No message from him

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Virgo_m on Monday, July 17, 2017 and has 11 replies.

Understanding Scorpio Communication After a Date

Scorpios can be complex in their communication. If he hasn't reached out after a good date, he may need time to process his feelings or is uncertain about your interest. His actions suggest he enjoyed the time but may be unsure about next steps. Patience and clear communication can help clarify his intentions.

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@Virgo_m
9 Years

Hi all, last weekend was the second date with my Scorpio, he asked me to join his frd's birthday, I felt that he always create some chance to get close to me and next to me the whole night he asked me questions seems wanted to know me how I think about something and also we had fun time after that we slept together we had a great time and then the next day he walked me to the train station he kissed me before we split, but then he didn't text me after that, I'm a bit confused cos when we talked he said sth like next yr we could go somewhere together seems (before sex) and before we split he still gave me a kiss but he doesn't text me after that? Seems like nothing happened..

Is he just wanted to sleep with me that's all? I feel sad as I think we do had a great time

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@Virgo_m
9 Years

Should I just wait him to text me or should I text him again? I actually text him once just letting him know I got home and he did reply in short

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@ScorpFemme
9 Years

Send him a funny text or link to get the ball rolling again. No pressure. If he doesn't respond you have your answer potentionally. Just a thought

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@Sunsetvirgo
10 Years5,000+ Posts

I'm kidding.

But maybe you should just wait a little bit. If you hear nothing from him, then you got your answer: he only wanted you for sex.

And if so... then you can proceed w/ beating his HEADASS, Virgo.

Kick him in the shin

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@PhoenixRising
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Virgo_m
Hi all, last weekend was the second date with my Scorpio, he asked me to join his frd's birthday, I felt that he always create some chance to get close to me and next to me the whole night he asked me questions seems wanted to know me how I think about something and also we had fun time after that we slept together we had a great time and then the next day he walked me to the train station he kissed me before we split, but then he didn't text me after that, I'm a bit confused cos when we talked he said sth like next yr we could go somewhere together seems (before sex) and before we split he still gave me a kiss but he doesn't text me after that? Seems like nothing happened..

Is he just wanted to sleep with me that's all? I feel sad as I think we do had a great time

This is the one thing I hate about technology. The assumption that just because you have "access" to me, you have the right to have "access" to me all the time.

You spent the whole night together. Allow for some breathing room.

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@Virgo_m
9 Years

As we known each other from tinder I'm extra insecure... i know I shouldn't slept with him that early but too late. Maybe if he doesn't text me anymore more then that is an answer? It hurt. That's not how Scorpio treats someone they like right?

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@Virgo_m
9 Years

I texted him last night and I just tried to have a fun talk with him and he was as well, at the end he said sth like then you should come to find me, then I replied you should come instead (we live far from each other) then I said a good night but he didn't respond for that, I can't read him I can't tell what is it in his mind... he sometime slightly flirt with me but not that much and me the same

I wanna know how they will act to the person they like to move into a relationship?