scorp and cancer

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Unregistered on Tuesday, October 9, 2001 and has 9 replies.

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I am a f scorpio and I was so in love with a male cancer. I never felt so drawn to a man before. He made me feel so peaceful and turned me on like nobody could. He told me he cared for me and hoped things would work out. I felt such an empathy with this person, and could talk with him for hours. After spending a week with him in england , he decided it was all wrong and sent me an email saying goodbye. I was so devestated and shocked. I could not understand how one minute he poured his heart out to me and hoped things would work out , and the next he was brushing me off. Do cancer men operate this way?

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Hi there! I'm also a Scorp F and married to a Scorp M. I don't much about many Cancers, although my son is one. He has been in a few relationships, one in high school (that took his breath away) and two as an adult. He's very reliable and trustworthy. I don't go too much for relying on these "signs" to make a match, but I do believe that everyone has good in them. Take a chance with whomever you may meet (within reason, of course). It could always be the right one.

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Hi. How is your marriage with your scorpio hubby? I met a scorpio guy recently , and I'm trying to play it a bit cool because I can tell we are both very intense people. I also don't want another heartache. I do miss my cancer guy, but he is long gone.

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@Unregistered
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Hello. Typically, what you are describing is a trait that is common in all men. They say one thing and mean another! If you felt this intense connection with him, that is good, because you then have the ability to connect intensly with others-possibly more deserving than this guy! For everyone-there is someone and if it is right-it will work out against all odds! Take Heart-your day will come!

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Yes they all say one thing ,but they know what they are doing ! I just think he was being so selfish , and I talked to him long enough to know he has a conscious and should know better anyway. Oh well , it's done and I've moved on...still have a thing for cancer men though.

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Don't give up girl ! Not ALL of us men are that way, nether are women. People in general have qurps, some good, some bad. He just wasn't the right guy and your probably better off dealing with it now rather than later. Cancers should be a good match for you, but get the right heart/head match next time.

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It's the un-evolved Cancers that may act that way, not the one's who have matured in spirit and soul. I don't want to get into Cancer or Scorp stories...I think we all need to mature and understand and appreciate , and even celebrate our differences. God bless and press on.

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All Cancer men are different. They're extremely sensitive individuals who don't always have answers to why they act the way they do. Maybe he said good-bye to you because he was afraid to talk to you about his feelings and that you wouldn't understand.