Qui s'aime se taquine

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Hi there, Leo friend : )

What I like about Lions:1) Their outgoing natures;
2) Their sense of humor;
3) Their warmth;
4) Their childlike playfulness;
5) Their unwillingness to back down from a fight or argument (so, their courage).

What I dislike about Lions:1) Their self-centeredness (me, me, me...it's all about me);
2) Their tendency to be overbearing, as in, too much personality;
3) Their occassional immaturity;
4) Their temper-tantrums;
5) The way they pick fights for no reason when they're cranky (argumentativeness).

The way to avoid conflict with this particular Scorpio is to not question me too much. For example, I hate it when my Leo boyfriend constantly asks me, "What are you thinking? What are you thinking?? Tell me what you're thinking!" (I'm thinking, "Back up off me, and if I wanted you to know, you would".)

Another thing you can do to avoid conflicts is to not try to dominate me. I dislike being told that I shouldn't buy a particular outfit or article of clothing, and that instead I should buy what you like. Maybe your taste sucks. lol.

Hmmm...what else? Don't constantly run over the top of me in conversations--I hate it when my Leo somehow always manages to talk my ear off for an hour about himself, when something major is going on with me. And yet, eventually, it all comes back to him. (A "similar" experience he had, or whatever.)

Don't interrupt, because when you do that, it makes me no longer care about what you're saying. I'm just ticked that you ran over the top of what I was trying to say. It invalidates what you say from that point on.

Do not display an excessive (and I mean EXCESSIVE) of arrogance to a Scorpio, because we quite enjoy knocking you off of the flimsy pedestal upon which you've placed yourself. Bragging is a no-no. Your pride will be hurt. We Scorpios admire confidence, but detest anyone who thinks they're better than us, or who shamelessly brags about their accomplishments. Be as humble as possible, without watering down the Alpha Male aura that Scorp women are attracted to (well, at least this Scorp woman is attracted to it). In other words, know that there is a difference between arrogance and confidence--and SHOW that you know the difference.

I hope this helps : )

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Dear phoenix_rising,THANKS a LOT!That's a very good analasys and realy helps me,because I have this inability to see myself through the eyes of my companions,and therefore I am much surprised when the result of the things I say and do is not the one intended in the first place.
The heading is indeed in French and describes - from my point of view-the relationship between leos and scorpios that love each other.It means "the ones that love each other tend to tease ".I think there is another way to put it in English to sound more like a saying,but right now it hasn't come to my head.
Is that the case with you two guys?
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Oh, it is *SO* the case with my Leo and I--I really like your phrase actually; I think you summed it up quite well!

And by the way, I think it is great that you care enough about improving your relationships with others to ask other people for their assessment of your character. That is very brave, and shows quite a bit of humanitarianism.

I wish you all the best with your Scorpio(s), and I hope lots of other Scorps post on here and help you out!

I am glad that I was able to help you in whatever capacity I did : )