Not sure what this Scorpio wants—

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So if anyone has followed my roller coaster of a journey with a Scorpio Sun/Sag Moon. I have some new news. So basically we decided to be friends and 2 weekends ago he texted me saying that he misses 'talking' to me. (Talking as in like the unofficial dating stage). I told him that I miss him too but that it's gonna take time. He told me that he wanted to hangout this past week, but I have been extremely busy. Also, he knows that I have been going on dates as he is currently 'talking' to another person too. So this past Friday I texted him saying if he I readded him on instagram if he would follow back (I asked because he readded me on snapchat shortly after he told me he missed me) So long story short, he said for what? and I told him nevermind, and that I told him that I think he still thinks that I have strong feelings for him but I don't. Also that I am talking to someone new too. (since he is talking to someone new as well).

So anyways he has been ignoring me ever since and he recently blocked my number and blocked me on all social media that I have (Instagram/Snap). So I was wondering if you all think he is hurt because I told him that I am talking to someone new as he is doing the same?

Back story: I dated this guy unofficially since February, and ended things in July because he confessed his feelings for me and then I did too and he backed away and became distant shortly after. He ended things, not me.

Also I am a Pisces/Aries Cusp Sun and Cancer Moon
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If he misses talking to you, even wants you around, its a good sign. There is more there. There is a chance. The other person is not fulfilling him.

Also, scorps back off to see how much the person will chase, how much interest there is. But give some, not all until you have his commitment
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I would never insult a person with this suspicion unless I know for sure! ?
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If he misses talking to you, even wants you around, its a good sign. There is more there. There is a chance. The other person is not fulfilling him.

Also, scorps back off to see how much the person will chase, how much interest there is. But give some, not all until you have his commitment
Are you a Scorpio?
Yes, can you not tell by my crazy—

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Posted by itssaucy
If he misses talking to you, even wants you around, its a good sign. There is more there. There is a chance. The other person is not fulfilling him.

Also, scorps back off to see how much the person will chase, how much interest there is. But give some, not all until you have his commitment
Yeah like after he blocked me there's no way for me to contact him, unless I go to his house but I'm not going to do that at all. But I understood that it was a good sign, what I don't understand is how he can move on and talk to others, but when I do it it tends to be an issue. But I personally feel like I have shown that I care and the amount of interest I have.
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Funny the person I'm talking too is Scorpio sun Sag moon and Venus too... they like "friendships" very hard for them to commit... can't be too mushy with your feelings either... and more than likely they will have a few partners until they choose in their minds you are a girlfriend and then they will be faithful which could take forever. I just realized something by writing this... until that time comes... I need to continue to date around... I want so bad to have him to myself and I can't even look at anyone else... but I can't say the same for him with me. He's blocked you... accept that.. when you have moved on... they normally returned. I'm sorry for your situation... it would kill me a little.


