situation with this particular Scorp, who just happens to have a Cap Moon *que chirping crickets*, it's just an emotional draw, we'll likely never be anything but sympathetic friends. He breaks my heart, he seems to have withdrawn into himself, and projects unhappiness, and unworthiness of the things he wants, Cap Moon trait? 😢

Apologies to the OP for the sidetrack 🙂



You need a Scorp w/ Leo moon perhaps?
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Too shallow with emotion!
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Posted by DazedScorp
I know you weren't, but it's oh so fun to mess with you.

You're right though. That used to be me. Hence why I'm not currently in a relationship. I've been trying to work on those negative traits and stay away from the drama.

It's a long journey however.



Damn right I'm fun to mess with 😉

In all seriousness, the long journeys are the only worthwhile ones.
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Thx for the input sheathed .. I have to agree with keeping skeletons in my closet lol .. Its something i've been working on for years .. When I talk to him .. He actually makes me feel real comfortable .. Easy for me to open up to him .. And that's not something I do easily ..

I also like his honesty..

The paring sounds awesome, cant wait to plunge in .. After a week of communication by telephone we are seeing eachother tomorrow. Ive only seen pictures of him. Intrigued to see what he looks like in person 🙂

Waiting for "sex" —? sounds like torture lol 😉
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I think the pairing actually works better in real life than in astro analysis. It's something I never understood about astrology. I think it's a much better pairing than what is said. I also think it works better when the woman is leo and man scorpio. They both need and want, what the other has to give and they're also fixed in their nature which gets the flakiness out the way, something that both sides respect. All the best with this one.
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Thx Guys,

Let it be: Im not sure about his time of birth however I did his chart anyway .. His moon seems to be in sagi .. Venus also in sag.. Not sure what this means lol

We met in person for the first time last night .. Handsome gentleman, good convo, ask me if it was ok for him to ask me questions of a more deeper nature lol .. At first I was like yikes .. lol But it went well 🙂
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Hey Seraph: I was actually jst reading the aspects .. Take a look

-791 Square Sun - Sun

Negative aspect: A lot of energy is wasted in having to explain yourselves to each other. Misunderstandings are frequent, and they are draining.

Alternate Interpretation: Certainly enough conflict to ruin a whole day, if not a whole life. If at first the relationship is charming and agreeable, it will quickly end up disharmonious and life together will become unbearable. If one of the two does not make an effort, or does not find a compromise, it leads irrevocably to a breakup.

-308 Square Sun - Mercury

Challenging aspect: Lack of understanding between the two persons can frequently cause disruptions. They may not have the same intellectual interests or the same tastes and this can result in problems understanding each other or feeling as if they are on the same page. This could lead to conflicts, lies, etc.

114 Sextile Venus - Venus

Positive aspect: Complete respect for each other's romantic style . They don't easily offend each other and instinctively understand what makes the other person happy. Conflicts arise, but they are generally smoothed over with ease, as there is good will between them. Very good aspect for a successful union. Love, gaiety, understanding.

106 Conjunction Mercury - Uranus

Positive aspect: Few clouds in this couple's life, at least on an intellectual level. They have a good intellectual understanding, take pleasure in being together and in discussing and exchanging ideas. Together, they can come up with unique and creative ideas and solutions to problems.

-92 Square Mars - Saturn

Negative aspect: It is very challenging for such a union to be happy, but if it progresses, it could easily become unbearable! Both parties must be committed to happiness in order for this to work.

72 Conjunction Mars - Neptune

Positive aspect: There is an ability to bring imagination and fantasy successfully to the relationship. While interactions can be hard to define at times, you help refine one another's outlook. There is an element of mystery
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68 Sextile Venus - Jupiter

Positive aspect: This union is likely to be completely successful. A couple that is happy to be alive, and to live together, with a pleasant family and home, total confidence in each other (and with reason), intellectual understanding, similar tastes. There is a strong desire to make each other happy. You enjoy each other's company immensely and you put each other in a happy mood. You make each other laugh and you feel very open, loose, and jovial around each other. Forgiveness and graciousness characterizes your partnership.

53 Trine Mars - Jupiter

Positive aspect: This is an excellent aspect. They boost each other's confidence and fill each other with enthusiasm. They make plans together, and they are realistic enough to fulfill.

53 Sextile Mercury - Saturn

Positive aspect: If Mercury is looking for a mother or father in the spouse, then this aspect is very favorable. Saturn will give a lot on the intellectual level and in life in general.

41 Trine Mars - Pluto

Positive aspect: Enormous physical passion. The sexual attraction is intense and insistent. They want to be around each other as much as possible. Their sexual relationship evolves with time, instead of dissolves.

36 Trine Jupiter - Neptune

Positive/Supportive aspect: A potential union. This is unlikely to be a defining factor in compatibility, so you need to look at the other aspects. This is a supportive aspect.