perfect ?

i was talking to a libra chick(yeah i know my situation is pretty bad these days)
just chatting about how many guys she dated,and could not find any one who was good for her at the end.so now she will wait for mr.right and all that jazz.
i asked what kind of guy she prefered,and she went on with a whole list of things,which i won't even bother about writing here.she said,if she could find all that in a guy,it would be the perfect guy.

i was thinking,well is there such guy at all?
or for that matter,even a perfect gal.

i personally think such a belief is silly,for i think everybody has some or the other flaw.what you rate as flaw might also be subjective.isn't it?

so many variables.

but did anyone of you ever came across any man/woman who came the nearest to this image of a perfect guy/gal?
what was your experience with them?

I think seeing values and ideals that would encompass the "perfect partner" or even finding them is setting an unachievable goal post for that person.

As one persons perception of perfection is very different from the next person.

We all have ideals and certain traits which we either find attractive or repulsive but to specifically have a defined set of criteria is setting oneself up for disappointment and placing an extreme amount of pressure on anyone you plan on dating.

Setting ideals which cannot be met lend an entirely new dimension to an already difficult scene - the dating game!

i'm with deivil 100% .

"His only flaw was that he was a Leo. Otherwise he was peeerrrrrfeeeeecccct."

for a moment i thought i was reading bling's post.haahaa

roxi,i am sorry to hear that honey.😢

btw what everyone said,is more or less the same thing i said,but heck,that libra chick is on her own trip.understandable.yeah whatever.

I had a libra girlfriend. She was the same way. She had this list of perfections a man must have in order for him to be Mr. Right. She never did find him. But the worst part is I had to sit on the phone with her for hours and listen to her cry about the fact that she can't find a man and she will be single forever and her biological clock...blah..blahh

WHATEVER!!!!!

I sorry to hear that, too, Roxi.

*hugs*

They are a dillusional bunch at the best of times..why ask her such a question to delve into the stupid mind..god i can't stand them

Libras are great when your in the mood for a debate, though. She and I would go on for hours about subjects we were passionate about. She made me think alot and gave me different ways to view a subject I thought I was black or white about.

libras give off this vibe of fakeness,which i don't like.

Sounds like the kind of 'friend' I try to avoid, notso.

Plus, I find pefect ppl boring.

haahaa
i think only jon bon jovi does it for you,right?😛

Yes they are fake!..

He is too perfect for my imperfections *pouts*

I'm so imperfect that it's easy for a man I love to feel he is perfect

awww!!!

read>bullshit😛

*gags*

Maybe that was why I fell for a perfect virgo

maybe thats why you fell apart too,because his perfections.

*pockets the star to put on show*✨
😛

same to you sagi,have a nice time🙂

I am the perfect legend.

I've always been told I must've been around in the time of Lincoln. I feel in unison with him.
Many times I feel like a spirit.

I've always been told I must've been around in the time of Lincoln. I feel in unison with him.
Many times I feel like a spirit.

ah maybe that is why you sound so illusory

I say acid. I'm not kidding.