That's funny! Especially because he is a sag Venus and I'm an Aries Venus. But yeah, I understand the whole keeping options open. I just recently started dating again after things ended between him and I. But he came back and realized that I was being open with people I'm talking to especially since he did the same. I think he expected me to not move on, while he can. But to me it sucks that this happened and I'm giving it time. Im just confused about the situation, he never explicitly told me that he wanted to talk again or see one another again in that way. He just stated that he misses me. My Aries Venus make me all about concrete and clear communication but he's very very vague in terms of communication. So idk if he got mad at the fact that I had deleted him off of Snapchat after he told me he wasn't going to follow me on Insta or if he's hurt because Im seeing other people and told him that I don't have super strong feelings for him like before.
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I'm a Scorpio sun / Sagittarius moon and I remember your topic, yeah. We're probably the bluntest sun-moon pair ever, and in that case, it's heart vs head. It's really hard for a Scorpio sun with a Sag moon to make a proper choice. Our sun wants to commit, but our moon just want to have fun and nothing serious. But since now he came back, he probably regrets ? He might want to be with you now, but he's hesitating. Especially since you're dating all around. That's why he blocked you everywhere. I know I do this too, when I'm scared to commit.
Yeah, I totally understand. The reason why I started dating around and stuff was because he told me when we kinda got into it that he is talking to someone new/dating around and that I need to move on. So that is exactly what I have been doing. The problem here is that when he told me that he misses me I told him that I miss him too. But I guess for me I like concrete answers and he is very vague with what he wants. I understand that he is being hesitant, I am too for the same reasons but I think he wants me to be exclusive to him and him not to me. Do you think I should just let it be? I don't have a choice, but I really am considering just letting him go even if he ends up contacting me again. I do like him, but I can't say I have the same feelings for him like I did in the past. Hence why I told him that it's going to take time if he wants to be with me.
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I'm a Scorpio sun / Sagittarius moon and I remember your topic, yeah. We're probably the bluntest sun-moon pair ever, and in that case, it's heart vs head. It's really hard for a Scorpio sun with a Sag moon to make a proper choice. Our sun wants to commit, but our moon just want to have fun and nothing serious. But since now he came back, he probably regrets ? He might want to be with you now, but he's hesitating. Especially since you're dating all around. That's why he blocked you everywhere. I know I do this too, when I'm scared to commit.
Yeah, I totally understand. The reason why I started dating around and stuff was because he told me when we kinda got into it that he is talking to someone new/dating around and that I need to move on. So that is exactly what I have been doing. The problem here is that when he told me that he misses me I told him that I miss him too. But I guess for me I like concrete answers and he is very vague with what he wants. I understand that he is being hesitant, I am too for the same reasons but I think he wants me to be exclusive to him and him not to me. Do you think I should just let it be? I don't have a choice, but I really am considering just letting him go even if he ends up contacting me again. I do like him, but I can't say I have the same feelings for him like I did in the past. Hence why I told him that it's going to take time if he wants to be with me.


I thunk he told you that out of spite, really. If a scorpio comes back and tell you he "misses you" don't second guess it. While our sag moon makes us blunt, we're still very honest. I understand your point though. If you don't feel the same as before for him, then better not getting involved with him anymore, or it would hurt him and honestly get ready to be stung back. We want someone at 100% not half of it. But once more...I understand you. Now, I can assure you he's just hesitant and probably scared.
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Yeah I think he did too. But it was still hurtful at the time since I was the most vulnerable during that argument/time. But for sure, I think I won't second guess it and just go with the flow. I do like him, but it's not the same though I know for sure my feelings would come back if we ended up talking/hanging out again like last time. When we were dating, I was giving him 100% , I was pretty much exclusive to him while he wasn't. But yeah, I understand if he's being hesitant and scared and if that's the reason why he blocked me. I just need to give it time.
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This combination is fun but childish, but if you really want a committed relationship go and look for a Cap or Taurus. He's not yet decided. He's hurt because you are dating someone else, that's expressed in how he blocked you, at the same time he misses you, at the same time he wants you to suffer. Are you really taking that? these are the types of scorpio that makes us look like vindictive fools.

Don't take that. My ex had this combination and it was heartbreaking to see that he couldn't love me more than his scorpio ego and his sag moon willing to look for fun in every direction, leaving my emotional needs behind. Don't do that to yourself.
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Funny the person I'm talking too is Scorpio sun Sag moon and Venus too... they like "friendships" very hard for them to commit... can't be too mushy with your feelings either... and more than likely they will have a few partners until they choose in their minds you are a girlfriend and then they will be faithful which could take forever. I just realized something by writing this... until that time comes... I need to continue to date around... I want so bad to have him to myself and I can't even look at anyone else... but I can't say the same for him with me. He's blocked you... accept that.. when you have moved on... they normally returned. I'm sorry for your situation... it would kill me a little.
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This description is more Taurus than scorpio
That is a sag moon sag Venus trait not the Scorpio aspect. That's what I was saying I am not wrong in that.
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i dont know any scorpio men that don't commit 100% , but maybe because they haven't found the "one"...

