Scorp rejects sex. (Page 2)

Twirl, he is not.
I see you asked this before. I missed it.

Being a scorpio I do sympathize with you... He's confusing you... As you said you denied him first so this is sweet revenge.... If I understand this situation right he must've been a really sweet and understanding guy from the beginning right?? He has waited for this and honestly I know he must've started the fight too.... It's a very we'll planned game... He's going to make sure to get you wrapped around his little finger and get you to do what he wants... Especially when he said you should call to check on him... Classic move! Don't worry it doesn't end here... He's enjoying this immensely and will continue this for quite a long time... Be careful!!

When you asked him to wait it was just a way of sugar coating denial. Or at least that's what a scorpio will think!!... If he did actually beat you make sure you never get in touch with him again...
I don't think it'll be this easy... It doesn't work like that... If I have any idea about scorpio men I know he'll wait it out... Does he know that he managed to "awakened a raw animal attraction in me, made me ultra aware of my sexuality/womanhood, and cloaked me in intense desire/longing"?? If he does he'll use it against you this time... Another question would be.... Do you have any emotional/romantic feelings for him??

Posted by ScorpLeo
When you asked him to wait it was just a way of sugar coating denial. Or at least that's what a scorpio will think!!... If he did actually beat you make sure you never get in touch with him again...
I don't think it'll be this easy... It doesn't work like that... If I have any idea about scorpio men I know he'll wait it out... Does he know that he managed to "awakened a raw animal attraction in me, made me ultra aware of my sexuality/womanhood, and cloaked me in intense desire/longing"?? If he does he'll use it against you this time... Another question would be.... Do you have any emotional/romantic feelings for him??

Hi ScorpLeo,

Your post is a little confusing but here's a little clarity -
1. He's never "beat me." Ever.
2. There's nothing to wait for as we were intimate last week for the first time.
3. Yes, he knows how I feel about him - mentally, emotionally, and sexually (although he played coy and would say he didn't. What he wanted was for me to chase and/or jump through hoops and be more demonstrative.)
3. As of yesterday, I sent a text asking him to cut me completely off.
4. And although he initially spazzed out, I think he'll honor my request to cut me off completely. So, he won't get the chance to use "my emotions against me." Thank the Lord LOL 🙂

Posted by Reincarnation
Back when I was single, air signs would always be confused when I refused sex from them.

"What man says 'no' to sex?!" is what they would tell me.

I accepted it, but didn't necessarily understand, when he rejected me. He had been angling for it from the beginning. He used the argument, which was his fault, as an excuse and then began to back-peddle the very next day. That's when came here to find out if he really meant it or was gaming me...he was gaming me. Lots of games.

See, although I've never been rejected, I could accept it if it was logical. Not just a guy who wants me to jump through hoops.

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Sounds like you are not compatible together

Air and Water? Kind of odd

Ah an air sign. You don't get him and he doesn't get you. Move on

Not enough intensity maybe? I was with a Libra for years ~ never felt right tbh, only as friends

Very true.

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I love intensity & depth but also feel like I don't have to be excitable & on 10 for everything. But I hear you.

Holy crap on a stick! This whole thread has been a huge eye opener on how and why Air and Water don't understand each other. I'd bet that when he decided to go ahead and have sex with you that he did it with zero emotional respect for you and with a little bit of payback going on.

~makes mental note to never get involved with a Libra~

Posted by MoonArtist
Holy crap on a stick! This whole thread has been a huge eye opener on how and why Air and Water don't understand each other. I'd bet that when he decided to go ahead and have sex with you that he did it with zero emotional respect for you and with a little bit of payback going on.

~makes mental note to never get involved with a Libra~

Then don't.

BTW - Not understanding isn't bad within itself...no desire/effort to understand is. Difference.

