@SpreadLies
9 Years
Scorpios can be compatible for friends with benefits due to their passion and honesty. However, their intense emotions may lead to complications. Clear communication about expectations is essential to maintain a healthy arrangement with a Scorpio involved.
Nope.
I expect the guy to be very courteous. That's all I ask for.
Scorpio women
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
Guys would probably be more open to the idea of a fwb than a Scorpio female would, in all honesty. I know two Scorpios who are currently in a fwb thing with more than two other women. The other one has the same but with six other women. No surprise there.
What about you he women
No go
DTF?
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?
Are they not dtf
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?Are they not dtf
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I'm DTF ?? I'd think others are as long as you're attractive ??♀️
Posted by LeoSunScorpioMoon
Guys would probably be more open to the idea of a fwb than a Scorpio female would, in all honesty. I know two Scorpios who are currently in a fwb thing with more than two other women. The other one has the same but with six other women. No surprise there.What about you he women
No go
I don't understand the question.
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My bad.. what about the women
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shit
Already do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?Are they not dtf
I'm DTF ?? I'd think others are as long as you're attractive ??♀️
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I should have no problem then.
I'll just let her know I'm not ready for anything serious when it comes up
Posted by Ellygant
I've done it before. But I still want fun. I don't take well to being asked impolitely or treated like meat.Also get bored after a month or so. Because after a while, purely physical chemistry feels pretty hollow. Fun for a short fling and memories. But trying to make it last more than a few weeks seems silly. That's what relationships are for.
I can't be true friends with benefits tho. Because if the person is a good person, who I connect with on a real friendship level where I feel comfortable and like equals and we are having regular great sex, then either I will bolt (if ultimately I feel they'd be an unreliable partner) or want a relationship (if I think they might feel the same.)
Word
I'll just keep it light & have fun
I have a feeling she'll want more though
I think we can connect. She's just not exactly what I want
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?Are they not dtf
I'm DTF ?? I'd think others are as long as you're attractive ??♀️
I should have no problem then.
I'll just let her know I'm not ready for anything serious when it comes up
Lmao.
Waiting till then is too late.
Silly.
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Posted by SpreadLies
WordI'll just keep it light & have fun
I have a feeling she'll want more though
I think we can connect. She's just not exactly what I want
What's your sign?
No
I could be wrong but I feel most Scorpio women would not go for this kind of arrangement?
I am thinking of all the Scorp women here at Dxp, and how many of them would be into the Fwb thing ?
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Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
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U trying to sabotage me crab
Posted by SpreadLies
WordI'll just keep it light & have fun
I have a feeling she'll want more though
I think we can connect. She's just not exactly what I want
What's your sign?
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Virgo
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?Are they not dtf
I'm DTF ?? I'd think others are as long as you're attractive ??♀️
I should have no problem then.
I'll just let her know I'm not ready for anything serious when it comes up
Lmao.
Waiting till then is too late.
Silly.
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A Scorpio will feel like that's a bait and switch. Even if it wasn't intended to be.
Drama often ensues. We are already prone to looking for problems when we are in an unstable situation. Last thing you'd wanna do is give reason.
Your best bet would be from the jump bluntly saying you have no interest in a relationship with her, feel there's chemistry and would like to enjoy each other for a permanently short time.
Either she tells you to fuck off. Or she's in the same place and says sure. Just depends on what's going on in her life really.
That's been said to me twice. One person I told to fuck off. The other person I had a great winter romance with. Just depends.
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No way I'm telling her outright I want nothing serious
Already tried that b4 & the girl didn't take it well
If she asks I'll tell
Posted by Whorpio
DTF?Are they not dtf
I'm DTF ?? I'd think others are as long as you're attractive ??♀️
I should have no problem then.
I'll just let her know I'm not ready for anything serious when it comes up
Lmao.
Waiting till then is too late.
Silly.
?
A Scorpio will feel like that's a bait and switch. Even if it wasn't intended to be.
Drama often ensues. We are already prone to looking for problems when we are in an unstable situation. Last thing you'd wanna do is give reason.
Your best bet would be from the jump bluntly saying you have no interest in a relationship with her, feel there's chemistry and would like to enjoy each other for a permanently short time.
Either she tells you to fuck off. Or she's in the same place and says sure. Just depends on what's going on in her life really.
That's been said to me twice. One person I told to fuck off. The other person I had a great winter romance with. Just depends.
No way I'm telling her outright I want nothing serious
Already tried that b4 & the girl didn't take it well
If she asks I'll tell
There's less complicated ways to go about things. Worst case, getting rejected by a seething female now will likely save you headaches down the road. At best she's down and turned on by your upfront honesty. Not all women are the same.
It's your gamble tho.
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Im just going to have fun
Tell jokes, go out, & whatever happens happens.
If it's sex fine, if not whatever
Not really stressing
If she comes with drama I'll cut her off instantly
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
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Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
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/dead
I can't with you sometimes CC. So delightfully evil.
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I don't get it. What do Taurus do that prevent cling?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
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...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
okay. i dont want to confuse you, i really don't know much about scorpio women but for a fwb you're making this very serious
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I guess...
