
Matthias
@Libra_void
8 YearsLibra
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Posted by SmeWmanWhy tho, he really helped me up from a bad life and opened my eyes. And did too with him....😨😩
Just throw him in the bin

Posted by Libra_voidFORGOT TO MENTION. We both were in abusive families. We emotionally supported eachother and opened our eyes. It's been going to the point of no return.
Firstly, hello DXPNET
Secondly, owch please help 😌😧
So, I've been in a pretty stormy yet fun 4 years with my Scorpio man ( dominant in Sagittarius ). We had breakups, makeups, I was silly, he was himself. Our journey was him lowering his walls for me, showing me everything you can possibly imagine ( and can't 😝 ), living it ALL in our love distance relationship. I was clingy and unconsciously manipulative ( a bit of guiltripping i didn't realize about ,he said and I admitted my mistake). He loves me very much, more than I can count, infinity isn't enough. I also love him enormously. He tho is afraid of commitment, afraid I'm trying to strangle him with my paws and lock him away from people. Why is that? Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends. I do understand it tho! I mean... It's an urge. And I am and was a paranoid bean 😳. He told me that "it is what made me pull back". Ack, me and the fear of losing my beloved ( although he's not mine ? Ehm. Help). He's 20 and I'm 19. We just broke up mutually to heal. But man oh man, my man gave me an emotional cover and lesson AND reassurance he loves me more than anybody could, that nobody is like I am, that I'm basically constantly in luck around him. Trying not to hurt me, are we?😢 I shouldn't doubt him. I'm probably an ass. But he said it's a timeless break. No coming back for now.
( Short story: I cheated on him once. It was FATAL but he did forgive me even tho his pain is gnawing at him. So I'm glad we took distance. I am eternally sorry... Eternally. )
Soooo... I'm still... Going to eventually heal and start a whole new life and hopefully start a new love life by his side? I'm not a dummy for believing in life after death? Am I doing it right to try and throw my paranoia away and be a strong, sensible yet trustworthy boy? ... I really wish he'd feel safe, loved and free around me. Feel like him his home.
I don't want to go back into a toxic situation like before...! I really want him back but totally in a different new life as if... Some fellow scorp can guide me through this separation please? Thank you a million! 😭😢😖
Btw he did talk about future with me countless times... Pillar of Safety?

Posted by Neno21st decan Libra sun, leo rising, moon Aquarius, libra Venus, Leo Mars, dark Lilith Scorpio, dominant in libra
♐ placements make cheaters,nothing new
What are all his placements and what are yours?

Posted by Neno2Right we both have Pluto in Sagittarius
♐ placements make cheaters,nothing new
What are all his placements and what are yours?


Posted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.

Posted by LibraMudraBut we both kind of blew off our covers like idiots with cheating only once. But we sincerely love eachother actually very much. He is a really wonderful guy. He is really insecure and guilty... I just dream about him to commititng one day... He's really unpredictable... I hope you actually read my post seriously
I was with a Scorp that has aqua moon and is sag dominate.
I also have an aqua moon. He accused me of cheating when I didn't and then went and cheated on me.
We did it painfully for 5 years and ended up with a kid.
I'll tell you this....
You enjoy that space lol
Infact...
Make it forever

Posted by Libra_voidSure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get backPosted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
No?click to expand

Posted by pinkbird03Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.Posted by Libra_voidSure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get backPosted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
No?click to expand

Posted by lesenfantterriblesHe felt super into teasing and flirting with everyone. And probably go down to f. But his trust faded a lot since I didn't trust that he truly loves me.Posted by Libra_voidplease elaborate on this. what do you mean he goes for sexual intimacy with his friends?
Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends.click to expand

Posted by Libra_voidWell now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.Posted by pinkbird03Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.Posted by Libra_voidSure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get backPosted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
No?
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Posted by pinkbird03Good point sis!!! Agh, at least someone understands! 🙏😭😌😆Posted by Libra_voidWell now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.Posted by pinkbird03Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.Posted by Libra_voidSure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get backPosted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
No?
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Posted by lesenfantterriblesSorry to say I'm not taking Orders. He invited me. 📨 I think you read too fastPosted by Libra_voiddo not proceed with that plan
We'll move in together this summer. I hope things will balance out then
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Posted by Libra_voidLol good luck!Posted by pinkbird03Good point sis!!! Agh, at least someone understands! 🙏😭😌😆Posted by Libra_voidWell now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.Posted by pinkbird03Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.Posted by Libra_voidSure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get backPosted by pinkbird03I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
No?
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Posted by nikkistarLove is soooo easily altered and used in wrong contexts, it's really hard to find truthful and loyal love! 😆 also, awh, reminds me of him a bit!
I remember being in my teens to early 20's and thinking love would never happen again. Boy was I naive.

Posted by sierra_Why am I agreeing xD now I can't get it out of my head
that sounds like a great country song

Posted by lesenfantterriblesPosted by Libra_void👍🏽 have fun w/ emotional instability & mistrust.Posted by lesenfantterriblesSorry to say I'm not taking Orders. He invited me. 📨 I think you read too fastPosted by Libra_voiddo not proceed with that plan
We'll move in together this summer. I hope things will balance out then
also lmao @ “he invited me”
i hope this is a troll thread.click to expand
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Secondly, owch please help 😌😧
So, I've been in a pretty stormy yet fun 4 years with my Scorpio man ( dominant in Sagittarius ). We had breakups, makeups, I was silly, he was himself. Our journey was him lowering his walls for me, showing me everything you can possibly imagine ( and can't 😝 ), living it ALL in our love distance relationship. I was clingy and unconsciously manipulative ( a bit of guiltripping i didn't realize about ,he said and I admitted my mistake). He loves me very much, more than I can count, infinity isn't enough. I also love him enormously. He tho is afraid of commitment, afraid I'm trying to strangle him with my paws and lock him away from people. Why is that? Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends. I do understand it tho! I mean... It's an urge. And I am and was a paranoid bean 😳. He told me that "it is what made me pull back". Ack, me and the fear of losing my beloved ( although he's not mine ? Ehm. Help). He's 20 and I'm 19. We just broke up mutually to heal. But man oh man, my man gave me an emotional cover and lesson AND reassurance he loves me more than anybody could, that nobody is like I am, that I'm basically constantly in luck around him. Trying not to hurt me, are we?😢 I shouldn't doubt him. I'm probably an ass. But he said it's a timeless break. No coming back for now.
( Short story: I cheated on him once. It was FATAL but he did forgive me even tho his pain is gnawing at him. So I'm glad we took distance. I am eternally sorry... Eternally. )
Soooo... I'm still... Going to eventually heal and start a whole new life and hopefully start a new love life by his side? I'm not a dummy for believing in life after death? Am I doing it right to try and throw my paranoia away and be a strong, sensible yet trustworthy boy? ... I really wish he'd feel safe, loved and free around me. Feel like him his home.
I don't want to go back into a toxic situation like before...! I really want him back but totally in a different new life as if... Some fellow scorp can guide me through this separation please? Thank you a million! 😭😢😖
Btw he did talk about future with me countless times... Pillar of Safety?