ie, think of Leonardo Di Caprio, scorpio sun/libra moon, libra venus, scorpio mars. it might be his libra that can't find anyone to "fit" yet.

sagittarius placements needs someone that gives him alot of freedom. don't "fence" them in.
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I'm a Scorpio sun / Sagittarius moon and I remember your topic, yeah. We're probably the bluntest sun-moon pair ever, and in that case, it's heart vs head. It's really hard for a Scorpio sun with a Sag moon to make a proper choice. Our sun wants to commit, but our moon just want to have fun and nothing serious. But since now he came back, he probably regrets ? He might want to be with you now, but he's hesitating. Especially since you're dating all around. That's why he blocked you everywhere. I know I do this too, when I'm scared to commit.
Yeah, I totally understand. The reason why I started dating around and stuff was because he told me when we kinda got into it that he is talking to someone new/dating around and that I need to move on. So that is exactly what I have been doing. The problem here is that when he told me that he misses me I told him that I miss him too. But I guess for me I like concrete answers and he is very vague with what he wants. I understand that he is being hesitant, I am too for the same reasons but I think he wants me to be exclusive to him and him not to me. Do you think I should just let it be? I don't have a choice, but I really am considering just letting him go even if he ends up contacting me again. I do like him, but I can't say I have the same feelings for him like I did in the past. Hence why I told him that it's going to take time if he wants to be with me.


I thunk he told you that out of spite, really. If a scorpio comes back and tell you he "misses you" don't second guess it. While our sag moon makes us blunt, we're still very honest. I understand your point though. If you don't feel the same as before for him, then better not getting involved with him anymore, or it would hurt him and honestly get ready to be stung back. We want someone at 100% not half of it. But once more...I understand you. Now, I can assure you he's just hesitant and probably scared.
Yeah I think he did too. But it was still hurtful at the time since I was the most vulnerable during that argument/time. But for sure, I think I won't second guess it and just go with the flow. I do like him, but it's not the same though I know for sure my feelings would come back if we ended up talking/hanging out again like last time. When we were dating, I was giving him 100% , I was pretty much exclusive to him while he wasn't. But yeah, I understand if he's being hesitant and scared and if that's the reason why he blocked me. I just need to give it time.


I feel sorry for you, it's true that we tend to hurt others easily, especially with a Sag moon 😢 (It took me years to realize it lol). Honestly, that guy doesn't deserves you. If you gave him so much and were "exclusive" to him, then he should feel lucky. The truth is, we really long for someone to tame us. I also struggle with my sag moon, because I'm scared to feel trap. A relationship sounds fun at first, then we get bored easily and need to run away. If you manage to tame him, then perhaps, he'll give in.

Don't hesitate to ask me anything, if you need some informations. 🙂

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anthony kiedis and chad kroeger are sag moons with scorpio sun.

Kroeger married a Libra sun,

and anthony is still roaming like a wild horse...

i think cause Kroeger is pisces dominant he can commit easily. While anthony kiedis is libra dominant. maybe libra dominants are scared of commitment. like that of Leonardo Di Caprio.



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Funny the person I'm talking too is Scorpio sun Sag moon and Venus too... they like "friendships" very hard for them to commit... can't be too mushy with your feelings either... and more than likely they will have a few partners until they choose in their minds you are a girlfriend and then they will be faithful which could take forever. I just realized something by writing this... until that time comes... I need to continue to date around... I want so bad to have him to myself and I can't even look at anyone else... but I can't say the same for him with me. He's blocked you... accept that.. when you have moved on... they normally returned. I'm sorry for your situation... it would kill me a little.
Wrong

This description is more Taurus than scorpio
That is a sag moon sag Venus trait not the Scorpio aspect. That's what I was saying I am not wrong in that.
i dont know any scorpio men that don't commit 100% , but maybe because they haven't found the "one"...

ie, think of Leonardo Di Caprio, scorpio sun/libra moon, libra venus, scorpio mars. it might be his libra that can't find anyone to "fit" yet.

