Question for all you Scorpios out there..

I have a quick question for everyone.. this can be for anyone with their sun in Scorpio or anyone with Scorpio influenced in their chart...

Anyone feel like they need drama/problems in their life to keep it interesting? This could be in relationships or just life in general.. I'm just curious because I've heard that Scorpios often feel the need to have drama in their relationships just so they don't get bored.. My moon & venus are both in Scorpio by the way...

No I have a taurus moon so that makes me a bit lazy in drama and actually feels unneeded 90% of the time.I like the good things in life and that includes the (seemingly)dull stuff.

I really dont like drama in my life. It makes it far from worst.

VirgoGirl98- I am a Scorpio woman - and I absolutely HATE drama in my life - I have no time for it. In relationships - I don't like it. It either is or it isn't. I don't like confrontations and I will back off in a heart beat from someone who wants drama.

I think Scorpio is a very misunderstood sign - because we are so secretive and silent sometimes. Like Virgo in many aspects we like to analyze things - and we must have our space in which to do so. We love deeply and are very loyal to the person that we love. We, are not controlling depsite what you read. At least I'm not. We try to keep things cool in a sense and can be detached from emotions and feelings at times. We don't like to reveal too much of ourselves for fear of rejection.

Once you have caught the attention of a Scorpio - we will show our interest. But until then you will meet a stone wall.

Ascending here if that counts. Does chaos work fine? Cuz an evening gone chaotically wrong is awesome! The more it deviates from the plan in a chaotic way the better...

No not drama but watching someone else wallow in it sure is fun and they think you care lol

I have a chart full of scorpio, no I don't like drama. I like to keep things simple.

I'm a Libra Sun with a Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Ascendant and Jupiter in Scorpio (also have Pallas in Scorpio if anybody is interested in asteroids).

Do I need drama/problems in my life to keep it interesting because of my Scorpio aspects? Most of the time - yes. This is also because I have Mars, Neptune and Uranus in Sagittarius, sign of the explorer. If life becomes dull, boring and monotonous I will search for drama and intensity, no matter what. This makes me equally liked and disliked. I just find normal people boring most of the time and just do something to shock people (Uranus in Sagittarius) such as do a shocking short horror story. I also have a heavily afflicted Scorpio Moon which doubles the intensity of the Scorpio Moon, have Pluto in the 12th house which tries to conceal rage and have hard aspects between Sun and Pluto; and Venus and Pluto. Add all this together and I end up loving intensity/drama. I hate the simple life. I like the quiet times - I like the loud times; but I'm always looking forward to some drama and intensity when things are quiet. People usually see me as a very quiet and reserved kind of guy (Scorpio ascendant) and rather charming (Sun, Mercury and Venus in Libra) until I know them well enough to reveal my real self. Most of the time, I have no control over causing drama and intensity. It's just an intrinsinc part of my personality that I have to live with.

I like it.

I have a Taurus moon as well and I hate drama in my life. I like for things to be as calm and serene as possible. When I am involved in drama I take whatever course of action is necessary to get it out of my life.

I gots aquarius for my pallas.The rest is fire signs for the mars(leo) and venus,neptune,mercury and rising in sagittarius,the only thing I think I get from the sag is the boredom but thats more taken care of through reading,hobbies and learning things in other ways lol.One other scorp in uranus and a libra pluto,the rest is all virgos.

i'm scorp with scorp rising and comedy drama is fun hya!

I've had three relatively drama free relationships with Scorps. I can only go by what I know personally and take other people at their word.

When someone says they are afraid of being hurt as an excuse for not being open and honest,I think it's thier own fault when they have problems finding love and being in a successful relationship so no thats not an all scorp thing.

