Maybe a relationship?

I am a scorpio female and I met this leo guy while working with him last summer. While working with him, I developed feelings for him. He said that he liked me, but just wanted to remain friends. I was a little disappointed, but we just remained friends.

Its been 5 months since I've seen him. We live in different states. We talk on the phone. We call each other at least once a week to see how each are doing. We talk more now since we've been away from each other. He's been wanting me to come and visit him for the longest, but I've been hesitant about it.Its weird because when we were working together, he didn't like me, but now he wants me to come and visit him.

Should I go? Do you guys think that us seeing each other will maybe develop into anything? Does he has feelings for me now? I'm sorry for all the questions. I'm just confused. Please Help!!!

Hi Kennyg!

we just talk about things in general, normal conversations. We talk about anything. No flirtation whatsoever. We just talk to each other like friends do.

When we worked together, I was very attracted to him. I wanted to get with him, but he said that he wasn't ready for a relationship and he thought we should just be friends.

I wouldn't mind visiting him, but I see where you are coming from. But how is it one sided? What are your thoughts on this, honestly?

Hey ronda22!
I really gave some thought to your question and here is what i'm thinking.Since your interest in this man is of a romantical nature-and you are not just friends-pals,going to visit him will get him used to be passive and receiving-instead of how a guy should act-him being the pursuer.
I also think that the begining of the relationship - if you are going to develop into a different kind of-sets the tone for whole thing.So - think it over carefully-would you be comfortable being the one that has to do the work? if you really hate that,better make him understand that if he wants to see you, he has to pack his luggage and bookk a ticket.
In the event that you want him just for platonic friendship-then go ahead and see him.
Don't make it easier for men to get to you.Don't make it harder too,cause you'll scare them off.Try to impose your rules and you'll avoid being hurt and rejected.
I wish you luck and strengh-I know you have that-you are a Scorp!
Love,
Bella

Thank you gus for your help. I really appreciate it.
Ronda