sagittarius placements needs someone that gives him alot of freedom. don't "fence" them in.
I knew this and he haven't seen me in a week... I send morning texts and leave him the whole day till the next cause why? I like space too I also have an Aries Venus.... so we would go well. On top of the things I have going on he would have a lot of space... I don't think it's the issue. Scorpio Taurus sag Aries... perfect mix. BUT... I'm backing off this whooooole weekend. Unless he text I'm going on dates lol
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he's got to chase you imo.

it'd be better if he had libra personal placements for your aries venus. aries venus seems to chase.

and libra likes to be chased. lol opposite attracts.
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Funny the person I'm talking too is Scorpio sun Sag moon and Venus too... they like "friendships" very hard for them to commit... can't be too mushy with your feelings either... and more than likely they will have a few partners until they choose in their minds you are a girlfriend and then they will be faithful which could take forever. I just realized something by writing this... until that time comes... I need to continue to date around... I want so bad to have him to myself and I can't even look at anyone else... but I can't say the same for him with me. He's blocked you... accept that.. when you have moved on... they normally returned. I'm sorry for your situation... it would kill me a little.
Wrong

This description is more Taurus than scorpio
That is a sag moon sag Venus trait not the Scorpio aspect. That's what I was saying I am not wrong in that.
i dont know any scorpio men that don't commit 100% , but maybe because they haven't found the "one"...

ie, think of Leonardo Di Caprio, scorpio sun/libra moon, libra venus, scorpio mars. it might be his libra that can't find anyone to "fit" yet.

sagittarius placements needs someone that gives him alot of freedom. don't "fence" them in.
I knew this and he haven't seen me in a week... I send morning texts and leave him the whole day till the next cause why? I like space too I also have an Aries Venus.... so we would go well. On top of the things I have going on he would have a lot of space... I don't think it's the issue. Scorpio Taurus sag Aries... perfect mix. BUT... I'm backing off this whooooole weekend. Unless he text I'm going on dates lol
he's got to chase you imo.

it'd be better if he had libra personal placements for your aries venus. aries venus seems to chase.

and libra likes to be chased. lol opposite attracts.
No worries lol... he's gonna be chasing lol. Cause I'm gone ? I know my Aries Venus chases so I've been working on it cause my Taurus sun hates it and wants to be chased... oh the chaos ?
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your aries venus for a woman is how you "attract" lol so .....

remember Audrey Hepburn has your sun and venus, (aries)

she was happy with a libra man.

but with you, maybe with a Scorpio man with libra venus or libra mars. 😛

and sag moon. lol but at least libra somewhere!! (is he a 7th houser?)



https://www.thoughtco.com/venus-in-aries-women-207572

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Aries is a cardinal sign, meaning she goes after what she wants! It's the first dash out of the gate, and that's the energy she brings to love, with Venus here. As a lover, she's the spirit of Spring!




Keeping her interest means providing that level of charge. That means being quick on the draw, with fresh ideas and suggestions of things to do together. She enjoys dates that are physically active, over a passive night at the cinema.

She'll stay piqued by someone with their own irons in the fire. Perhaps it's best not to be too available, to promote your image as someone with a full life. This also gives her a chance to play the role of the huntress.

She'll lose interest if you unload your insecurities too soon. We all have them, but her way is to "act as if" and face fears like a charging ram. She's allured by those with a similar brave face, even when she senses the vulnerability underneath. She's more likely to admire those who act in the face of fear. And it's better to demonstrate this, than talk about it.

Her love style is sometimes at odds with the ideal of womanhood. That's why a Venus Aries woman really shines, with someone who "gets" that she's brash and a real spitfire but also desires to open her heart to someone she trusts. It takes a man (or person) that's sure of his masculinity, to embrace these traits, and to make her feel womanly.





