need advice on a scorpio man

so there is this scorpio guy that opened to me about what is bothering him these days,because i saw that he was down(in pensive mode),so he told me that he is asking himself a lot of questions that he still couldnt figure out,among them is the path that hes taking will lead somewhere or a dead end?and he said he wants to know who he is (identity)? i know scorpios go through these cycles to be a better person,to develop.So my question is how to help him?

Being a scorpio guy myself, all I can really say is just be there for him. For us, the emotional support is really all that we need. And yes, you are right, we all go through that. I am just getting out of that myself. I spent a while not really knowing what to do with myself and felt purposeless. Talking to trusted friends helped. If he actually told you these things, then he trusts you, so talking to him will help him work himself out. I hope this helps 🙂

Thank you for your advices much appreciated@Mordy33 and @dolluxe

it turned out that the scorpio guy i thought he liked me is engaged to someone for the past three years, yesterday he opened up to me about her and told me that she is distant and treats him differently.he said also that a part of him wants to end it but another one hesitate,im confused because he told me about alot of pics that he took of me without me knowing,he showed them to me,he was getting jealous when another guy talked to me, he was really curious about me too.all ths signs were there,i developped feelings for him because hes is such a sweet and sensitive guy,now im sad and hurt but its not his fault,idk what to do? I want to be his friend but i want to protect my heart too.

We just had a brilliant saying here.

When they ate good they are amazing.

When they are bad thru are horrid.

Right from start I am feeling - run for your life!

And I am never against Scorpios. They are my fetish.

Yours is BAD! Save your ass please.

Posted by yupvirgoo
I stopped reading at "engaged."

You are lazy! Lol

Good points and advice ^^^

Walk away. No need to be his support. You'll end up being his pin cushion!

So in your world it's 'not his fault' that he stalked, photographed, and pursued another female while being engaged?

I actually think he likes you to be honest ... Scorpios are like that... Observing you even when they are in a relationship ... If they are lacking something in that particular relationship ... My advice be honest with him and respect his engagement and pull away... That actually will intrigue him... Most women will stay and try to win him over ... Move on with your life .. I honestly think he is not into this woman ... Even if he is engaged ... But you have to respect the relationship ... Be honest with him on how it makes you feel and move on... If he is really meant for you... He will drop the engagement and come back around ... Don't try to come between what he may have going on now... My bew Scorpio was engaged one time... I completely went on with my life... Loved him but... My pride wouldn't even let me look his way specifically because he was with her... I'm a Leo... I refused to play second... So I moved on... Long story short my Scorpio had been secretly lusting and even had many pictures of me without my knowledge ... He really kept it behind the scenes ... Sneaking and looking (stalking as some say) ? ...long story short he left her not for me at all.. But for him... He said something just wasn't right ... Once he left her... We started back up our friendship and now he is the hubby ... Ya need to put some boundaries around yourself ... If he is engaged respect that and if he is really into you... He will come back... But that does not mean lusting for him during the process ... Move on with your life ... That actually turns them on lol from my experience ...

Taking your picture without you knowing—?

If the engagement doesn't turn you off that should.

That is restraining order material right there.

Posted by Bottabing
I actually think he likes you to be honest ... Scorpios are like that... Observing you even when they are in a relationship ... If they are lacking something in that particular relationship ... My advice be honest with him and respect his engagement and pull away... That actually will intrigue him... Most women will stay and try to win him over ... Move on with your life .. I honestly think he is not into this woman ... Even if he is engaged ... But you have to respect the relationship ... Be honest with him on how it makes you feel and move on... If he is really meant for you... He will drop the engagement and come back around ... Don't try to come between what he may have going on now... My bew Scorpio was engaged one time... I completely went on with my life... Loved him but... My pride wouldn't even let me look his way specifically because he was with her... I'm a Leo... I refused to play second... So I moved on... Long story short my Scorpio had been secretly lusting and even had many pictures of me without my knowledge ... He really kept it behind the scenes ... Sneaking and looking (stalking as some say) ? ...long story short he left her not for me at all.. But for him... He said something just wasn't right ... Once he left her... We started back up our friendship and now he is the hubby ... Ya need to put some boundaries around yourself ... If he is engaged respect that and if he is really into you... He will come back... But that does not mean lusting for him during the process ... Move on with your life ... That actually turns them on lol from my experience ...

hm sounds like secretly desiring ''what's better on the other side of the grass" thing.

not currently satisfied with current situation.



what placements are your scorpio man?

Posted by lilyrose
it turned out that the scorpio guy i thought he liked me is engaged to someone for the past three years, yesterday he opened up to me about her and told me that she is distant and treats him differently.he said also that a part of him wants to end it but another one hesitate,im confused because he told me about alot of pics that he took of me without me knowing,he showed them to me,he was getting jealous when another guy talked to me, he was really curious about me too.all ths signs were there,i developped feelings for him because hes is such a sweet and sensitive guy,now im sad and hurt but its not his fault,idk what to do? I want to be his friend but i want to protect my heart too.

what are his placements by the way??

so we can see the dark/shadow side of the placements. I think it's an individual thing but some shadow sides show up when unsatisfied.

Scorpio sun, Taurus moon, venus Capricorn, Aquarius rising... Mars Virgo ... Very observant ... And low key ... And yes he was secretly desiring me... Lol... Eventually he went with what was true to his heart ....

Posted by lilyrose
it turned out that the scorpio guy i thought he liked me is engaged to someone for the past three years, yesterday he opened up to me about her and told me that she is distant and treats him differently.he said also that a part of him wants to end it but another one hesitate,im confused because he told me about alot of pics that he took of me without me knowing,he showed them to me,he was getting jealous when another guy talked to me, he was really curious about me too.all ths signs were there,i developped feelings for him because hes is such a sweet and sensitive guy,now im sad and hurt but its not his fault,idk what to do? I want to be his friend but i want to protect my heart too.

Sweet and sensitive guy after all you wrote just seem like you need help!