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Posted by MoonArtist
Holy crap on a stick! This whole thread has been a huge eye opener on how and why Air and Water don't understand each other. I'd bet that when he decided to go ahead and have sex with you that he did it with zero emotional respect for you and with a little bit of payback going on.

~makes mental note to never get involved with a Libra~

Then don't.

BTW - Not understanding isn't bad within itself...no desire/effort to understand is. Difference.

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True, very true. I just see and have experienced that non water signs aren't able to get into the deeper emotional realm that is pretty much bread and butter to water signs, and that's where the problems come in, because the water sign will want/need more and not get it, while the non water sign is happy and content with how things are and not understand why the water sign is not content.

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Posted by starlover
Sounds like you are not compatible together

Air and Water? Kind of odd

Ah an air sign. You don't get him and he doesn't get you. Move on

Not enough intensity maybe? I was with a Libra for years ~ never felt right tbh, only as friends

Very true.

I love intensity & depth but also feel like I don't have to be excitable & on 10 for everything. But I hear you.

From my experience, Libras say that they like intensity, but don't really understand what it means.

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Then enlighten them.

But I think, although often dismissed as shallow/superficial, Libran folks know/feel intensity in our emotions as well. We just have to make sense of it...make it logical...BALANCE things. Thus, nobody is WRONG.

in'tense [in-tens]
adjective
1. existing or occurring in a high or extreme degree: intense heat.


2. acute, strong, or vehement, as sensations, feelings, or emotions: intense anger.


3. of an extreme kind; very great, as in strength, keenness, severity, or the like: an intense gale.


4. having a characteristic quality in a high degree: The intense sunlight was blinding.


5. strenuous or earnest, as activity, exertion, diligence, or thought: an intense life.

Posted by intheair


"He started the fight, beat me getting mad, & didn't acknowledge/apologize (although he says he did). Then had the nerve to say that b/c of the fight he lost any sexual attraction for me."

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your words..... Not mine... And as far as leaving you alone is concerned that he definitely will cause you don't interest him anymore... Once he's got what he wanted....he leaves... Maybe all this was his plan from the beginning... Maybe he's just real good at manipulating people and in this case you.... Sorry girl but he's already played you!! And you can be sure that he's not done yet..... All you have to do now is wait! Time will tell whether you asked him to leave you alone or whether he made you think you wanted him to be away from you..... Hope this is not as confusing... I wish you the best of waiting.... For Now!!!

Sure are but your comprehension is off -

"beat me getting mad" is just a term/saying/slang for when one is wrong but becomes indignant instead of humbling themselves and/or apologizing:
He started an argument. I called him on his crap. He deflected, flipped the situation, and became defensive.

You seem to think "He got what he wanted & left." It amuses me. I asserted myself sexually b/c I WANTED TO/WANTED HIM/WANTED IT - No apologies, no regrets, no victims here. Own your sexuality.

It's not time that will tell but what you do in that time and I will not waiting around.

🙂

*be

Ignore him. Scorpio's hate being ignored.

Ugh...the hurricane at sea mode. Been there, done that, more than I'd like. If it's rage it will put me in a very dark and bad place.

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Posted by starlover
Sounds like you are not compatible together

Air and Water? Kind of odd

Ah an air sign. You don't get him and he doesn't get you. Move on

Not enough intensity maybe? I was with a Libra for years ~ never felt right tbh, only as friends

Very true.

I love intensity & depth but also feel like I don't have to be excitable & on 10 for everything. But I hear you.

From my experience, Libras say that they like intensity, but don't really understand what it means.

They get a pretty thunder storm with a short down pour followed by rainbows and some leaves blowing around in the wind, While that's all they feel we are dealing with a category 5 hurricane out at sea.


Libra Intensity



Scorpio Intensity

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That's right...

I'm guessing a cancer fueled hurricane blows out and over faster than a scorpio fueled one?

I rarely ever cry in front of anyone. Only people I trust get to see me that vulnerable. Usually I channel hurt or fear into rage and anger.