Audrey Hepburn with her Aries venus, (although she is very watery) with cancer mars/pisces moon.
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Yep, he's hurt because you blocked him... but that's ok, if he's hurt, he cares. He'll be back. Keep playing hard to get. Scorpios loooooove that 😄

I'm a Scorpio, Libra moon, sag ascendant and sag venus.... Committing is hard for me but once you have me locked, it's forever.

Also, as a Scorpio, I do not have many "partners", I have friends. When someone sticks out to me, there is no question about it. If you are friend-zoned, it's just not there. Sorry.
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I'm a Scorpio sun / Sagittarius moon and I remember your topic, yeah. We're probably the bluntest sun-moon pair ever, and in that case, it's heart vs head. It's really hard for a Scorpio sun with a Sag moon to make a proper choice. Our sun wants to commit, but our moon just want to have fun and nothing serious. But since now he came back, he probably regrets ? He might want to be with you now, but he's hesitating. Especially since you're dating all around. That's why he blocked you everywhere. I know I do this too, when I'm scared to commit.
Yeah, I totally understand. The reason why I started dating around and stuff was because he told me when we kinda got into it that he is talking to someone new/dating around and that I need to move on. So that is exactly what I have been doing. The problem here is that when he told me that he misses me I told him that I miss him too. But I guess for me I like concrete answers and he is very vague with what he wants. I understand that he is being hesitant, I am too for the same reasons but I think he wants me to be exclusive to him and him not to me. Do you think I should just let it be? I don't have a choice, but I really am considering just letting him go even if he ends up contacting me again. I do like him, but I can't say I have the same feelings for him like I did in the past. Hence why I told him that it's going to take time if he wants to be with me.


I thunk he told you that out of spite, really. If a scorpio comes back and tell you he "misses you" don't second guess it. While our sag moon makes us blunt, we're still very honest. I understand your point though. If you don't feel the same as before for him, then better not getting involved with him anymore, or it would hurt him and honestly get ready to be stung back. We want someone at 100% not half of it. But once more...I understand you. Now, I can assure you he's just hesitant and probably scared.
Yeah I think he did too. But it was still hurtful at the time since I was the most vulnerable during that argument/time. But for sure, I think I won't second guess it and just go with the flow. I do like him, but it's not the same though I know for sure my feelings would come back if we ended up talking/hanging out again like last time. When we were dating, I was giving him 100% , I was pretty much exclusive to him while he wasn't. But yeah, I understand if he's being hesitant and scared and if that's the reason why he blocked me. I just need to give it time.


I feel sorry for you, it's true that we tend to hurt others easily, especially with a Sag moon 😢 (It took me years to realize it lol). Honestly, that guy doesn't deserves you. If you gave him so much and were "exclusive" to him, then he should feel lucky. The truth is, we really long for someone to tame us. I also struggle with my sag moon, because I'm scared to feel trap. A relationship sounds fun at first, then we get bored easily and need to run away. If you manage to tame him, then perhaps, he'll give in.

Don't hesitate to ask me anything, if you need some informations. 🙂

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Thank you for your insight! ? but yeah, I think I'm just gonna let it be. I think he'll come back for sure, when he gets over it.
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This combination is fun but childish, but if you really want a committed relationship go and look for a Cap or Taurus. He's not yet decided. He's hurt because you are dating someone else, that's expressed in how he blocked you, at the same time he misses you, at the same time he wants you to suffer. Are you really taking that? these are the types of scorpio that makes us look like vindictive fools.

Don't take that. My ex had this combination and it was heartbreaking to see that he couldn't love me more than his scorpio ego and his sag moon willing to look for fun in every direction, leaving my emotional needs behind. Don't do that to yourself.


Thank you for replying. At first I was taking it but then I started to date other people and go on dates, as was he. It does suck because he became so vulnerable to me and then he like closed off and ended things. So got me it was like —. So I was all sad until I began dating others. The guy I'm talking to is actually a Taurus, we've been talking everyday and went on 2 dates so far. But yeah, it is sad to see how ego has a huge dynamic. He does have a huge ego and I call him out on that all the time. Lol
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Yep, he's hurt because you blocked him... but that's ok, if he's hurt, he cares. He'll be back. Keep playing hard to get. Scorpios loooooove that 😄

I'm a Scorpio, Libra moon, sag ascendant and sag venus.... Committing is hard for me but once you have me locked, it's forever.

