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Being a Pisces, I am supposed to get on like a house on fire with Scorpios. However, what I found with them, is that they are manipulative manipulative manipulative! Two-faced is not the word. And they think that everyone who isn't like that is weak. Like immdediately. Like I have encountered some Scorpios that I might only have known for A FEW DAYS , like at work or something where I happened to find out their sign) and I have had then TURN on me BIG time! There was the one girl I met at a new job, and we started chatting. She was really really full of it. Really playing all the boys. She spoke to me one day, and was nice enough. I thought I was nice enough back, but I obviously didn't shove my head far enough up her ass ( as I don't do that with anyone) and she completely turned on me. It was AWFUL.
I have hated every Scorpio I have ever met - sorry!
I had a best friend of about 8 years, and at the end of the friendship she became really two-faced and manipulative and stabbed me firmly in the back several times. She really turned on me, and started to suggest I was weak and whatever else - and talked about me behind my back putting me down and its funny that she never thought I was weak when I was there to listen to her problems all the time and give her a shoulder to cry on etc etc. She always demanded I tell her EVERYTHING and if I held back anything for her ( for my own privacy) she went mad. Anyway, I was pretty hurt, but then I took a good look at the situation and I looked back and realised that she had always been manipulative. The scales fell from my eyes so to speak. Its like some people get manipulative when they are pissed off or have been hurt - but I think Scorpios are manipulative on EVERY level ALL THE TIME. Even when they are asking you ' would you like a cup of tea' it's like they have a hidden agenda. I don't trust them anymore. Its like to get on with them, or rather to aviod being termed 'weak' you have to be on your guard ALL the time. And that isn't my idea of a fun relationship on any level! It is intrinsic, and thats it. BIG BIG BIG egos. They assume that because a person is honest and honest about themselves, that they must be weak.
I had another friend ( yes another one) who thought she was so fantastic. She thought she was ultra-intelligent and she wasn't. She thought she was gorgeous and she wasn't. I'm pretty laid-back - and I don't actualy know how I ended up being friends with her ( I think I was distracted for a few seconds and she took over), and I don't feel the need to prove anything. I know I am intelligent and attractive and all the rest - but towards the end, I had this realisation that she was only frineds with me because she thought that I was going to be her "sidekick". She thought wrong. And I wasted no time in kicking her to the kerb! They need however to be put in their place BIG TIME. I've only seen one other sign match their bullbutter, and that is Leo.
I always give them too much of a chance and they just abuse it.
Other than that, they're lovely!
To Libragirl - just look at the situation from the outside, like a third party looking on, and see what you would do. If you saw someone being submissive and not standing up to themselves, wouldn;t you tell them to stand up fpr themselves? And don't be afraid to say right there and then: "That's disgusting!" If thats how you feel. I think, one thing, is they welcome honesty, and will be equally honest back, and then the issue is over.
Oh well, thats my thought on Scorpios!
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Being a Pisces, I am supposed to get on like a house on fire with Scorpios. However, what I found with them, is that they are manipulative manipulative manipulative! Two-faced is not the word. And they think that everyone who isn't like that is weak. Like immdediately. Like I have encountered some Scorpios that I might only have known for A FEW DAYS , like at work or something where I happened to find out their sign) and I have had then TURN on me BIG time! There was the one girl I met at a new job, and we started chatting. She was really really full of it. Really playing all the boys. She spoke to me one day, and was nice enough. I thought I was nice enough back, but I obviously didn't shove my head far enough up her ass ( as I don't do that with anyone) and she completely turned on me. It was AWFUL.
I have hated every Scorpio I have ever met - sorry!
I had a best friend of about 8 years, and at the end of the friendship she became really two-faced and manipulative and stabbed me firmly in the back several times. She really turned on me, and started to suggest I was weak and whatever else - and talked about me behind my back putting me down and its funny that she never thought I was weak when I was there to listen to her problems all the time and give her a shoulder to cry on etc etc. She always demanded I tell her EVERYTHING and if I held back anything for her ( for my own privacy) she went mad. Anyway, I was pretty hurt, but then I took a good look at the situation and I looked back and realised that she had always been manipulative. The scales fell from my eyes so to speak. Its like some people get manipulative when they are pissed off or have been hurt - but I think Scorpios are manipulative on EVERY level ALL THE TIME. Even when they are asking you ' would you like a cup of tea' it's like they have a hidden agenda. I don't trust them anymore. Its like to get on with them, or rather to aviod being termed 'weak' you have to be on your guard ALL the time. And that isn't my idea of a fun relationship on any level! It is intrinsic, and thats it. BIG BIG BIG egos. They assume that because a person is honest and honest about themselves, that they must be weak.
I had another friend ( yes another one) who thought she was so fantastic. She thought she was ultra-intelligent and she wasn't. She thought she was gorgeous and she wasn't. I'm pretty laid-back - and I don't actualy know how I ended up being friends with her ( I think I was distracted for a few seconds and she took over), and I don't feel the need to prove anything. I know I am intelligent and attractive and all the rest - but towards the end, I had this realisation that she was only frineds with me because she thought that I was going to be her "sidekick". She thought wrong. And I wasted no time in kicking her to the kerb! They need however to be put in their place BIG TIME. I've only seen one other sign match their bullbutter, and that is Leo.
I always give them too much of a chance and they just abuse it.
Other than that, they're lovely!
To Libragirl - just look at the situation from the outside, like a third party looking on, and see what you would do. If you saw someone being submissive and not standing up to themselves, wouldn;t you tell them to stand up fpr themselves? And don't be afraid to say right there and then: "That's disgusting!" If thats how you feel. I think, one thing, is they welcome honesty, and will be equally honest back, and then the issue is over.
Oh well, thats my thought on Scorpios!
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Actually James, the Goats win the contest for Biggest Ego of The Zodiac. 🙂

