Positive relationships

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by ariesgirl402 on Monday, August 4, 2008 and has 39 replies.

How to Cultivate and Maintain Positive Relationships

Building positive relationships involves open communication, trust, and mutual respect. Focus on shared goals, appreciation, and resolving conflicts kindly. Consistent effort and understanding help foster lasting happiness and connection in your relationships.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

I'd like to propose a discussion about positive relationships. I know it's not as exciting as the drama of things going wrong or not knowing where and how things are going. Been there and done that😉 After all set and done, i'd like to say i'm happy in my current relationship and hope it will lead to something positively permanent. Do you guys and girls want to share your happy and positive experiences and suggestions on how to keep it up.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

gosh...you can trace my drama back about 6 months or so by now🙂 it's not perfect of course but it's really good sometimes. the best thing is that when he's not around i miss him and he says he misses me too🙂 you know the typical aries woman/scorp man relationship after we're too tired to fight it🙂

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

now you're just being ridiculous😉 i want only 2 kids. saying something nice has nothing to do with my relationship. it is about you ppl!!!!😉

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

hey, i've been through some scorp man hell myself on here😉
ok, fine, don't talk about relationships - then just say something positive...anything!!!!
plllllllllllssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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@Sea Siren
21 Years1,000+ Posts

"I'd like to propose a discussion about positive relationships. I know it's not as exciting as the drama of things going wrong or not knowing where and how things are going."

LMAO! You can say that again. My relationship is going pretty great. As far as the secret, I dunno. We just suit each other well. We're enough alike to understand each other, but different enough to provide a balance. We also have common goals in career/future plans, so that helps. And we have the same taste in music! 😉

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@ariesgirl402
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"We're enough alike to understand each other, but different enough to provide a balance. We also have common goals in career/future plans, so that helps. And we have the same taste in music" - very similar to my relationship structure. we can communicate in a nice way if there is something wrong and that's hard to find.
it's so nice to hear some positivity after all the dramas😉

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@Yum
19 Years1,000+ Posts

So instead of telling her to get on with her life you tell her to keep hoping some guy would finally call her, after they already broke up. That sounds healthy.

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@Yum
19 Years1,000+ Posts

am2 - I had this pic up for less than a week, I believe, but I'll see what I can do.

Elena - I had a pic up around a week ago. It's been done.

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@Yum
19 Years1,000+ Posts

Alright, am2, we're back to puppies(it'll take a short time to take effect though).

"Aaah...so I missed the boat then. So yumtastic...tell me...are you in a relationship..."

Yeah. Nothing incredibly serious, though.

"ou're such a quiet one...only appearing to make a few witty remarks here and there before disappearing into your cave."

I think this might be your astro-prejudice talking, as I'm an utter gobshite.🙂

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

Ferdy- unfortunately we can't control what other ppl feel or do. we have to figure out for ourselves what we can. my advice is do whatever you have to do 1st and then if he comes around then he will. if not there is nothing you can do about it. it's ok to show him that you're interested and be a little vulnerable but don't be all super emotional about it.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

that's the biggest mistake that ppl do break up when it gets a little hard. how did he break it off? what did he say? what was the reason?

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@Yum
19 Years1,000+ Posts

This is DXP, Emgem, the two most salient motifs here are threadjacking and bad relationships. What did you think was gonna happen?

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

true and we all have the same problems and issues and questions😉 you pll don't want positive then let's talk about same old problems!!!!

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

virgogotme- "I believe a successful & positive relationship comes when two mature & confident people in the relationship can work through the negative, and erase it from their relationship" - totally right and essential but how many couples do really have that ability or even realize that?

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

is he really is big or he just thinks that he is lmao
usually, those kind of guys are not as big as they think. does he make you tell him how big he is during sex? lmao

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

i know🙂 i'm still getting used to it. it's been going on for more than 6 months now. kind of strange and good at the same time.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

but it's a good kind of hard work if it's a good relationship at the end. i'm glad to hear that some ppl have a good thing going. we all need more of that!!!!

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

i was single for over 4 years with some bad relationships here and there before my current bf came along. good things are worth waiting for.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

you're too young to give up hope😉 guys at such young age are usually not a serious bf material unless he's really serious and smart and knows what's important in life.

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

stop the meat talk ppl!!! it's supposed to be a happy positive tread!!!!!!!!!!!!! the only meat we're allowed to talk is men!!!!!

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@ariesgirl402
18 Years1,000+ Posts

oh, you're so jaded😉 they can you laugh and that pust you in a sexy mood and then their meat comes in handy...so the brain is the beginning of sex🙂