Also, as a Scorpio, I do not have many "partners", I have friends. When someone sticks out to me, there is no question about it. If you are friend-zoned, it's just not there. Sorry.
Yeah I know he's hurt because I'm dating others hence why he blocked me. But I feel like none of this would have happened if he was more assertive with what he wants/feels. But I also get that it's hard for this combination to express that. He would tell me things like "just move on" etc and now that I did he's all hurt though he started dating others shortly after he ended things with me lol
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I'm a Scorpio sun / Sagittarius moon and I remember your topic, yeah. We're probably the bluntest sun-moon pair ever, and in that case, it's heart vs head. It's really hard for a Scorpio sun with a Sag moon to make a proper choice. Our sun wants to commit, but our moon just want to have fun and nothing serious. But since now he came back, he probably regrets ? He might want to be with you now, but he's hesitating. Especially since you're dating all around. That's why he blocked you everywhere. I know I do this too, when I'm scared to commit.
Yeah, I totally understand. The reason why I started dating around and stuff was because he told me when we kinda got into it that he is talking to someone new/dating around and that I need to move on. So that is exactly what I have been doing. The problem here is that when he told me that he misses me I told him that I miss him too. But I guess for me I like concrete answers and he is very vague with what he wants. I understand that he is being hesitant, I am too for the same reasons but I think he wants me to be exclusive to him and him not to me. Do you think I should just let it be? I don't have a choice, but I really am considering just letting him go even if he ends up contacting me again. I do like him, but I can't say I have the same feelings for him like I did in the past. Hence why I told him that it's going to take time if he wants to be with me.


I thunk he told you that out of spite, really. If a scorpio comes back and tell you he "misses you" don't second guess it. While our sag moon makes us blunt, we're still very honest. I understand your point though. If you don't feel the same as before for him, then better not getting involved with him anymore, or it would hurt him and honestly get ready to be stung back. We want someone at 100% not half of it. But once more...I understand you. Now, I can assure you he's just hesitant and probably scared.
Yeah I think he did too. But it was still hurtful at the time since I was the most vulnerable during that argument/time. But for sure, I think I won't second guess it and just go with the flow. I do like him, but it's not the same though I know for sure my feelings would come back if we ended up talking/hanging out again like last time. When we were dating, I was giving him 100% , I was pretty much exclusive to him while he wasn't. But yeah, I understand if he's being hesitant and scared and if that's the reason why he blocked me. I just need to give it time.


I feel sorry for you, it's true that we tend to hurt others easily, especially with a Sag moon 😢 (It took me years to realize it lol). Honestly, that guy doesn't deserves you. If you gave him so much and were "exclusive" to him, then he should feel lucky. The truth is, we really long for someone to tame us. I also struggle with my sag moon, because I'm scared to feel trap. A relationship sounds fun at first, then we get bored easily and need to run away. If you manage to tame him, then perhaps, he'll give in.

Don't hesitate to ask me anything, if you need some informations. 🙂




Thank you for your insight! ? but yeah, I think I'm just gonna let it be. I think he'll come back for sure, when he gets over it.


Sadly, we get over it only if we're tamed. But you're welcome 😉
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Well curious question, what do you mean by tame?
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So an update: I got a hold of him and he texted me saying what do I want and I asked if I can ask him a question and he said what. So I asked him if I hurt him, and if so how? That I wouldn't invalidate his feelings I promise. He then said nope. So I asked then why did he block me?

