Oh man, my man...

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Matthias
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Firstly, hello DXPNET

Secondly, owch please help 😌😧

So, I've been in a pretty stormy yet fun 4 years with my Scorpio man ( dominant in Sagittarius ). We had breakups, makeups, I was silly, he was himself. Our journey was him lowering his walls for me, showing me everything you can possibly imagine ( and can't 😝 ), living it ALL in our love distance relationship. I was clingy and unconsciously manipulative ( a bit of guiltripping i didn't realize about ,he said and I admitted my mistake). He loves me very much, more than I can count, infinity isn't enough. I also love him enormously. He tho is afraid of commitment, afraid I'm trying to strangle him with my paws and lock him away from people. Why is that? Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends. I do understand it tho! I mean... It's an urge. And I am and was a paranoid bean 😳. He told me that "it is what made me pull back". Ack, me and the fear of losing my beloved ( although he's not mine ? Ehm. Help). He's 20 and I'm 19. We just broke up mutually to heal. But man oh man, my man gave me an emotional cover and lesson AND reassurance he loves me more than anybody could, that nobody is like I am, that I'm basically constantly in luck around him. Trying not to hurt me, are we?😢 I shouldn't doubt him. I'm probably an ass. But he said it's a timeless break. No coming back for now.

( Short story: I cheated on him once. It was FATAL but he did forgive me even tho his pain is gnawing at him. So I'm glad we took distance. I am eternally sorry... Eternally. )

Soooo... I'm still... Going to eventually heal and start a whole new life and hopefully start a new love life by his side? I'm not a dummy for believing in life after death? Am I doing it right to try and throw my paranoia away and be a strong, sensible yet trustworthy boy? ... I really wish he'd feel safe, loved and free around me. Feel like him his home.

I don't want to go back into a toxic situation like before...! I really want him back but totally in a different new life as if... Some fellow scorp can guide me through this separation please? Thank you a million! 😭😢😖

Btw he did talk about future with me countless times... Pillar of Safety?
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Matthias
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8 YearsLibra

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Firstly, hello DXPNET

Secondly, owch please help 😌😧

So, I've been in a pretty stormy yet fun 4 years with my Scorpio man ( dominant in Sagittarius ). We had breakups, makeups, I was silly, he was himself. Our journey was him lowering his walls for me, showing me everything you can possibly imagine ( and can't 😝 ), living it ALL in our love distance relationship. I was clingy and unconsciously manipulative ( a bit of guiltripping i didn't realize about ,he said and I admitted my mistake). He loves me very much, more than I can count, infinity isn't enough. I also love him enormously. He tho is afraid of commitment, afraid I'm trying to strangle him with my paws and lock him away from people. Why is that? Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends. I do understand it tho! I mean... It's an urge. And I am and was a paranoid bean 😳. He told me that "it is what made me pull back". Ack, me and the fear of losing my beloved ( although he's not mine ? Ehm. Help). He's 20 and I'm 19. We just broke up mutually to heal. But man oh man, my man gave me an emotional cover and lesson AND reassurance he loves me more than anybody could, that nobody is like I am, that I'm basically constantly in luck around him. Trying not to hurt me, are we?😢 I shouldn't doubt him. I'm probably an ass. But he said it's a timeless break. No coming back for now.

( Short story: I cheated on him once. It was FATAL but he did forgive me even tho his pain is gnawing at him. So I'm glad we took distance. I am eternally sorry... Eternally. )

Soooo... I'm still... Going to eventually heal and start a whole new life and hopefully start a new love life by his side? I'm not a dummy for believing in life after death? Am I doing it right to try and throw my paranoia away and be a strong, sensible yet trustworthy boy? ... I really wish he'd feel safe, loved and free around me. Feel like him his home.

I don't want to go back into a toxic situation like before...! I really want him back but totally in a different new life as if... Some fellow scorp can guide me through this separation please? Thank you a million! 😭😢😖

Btw he did talk about future with me countless times... Pillar of Safety?


FORGOT TO MENTION. We both were in abusive families. We emotionally supported eachother and opened our eyes. It's been going to the point of no return.
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Matthias
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Posted by Neno2
♐ placements make cheaters,nothing new

What are all his placements and what are yours?
1st decan Libra sun, leo rising, moon Aquarius, libra Venus, Leo Mars, dark Lilith Scorpio, dominant in libra

He's Sun Scorpio 2nd decan, Libra rising, Sagittarius moon, dominant in Sagittarius, dark Lilith in Libra ( I don't remember the rest)

I really want back but I'm doing tough work not looking in social media. Trying to grab back life... Meh. Loving this insecure Scorpio to death but living anyway...
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Matthias
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Posted by LibraMudra
I was with a Scorp that has aqua moon and is sag dominate.

I also have an aqua moon. He accused me of cheating when I didn't and then went and cheated on me.

We did it painfully for 5 years and ended up with a kid.







I'll tell you this....

You enjoy that space lol



Infact...

Make it forever
But we both kind of blew off our covers like idiots with cheating only once. But we sincerely love eachother actually very much. He is a really wonderful guy. He is really insecure and guilty... I just dream about him to commititng one day... He's really unpredictable... I hope you actually read my post seriously
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Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.

No?
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Sure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get back
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Matthias
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Posted by pinkbird03
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.

No?
Sure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get back
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Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.
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Matthias
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Well 😫 I get easily hurt if he goes for sexual intimacy with his school friends.
please elaborate on this. what do you mean he goes for sexual intimacy with his friends?
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He felt super into teasing and flirting with everyone. And probably go down to f. But his trust faded a lot since I didn't trust that he truly loves me.

Aka I was clingy. And since this thing is really new, I really suspect it's a phase because both of us lack physical contact 100% ( I'm not kidding. Not even a hand shake. )

But hey, our mistake. We're breathing. We'll move in together this summer. I hope things will balance out then... And that he'll clear his sight
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Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.

No?
Sure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get back
Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.

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Well now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.
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Matthias
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Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.

No?
Sure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get back
Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.


Well now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.
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Good point sis!!! Agh, at least someone understands! 🙏😭😌😆

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Posted by pinkbird03
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Posted by pinkbird03
Posted by Libra_void
Posted by pinkbird03
Once cheating is involved in a relationship, the relationship is doomed. Soooo you can hold on as long as you like, but nothing will change until you both decide to move on.
I cheated waaay back. Trust me I learnt my lesson. I just think he needs time to breathe. And I need to become my confident self.

No?
Sure both of those things would help! But don’t you think the root of your issues is trust. From my experience, once the trust is gone it’s very hard to get back
Well, talk about Scorpio and trust. Hand and glove! It's very hard to get back, but not impossible ❤️. I guess willpower and truth are the ways! I'm the type to go for miles, I'm ready. Even for disappointments. Real life :3 somehow your post cheered me.


Well now that I think about it! I cheated on a Scorpio guy when I was about your age. I hid it from him. He cared but never said anything!! I didn’t know until the day I actually broke up with him. Sooo perhaps he won’t leave if he truly loves you.
Good point sis!!! Agh, at least someone understands! 🙏😭😌😆

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Lol good luck!
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Matthias
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We'll move in together this summer. I hope things will balance out then


do not proceed with that plan


Sorry to say I'm not taking Orders. He invited me. 📨 I think you read too fast
👍🏽 have fun w/ emotional instability & mistrust.

also lmao @ “he invited me”

i hope this is a troll thread.
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Sure you're one blind Scorpio...