Just like going in with a strategy
Not full blast emotion and dreams about what could be
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
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I'll let u answer ur own question
Posted by lesenfantterribles
i am 100% down w/ a FWB situation, always & forever. it just has to be w/ open & direct communication.i just mentioned in another thread the other day that FWB is ideal, at this point in my life. like a best friend who can fuck other people, sounds perf
?
Thanks for sliding in with the save
I know I can make it work
Just wanted to take Scorpio consensus
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
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I would like to see your answer
Posted by lesenfantterribles
i am 100% down w/ a FWB situation, always & forever. it just has to be w/ open & direct communication.i just mentioned in another thread the other day that FWB is ideal, at this point in my life. like a best friend who can fuck other people, sounds perf
?
Thanks for sliding in with the save
I know I can make it work
Just wanted to take Scorpio consensus
? it can def work! but i also have chart placements that make me desire this kind of relationship.
i've had FWB's that worked well & have been in open/poly-ish relationships. if you have any questions or need advice, i am happy to help ?
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For sure ☺️
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
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It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
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Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
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Not sure. Any sign can be funny
Posted by Ellygant
If you're a Virgo tho, do watch out.Every commitment phobic Virgo I've known, male and female, settled down and got married from what started as a light and casual fwb.
I mean, only after like five or so years of drama and back and forth, on/off bullshit. But in my observation that's the dynamic that ends up accidentally grounding y'all.
Virgos are a bit like caps in that aspect. Fall in love by kidding yourselves. Prepare a bunch, then have the universe blow those well formulated plans to the wind. It's kinda cute and romantic. In a weird albeit seemingly dysfunctional way.
Cuffing season is around the corner too.
Should be good
Sagg stellium
Air makes a whole lot of difference
My chart is mainly fixed
I laugh a lot and love to have fun, but sexually i am a one woman man and anything other than that doesn't interest me
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
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I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
ya i gather a 7th houser wouldnt be into that at all 🙂
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Hahaha, you could say that Miss 😛
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
What's offensive and objectification to you is a fun sweet and healing moment in time to others though.
No one has ever wanted me for just sex or used me for just sex that the same couldn't be said of me using them as well.
More than one way to skin a cat and all that.
Loyalty and faithfulness are up to the people engaging with each other as well, not the opinions of others.
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.....but i was talking for myself, not you or others
That is all we can do really
🙂
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
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So I guess you think I'm casually going to ask her for sex like I'm asking to borrow a piece of gum

Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
So I guess you think I'm casually going to ask her for sex like I'm asking to borrow a piece of gum
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I am not guessing or summising anything .... I don't know you. It does happen though......maybe that isn't your style ?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
So I guess you think I'm casually going to ask her for sex like I'm asking to borrow a piece of gum
I am not guessing or summising anything .... I don't know you. It does happen though......maybe that isn't your style ?
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You take yourself too serious.
I guess that's the life of the fixed.
Hope ur relationships aren't as boring
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
So I guess you think I'm casually going to ask her for sex like I'm asking to borrow a piece of gum
I am not guessing or summising anything .... I don't know you. It does happen though......maybe that isn't your style ?
You take yourself too serious.
I guess that's the life of the fixed.
Hope ur relationships aren't as boring
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Yes.......i was with a Virgo
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Some will go for it but you have to take them on nice dates and shitAlready do this anyway
This should be light work then?
Won't give her the chance to sting & cling
Be something she doesn't like
A Narc. Self centered
But be a man. Decisive. That'll make her want you
U trying to sabotage me crab
well if you don't want her to cling on, be like a taurus man
Taurus? So just sit there & look stupidly
Im as mutable as it gets
I know she'll cling
I think like air
I act like fire
Feel like earth
...so why are you asking about casual sex with a fixed water sign ?
I'll let u answer ur own question
I would like to see your answer
It's not all about sex
Just fun
Trying to get some insight
Okay
Do you think Scorpio women are fun, generally speaking. .?
i am a scorp woman (scorp/pluto dominant) & consider myself fun
I'm Pluto and Scorpio dominant as well but am more along your thinking than star's.
Air in a chart matters a lot tho. Adds a bit of a thirst for adventure and experimentation that other. Air is second in my chart behind water cause of my strong house placements.
Scorpio dominants don't have as much or as strong air at all and interpret as unstable or dangerous. Nether is better. Just different.
I have a bursting 7th house.....gives my chart a very airy feel, but still i wouldn't want to be with a guy that just wanted me for sex or was going to be unfaithful or had the nerve to ask me for casual sex lol
What's offensive and objectification to you is a fun sweet and healing moment in time to others though.
No one has ever wanted me for just sex or used me for just sex that the same couldn't be said of me using them as well.
More than one way to skin a cat and all that.
Loyalty and faithfulness are up to the people engaging with each other as well, not the opinions of others.
.....but i was talking for myself, not you or others
That is all we can do really
🙂
I suppose. You just always have a way of phrasing your statements as definitive. Maybe it's the Taurus moon way of expressing.
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Yes could be
Stubborn as hell
🙂
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