Scorpio jealousy

Any idea how a scorpio male is like when he is jealous? And whats the best way to deal with it?

We're fwb, i guess? We never really establish a term for our relationship but does it mean anything if he is showing jealousy?

Also didnt do anything such as cheating or flirting at all except going to support an ex-bf's band as a friend, genuinely. Scorpio knew about my friendship with my ex before we started anything (maybe 3months ago?) and was okay about it.

Cut ties with exes they do not play that ...js

Should people be able to go out and be trusted to hang with an ex friend. Some have friends for lyfe. And won't give them up.

Posted by tayrusctsm
...does it mean anything if he is showing jealousy?

It means you should get this sorted:

Posted by tayrusctsm
We're fwb, i guess? We never really establish a term for our relationship...

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If you want more, say so. If you don't, say so.

Simply having a conversation does wonders for clearing up confusion. Or so I've heard.

Scorpio dont like to hear about your exes.

We are not good in dealing with that issues.

Establish what the relationship is. He might be jealous but also handcuffed because he might not know how to react to the lack of defined status. It may start as jealousy but it's well on the way to frustrated and it will end abruptly if you don't figure out what you two are doing after 3 months.

Posted by MIIeFisk
And lol @TaurusinTexas.

And I read that girl and went hahahaha, that's awesome!!

My Scorp is more overprotective than "jealous". He won't let me travel alone, do dangerous sports, or even walk around alone at night. And like someone else mentioned, he definitely wouldn't want me to go to Vegas with a bunch of girlfriends. He thinks I would probably be drugged, kidnapped and end up a sex slave or something. >_>

But then again we're married.. if you guys are only FWB, he really doesn't have any say in anything you do.

i cannot recall that my scorp ever outwardly expressed jealousy. that probably has something to do with the fact that i often have myself on lockdown lol

i usually dress for comfort and don't like skimpy outfits except on Halloween. i love dress provocatively for Halloween and scorpio begged me to not wear what i planned for 2 years in a row. he gave in both times though. he was with me anyway so i just told him to have fun and relax lol

why not invite scorpio to go with you to support you ex-bf's band as a friend, genuinely? if your ex has a problem with that then i'd say there is a reason for the jealousy. i'm friendly with my ex but i am certainly not his cheerleader or bff. there are others who can do that.

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Posted by tayrusctsm
Any idea how a scorpio male is like when he is jealous? And whats the best way to deal with it?

We're fwb, i guess? We never really establish a term for our relationship but does it mean anything if he is showing jealousy?

From personal experience, depends on the Scorp. My ex would give me the silent treatment or be all cold. Current Scorp is more vocal and would ask me a lot of questions. Best way to deal with it is communicate. Honestly I don't see why he would get all jealous if you guys are just fwb.

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Yeah he was all cold at first and asked a few questions about it and then soon realised it was really nothing much, he played it off cool and said "well its your life you can do whatever you want, i have no rights to say anything". I took all your advices and tried to talk our feelings out and yea he admitted that he liked me. I see why now.

Wonder if any of you know how to read the compatibility between our signs? Bc im clueless with these things haha

He is a scorpio sun, pisces moon and venus in sagittarius

Im a taurus sun, pisces moon and venus in aries

Any identical or similar experiences?

As a Scorpio woman myself ''its very ugly'' but its alright because thats what we scorpios are made off; it's one of our best asset that we love you/the person. It only take one person just to give us some insight that its ok to be jealous because everyone have that at some point in there life right?

But also it's our downfall too because we suffer so much we can't comprehend etc.

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Posted by iCloud9
why not invite scorpio to go with you to support you ex-bf's band as a friend, genuinely?

lol please don't

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lol it's just a different way of saying "(1)there is nothing going on bw ex and i. (2)are we exclusive?" without saying NO who do you think you are lol

Posted by vesper
As a Scorpio woman myself ''its very ugly'' but its alright because thats what we scorpios are made off; it's one of our best asset that we love you/the person. It only take one person just to give us some insight that its ok to be jealous because everyone have that at some point in there life right?

But also it's our downfall too because we suffer so much we can't comprehend etc.

It is okay. Im a taurus so i understand the jealousy, and possessiveness that comes from it bc im also like that. I dont find it repulsive at all actually.

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Posted by tayrusctsm
Wonder if any of you know how to read the compatibility between our signs? Bc im clueless with these things haha

He is a scorpio sun, pisces moon and venus in sagittarius

Im a taurus sun, pisces moon and venus in aries

Any identical or similar experiences?

Very compatible.

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Thats nice to know!

there is no free lunch in this world. what trust should he expect as a fwb?

if he wants his feelings to be catered, then work for it.

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Let me rephrase that....

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Not.. Good.

I told my Scorpio I would go to Las Vegas for my bday next year with girlfriends,

He told me if I did that it wasn't going to end well..

lol like seriously?!? Talk about having me on lock down.

Unfounded suspicions and using it as a form of threat is retarded, immature, and shows lack of trust. And should he say, "It's not you that I dont trust, it's your girlfriends" its bullshit and manipulative. Not to mention unhealthy use of control.

Unless your girlfriends are promiscuous and exhibit dangerous behaviors, is there a real reason he should be saying such things.

If not, he's being a fucking baby.

There's way more to the story than what you read but it's fine if this is what you perceive. 🙂

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Well you're the one giving the details, so if someone doesn't perceive it correctly then that's on you.

In my experience Scorpios get jealous, this doesn't me a he considers you anything but a FWB, they just like to have their FWB'S locked down, while they continue to look for the one. I would get that cleared up, if I were you.

Posted by tayrusctsm
Any idea how a scorpio male is like when he is jealous? And whats the best way to deal with it?

We're fwb, i guess? We never really establish a term for our relationship but does it mean anything if he is showing jealousy?

Plain and SIMPLE....jealousy means insecurity. If he's jealous why this fwb? Tit-for-tat. 😡

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

Posted by TaurusinTexas

Posted by Amethysst

Posted by MIIeFisk
Let me rephrase that....

Posted by Amethysst
Not.. Good.

I told my Scorpio I would go to Las Vegas for my bday next year with girlfriends,

He told me if I did that it wasn't going to end well..

lol like seriously?!? Talk about having me on lock down.

Unfounded suspicions and using it as a form of threat is retarded, immature, and shows lack of trust. And should he say, "It's not you that I dont trust, it's your girlfriends" its bullshit and manipulative. Not to mention unhealthy use of control.

Unless your girlfriends are promiscuous and exhibit dangerous behaviors, is there a real reason he should be saying such things.

If not, he's being a fucking baby.

There's way more to the story than what you read but it's fine if this is what you perceive. 🙂

Well you're the one giving the details, so if someone doesn't perceive it correctly then that's on you.

In my experience Scorpios get jealous, this doesn't me a he considers you anything but a FWB, they just like to have their FWB'S locked down, while they continue to look for the one. I would get that cleared up, if I were you.

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I don't know about him looking for another one. Maybe? But i did finally talk to him yesterday. He admitted that he likes me a lot.