LOViN THE SCORPS....... 😉 sexXxyy

hahaha na na na naaaa asa scorp im pretty bad i admit i do lyk drama in my relationshipz haha thatz probly y im n so much shyt right now... really becoz iv got that prblem wen u first meet me im bubbly outgoin dont really look like im gone b trouble but unfortunately wen im in2 sum1 im really in2 sum1 in bcum very intense n passionate n dont cum off 2 gud at all...

im wrkin on dimmin it down... hahaha jus itz hard... sooo im sorta agreein wit u aprilbebe... hahaha n yeaaa i dont answer questionz... haha very well....

im sorry 2 thatz probly y mi postz r either really laidback or really intense hahaha mayb jus an age thing i duno...

lol a virgo huh.... hahaha mayb ill try 1.... i duno if they culd handle it tho.... im a pain in the azz... but im tryin to change it hahaha

actually branh while iv got u... can i ask u a question in relation to guyz in general... coz i get told that guyz in general like to chase rather than b chased... coz itz genetically woven in2 their mindz that they are the hunterz as n the providers an thatz what they enjoy moreso the challenge than bein handed sumthihng over on a plate... tru or not tru—

hay thankz 4 that hun... im gona have to keep that in mind... hahaha but i can honestly say that men aare creatures that i will never really truely understand... so iv jus sorta optd 4 not tryin to understand but rather jus hang out n jus bein myself round all of them... hahaha i know thatz wat im suposd to b doin but sumtymz u get a bit caught up n shyt n lose urself... thankz babe!!!

To me, Scorpios whether are aware or not, seem to thrive on drama when it comes to love and relationships with others. So many times I'd read about how Scorpios wallow in self-doubt and anxiety and fear of "getting hurt" in a relationship (a favorite saying by most), and it got to a point where I'd just shake my head and roll my eyes because to me you take those chances in love or when you create a relationship with someone else, just as they are taking the same type of risk with you!!

I think if Scorpios didn't in some way thrive on drama, they wouldn't attract so much of it, and there wouldn't be so many complaints and comments, and questions and curiousities about this sign--particularly when it comes to love/relationships & sex.

Not this one baby - in relationships I am as cool as Virgo - the first hint of drama and I am outta there. I want my relationships to be calm and down to earth. I am seeing a Virgo and he is full of drama with all the moods he gets in... and when I see it coming I head for the hills to give him a chance to work it all out. My age my be a factor - I am 55 - so no don't group me in that bunch of Scorpios who thrive on BS. I don't have time. I can't tell you how many times I have backed off from his(Virgo) drama. I don't have time or energy for it. I am a quiet Scorpio who observes more than I participate. So I just turn and walk away from it. I think it's called maturity.

At least for myself if someones not direct with me,im not direct with them in that manner but it has more to do with knowing the persons interested or not.Someone who expects someone to see they are dropping "hints" when in reality they are just acting like a normal person or friend is going to have to put a little more effort into it or I'd be clueless to it or won't make it a priority to want to date that person.It has more to do with you can be attracted to someone but that doesn't mean they are attracted back more than anything else.Otherwise it doesn't mean that Im unaware of someone being afraid of rejection so I do post that due to that fact,doesn't mean it's something I do when there is a situation thats in my real life happening.Throwing around ideas by using your imagination to try to put yourself in that person and the others shoes is usually how I generally answer alot of the questions here due to the fact that I don't know them.

I dunno something like that lol,im lazy and don't like drama if it doesn't have to be there which getting bored in a relationship isn't one of them,im dramatic maybe during voting or something similiarly important but inner relationship stuff doesn't happen.

I don't know if anyone has noticed the similarities of Virgo and Scorpio - both signs don't like opening up too fast, both are cautious with their hearts, both love deeply and yes both are afraid of being hurt. Both are very private in their thoughts and lives. And there are many signs that have drama, I work with two Libra women - and geez, I can't take it sometimes. It's like something is always going on with them. And they get so hyped up and start chattering away. Drives me bonkers!!!!!

Sad, but true.

Virgogirl...Scorpios love a drama...you guys seem to be very down to earth and very pragmatic..we are too..but life is there to be lived to the fullest or not at all..go crazy..freak the hell out of everyone once in a while..otherwise it can be dull..