There's this Scorpio. We had an awesome relationship.. until it all ended in tears because of jealousy and trust issues. I pursued him initially, and then he fell madly in love with me. It was like a battle to see who was deeper in love... Its been 2 or 3 months since the breakup, where there had been no communication whatsoever. Now he is back and even more crazy in love! I couldn't help but see him again, I think more out of pity, because he has put his heart on the line and in doing so has risked absolute heartbreak all over again. Great, this is exactly the way I had always wanted him to be... willing to be vulnerable and just trusting me, wanting to be with me all the time... but the thing is I've actually moved on and don't feel any connection to him at all. Will he keep this awesome devotion up if I get back with him? Please don't ask "Do you love him" because I can easily fall back in love if I hand my heart over.. I just need an outsiders point of view. 🙂 please
Personally, I would pass. I would be fearful that the things that drove you apart would eventually resurface. Ideally, I always think theres something better out there. And the fact that he blew it the first time around would be my clue that he's just not right for me. I'd move on. Just my .02
i say... if you feel you can fall back inlove then obviously there is still alot there... so i'll go with , go for it..Everyone deserves a second chance & as for you..you are more aware now, so that could help.... but then again i'm a gemini.. lol
You mentioned how you could fall back in love with him. That sounds to me like you aren't in love with him and since he has laid so much on the line, be careful not to get back together if your heart isn't 100% in it. That will hurt him much worse in the long run than saying, "thanks, but no thanks" right now.
I've never dated another scoprio. That must be pretty intense.
You mentioned how you could fall back in love with him. That sounds to me like you aren't in love with him and since he has laid so much on the line, be careful not to get back together if your heart isn't 100% in it. That will hurt him much worse in the long run than saying, "thanks, but no thanks" right now.
I've never dated another scoprio. That must be pretty intense.
If you have truly "moved on" how on earth can you "easily fall in love again"—? Someone needs to define what "love" means to them. Maybe a bit of maturing in the love arena is due before anyone gets hurt more. You don't really give the reasons you broke up other than trust and jelousy issues. Were those issues justified by action or just over-active imagination or....or...or....WHAT— No offense but I think you know you don't want this realtionship anymore. Maybe just try to be friends first and see if you can get along. Good luck!
I pursued him initially, and then he fell madly in love with me. It was like a battle to see who was deeper in love...
Its been 2 or 3 months since the breakup, where there had been no communication whatsoever. Now he is back and even more crazy in love! I couldn't help but see him again, I think more out of pity, because he has put his heart on the line and in doing so has risked absolute heartbreak all over again.
Great, this is exactly the way I had always wanted him to be... willing to be vulnerable and just trusting me, wanting to be with me all the time... but the thing is I've actually moved on and don't feel any connection to him at all.
Will he keep this awesome devotion up if I get back with him?
Please don't ask "Do you love him" because I can easily fall back in love if I hand my heart over.. I just need an outsiders point of view. 🙂 please