And he said because he wants me to leave him alone already. So I said so there's no chance of being friends or anything? And he said "no." I then told him that if hes hurt because im dating someone new, that he shouldnt be because he's the one who said to move on and because he's talking to someone new, so it's not fair imo. He then said "it has nothing to do with you talking to anyone, I just want you to fuck off

So I'm just leaving it as that. Clearly he's still hurt.
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This combination is fun but childish, but if you really want a committed relationship go and look for a Cap or Taurus. He's not yet decided. He's hurt because you are dating someone else, that's expressed in how he blocked you, at the same time he misses you, at the same time he wants you to suffer. Are you really taking that? these are the types of scorpio that makes us look like vindictive fools.

Don't take that. My ex had this combination and it was heartbreaking to see that he couldn't love me more than his scorpio ego and his sag moon willing to look for fun in every direction, leaving my emotional needs behind. Don't do that to yourself.


Thank you for replying. At first I was taking it but then I started to date other people and go on dates, as was he. It does suck because he became so vulnerable to me and then he like closed off and ended things. So got me it was like —. So I was all sad until I began dating others. The guy I'm talking to is actually a Taurus, we've been talking everyday and went on 2 dates so far. But yeah, it is sad to see how ego has a huge dynamic. He does have a huge ego and I call him out on that all the time. Lol
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I'm glad that you are dating someone else now, Scorps are not for everybody, I do know that. They mostly tend to show destructive dynamics in relationships :/ and a huge ego is part of it.

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This combination is fun but childish, but if you really want a committed relationship go and look for a Cap or Taurus. He's not yet decided. He's hurt because you are dating someone else, that's expressed in how he blocked you, at the same time he misses you, at the same time he wants you to suffer. Are you really taking that? these are the types of scorpio that makes us look like vindictive fools.

Don't take that. My ex had this combination and it was heartbreaking to see that he couldn't love me more than his scorpio ego and his sag moon willing to look for fun in every direction, leaving my emotional needs behind. Don't do that to yourself.


Thank you for replying. At first I was taking it but then I started to date other people and go on dates, as was he. It does suck because he became so vulnerable to me and then he like closed off and ended things. So got me it was like —. So I was all sad until I began dating others. The guy I'm talking to is actually a Taurus, we've been talking everyday and went on 2 dates so far. But yeah, it is sad to see how ego has a huge dynamic. He does have a huge ego and I call him out on that all the time. Lol
I'm glad that you are dating someone else now, Scorps are not for everybody, I do know that. They mostly tend to show destructive dynamics in relationships :/ and a huge ego is part of it.

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See I get along with every Scorpio I know. But him and I we get along very well and the connection was natural and flowed nicely. But he does have a big ego. Almost every Scorpio I know has a big ego and I see it be a big part of destroying their relationships. It sucks.
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This combination is fun but childish, but if you really want a committed relationship go and look for a Cap or Taurus. He's not yet decided. He's hurt because you are dating someone else, that's expressed in how he blocked you, at the same time he misses you, at the same time he wants you to suffer. Are you really taking that? these are the types of scorpio that makes us look like vindictive fools.

Don't take that. My ex had this combination and it was heartbreaking to see that he couldn't love me more than his scorpio ego and his sag moon willing to look for fun in every direction, leaving my emotional needs behind. Don't do that to yourself.


Thank you for replying. At first I was taking it but then I started to date other people and go on dates, as was he. It does suck because he became so vulnerable to me and then he like closed off and ended things. So got me it was like —. So I was all sad until I began dating others. The guy I'm talking to is actually a Taurus, we've been talking everyday and went on 2 dates so far. But yeah, it is sad to see how ego has a huge dynamic. He does have a huge ego and I call him out on that all the time. Lol
I'm glad that you are dating someone else now, Scorps are not for everybody, I do know that. They mostly tend to show destructive dynamics in relationships :/ and a huge ego is part of it.


I totally agree with you. I think our ego is our downfall. But we can't help it. Gotta listen to our ego.
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I find it understandable to listen to ego. But sometimes it can be the downfall. It's the same with me, I'm very prideful (which may be my Aries placements) but my Pisces/cancer placements helps me keep it on check. I'm able to swallow my pride and quickly realize when I'm at fault.