Verity, did you ever try to talk to these Scorpios who did these things you accuse them of doing and see what "their" reasons were for doing them? I'm asking because I would never do any of the above, unless I'd been burned First. (And then, yeah...it's on.) But I wouldn't suddenly "turn" on someone, especially a friend, without very, very good reason.
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Verity,

Omg, i am so the same. I am laid back, not that good looking, but not that offensive either! I have a 'sad' look some people tell me, but i am sort of angelic looking at times and i think this is what attracts scorpios. I could so relate to your story about your scorp best friend. When i was at school i made friends with this girl. Although she was fun, she periodically made fun of me, and expected me to be her unquestioning side-kick. I don't know why i hung around so much, i guess because i could see through all the bull-butter and see that she was a hurt person. Anyway, years later she decides to up and leave without telling me where she was going, and while i was a little upset and surprised, i am relieved because when i look back on it, despite the fact her father was good to me, i think i was wasting my time. The funny thing was that afterwards i found out that she had always liked the guy who adored me all through school. Ha, she couldn't have everything 😉 It was kind of ironic seeing as though i did not go out of my way to attract him and she was always the loud one!
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Libragirl,
Don't put yourself down!! I'm sure you are very good looking and you just don't know it!
The case with me is that I am good looking! Although i would never have been full of it, ( honestly) but after a long while, I realised that this girls was just jealous jealous jealous of me. Be pround of yourself, don't let anyone suffocate or control you. And if you are slagging her off, then slag her off!! People like you and me, ie nice people, hate to hurt anyones feelings or be nasty, but sometimes, you only end up turning it on yourself, hurting yourself, and letting others get away with murder. They shouldn;t be allowed, they shoudln't! Just think what they are getting away with! Loeve yourself, and don;t expect anything less than from others.

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Verity
Hey guys, I've read alot of messages on her about libras and scorpois not mixing. Unfortunately, I must agree. I just ended a scorpion relationship--I couldn't deal with the on/off personality and all the mysterious stuff. Just wanted to vent. Thanks!
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Any Libras out there who have been in a relationship with a Scorpio? If so, please render your comments. Some say its a go, some say NO NO NO. What if any good is there? Or bad? In my opinion air just whips water into a tidal wave...........
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