OMG the moodiness

I've been dating a Scorpio sun &moon, Virgo rising. I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon and Libra rising for the last 3 months. We spent the whole time one the phone and in person for hours. I really feel connected to him but he went on a date with someone (pre planned out of town guest) right after we had sex for the first time. I was livid. He apologized profusely but then I sent this accusatory text of them hooking up after me. I really believe he didn't because his reaction to my accusation was so offended. I felt he was sincere and accepted his apology. So in return, I apologized for my accusation. He is LORDING this over me. I asked him if he was upset he said not, he's hurt. "when I care about someone, it matters how they think of me" Now he doesn't call or text.
I sent him some long winded text about the ideal relationship and how it's not being offered so I'm not going to bother him.
As Scorpios, what's your perspective?

Posted by Impulsv
Well she already broke up with him. Does it matter now?

Now you know that was just foreplay..............

Posted by livictori
I've been dating a Scorpio sun &moon, Virgo rising. I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon and Libra rising for the last 3 months. We spent the whole time one the phone and in person for hours. I really feel connected to him but he went on a date with someone (pre planned out of town guest) right after we had sex for the first time. I was livid. He apologized profusely but then I sent this accusatory text of them hooking up after me. I really believe he didn't because his reaction to my accusation was so offended. I felt he was sincere and accepted his apology. So in return, I apologized for my accusation. He is LORDING this over me. I asked him if he was upset he said not, he's hurt. "when I care about someone, it matters how they think of me" Now he doesn't call or text.
I sent him some long winded text about the ideal relationship and how it's not being offered so I'm not going to bother him.
As Scorpios, what's your perspective?

Don't let the door hit you in the ass on your way out. See ya!

Just leave it let him think about it

He knows he did wrong end of.

Scorpio female with a scorp brother and father lol

They know when they have done wrong they just try and hide it

And that's where I messed up. He apologized profusely. By phone, by text and even asked to meet in person. I literally told him I didn't know what to think. THEN my dumbass thought of the logistics to the scenero. My obsessive dark suspicious side went crazy. That's when I accused him of in his words "being a piece of shit". I regretted it as soon as I heard his reaction. I should have never sent that text. He thanked me for the apology. My final text was because I wanted to remind him of the MANY conversations we had about our ideal relationships and my fear of being naive. I admitted to being jealous and afraid.
I guess he needs space to evaluate whether the roller coaster is worth riding

Who shares their family and home with a side chick for three months before having sex?

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by Impulsv
Well she already broke up with him. Does it matter now?

Now you know that was just foreplay..............

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Posted by Montgomery

Posted by LunarMaiden

Posted by Impulsv
Well she already broke up with him. Does it matter now?

Now you know that was just foreplay..............

😄

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Not sure about the sex part but maybe? I sent him a video of a song and He called me. Invited me over. He wanted to talk about it A LOT more than I did. I had no clue how hurt he was. He sought out a lot of advice from others. This is very "unscorpio like" He sound like wounded him and I allowed him to vent.
He said he is not sure if he can be with me because of how much I hurt him. We fell asleep in each others arms on the couch from talking.

Life is too short to deal with moody, broody scorp dudes. He's sounds like and unevolved baby. Let him go. Find a guy with a bigger dick and more maturity. Stop letting temporary feels make permanent decisions for you, too. Been there, done that. You always miss out.

Chuck this up as a loss. And what ever you do: dont cry over a scorp. Trust n believe he's NOT crying over you.

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Im so jealous of fire moons. 😢 and you got leo too

*pouts*

Posted by seraph

Posted by livictori
I've been dating a Scorpio sun &moon, Virgo rising. I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon and Libra rising for the last 3 months.

What were you before that?

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Posted by Reincarnation
You will attract him more if you're sweeter than honey.

Act really sad that he went on a date. Instead of being offended, he will cater to you endlessly to apologize with affection and sex.

HAHHAHAHHA!!

🙂 Jesssssssssssssss

Posted by livictori
I've been dating a Scorpio sun &moon, Virgo rising. I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon and Libra rising for the last 3 months. We spent the whole time one the phone and in person for hours. I really feel connected to him but he went on a date with someone (pre planned out of town guest) right after we had sex for the first time. I was livid. He apologized profusely but then I sent this accusatory text of them hooking up after me. I really believe 'he didnt because his reaction to my accusation was so offended. I felt he was sincere and accepted his apology. So in return, I apologized for my accusation. He is LORDING this over me. I asked him if he was upset he said not, he's hurt. "when I care about someone, it matters how they think of me" Now he doesn't call or text.
I sent him some long winded text about the ideal relationship and how it's not being offered so I'm not going to bother him.
As Scorpios, what's your perspective?

Why are you tolerating him?

A blameless man even accused is not offended.

That is his Defense Mechanism - Scorpio males if not guilty with that accusations will remain smiling in front

of you.

Stay Strong and let that @assholes go.

Posted by BlackNova

Posted by livictori
I'm a Pisces sun, Leo moon and Libra rising for the last 3 months.

Mmm, cool, what were you before then?
I'm not sure you can just change your signs and planets when ever you want though.

Can someone check into this? I'd like to consider some changes myself

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I was in LALALAND!
I had feet before I became a mermaid, holding scales with a lions head. the transition wasn't easy lol