SkyLinePhoEnix
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Scorp/Taurus alliance
From my experience, male Scorpios should be burned on a stick , then thrown to the sea for the sharks to eat
But I will admit with my ex scorpio and I still have this weird connection, we can't seem to stay away from each other if we are in the same room, and he can stare the hell out of me, I even feel when he is looking at me, even more strange we always seem to know what the other is thinking, but it couldn't work out, I was too dominant and making him have feelings makes him seem weak but it wasn't, so he got scared, one thing I know Scorpios hate the thought of feeling weak, very hard to see reason when Scorpio always has to be right
Love/Hate, feelings of bot and no in between.
Seems to be typical of polar opposites.
Seems to be typical of polar opposites.
bot=both
"I understand the earth/water idea, but what would be the connection that harbors such a profound attraction yet an even stronger distaste and how do you reach that cohesive middle ground?"
Respect
Respect
Posted by TaurusNikki
From my experience, male Scorpios should be burned on a stick , then thrown to the sea for the sharks to eat
daym, I can feel the love already 🙂
Fair enough...I'm only interested in understanding, but sign bashing is always welcome and expected
What I'm curious about is what a Taurus looks for in a partner? domination to an extent, nice but not too nice, mutual respect? I suppose all will have their difference in taste, but from what I have seen most taurean women are very similar.
My very best and most loyal friend of 7 years is a Taurus and we always talk about how amazing our connection is.
One time we figured that our souls are twins but our execution is different.
I have always read that Taurus and Scorps admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't.
I just met a taurus that I am obsessed with.. at first he was veryy into me. The whole eyes meeting across the room thing, texted me the day after we exchanged numbers... it slowly faded as i learned he had just begun dating a pisces.
UGH...a little off topic, but Scorp/Taurus combos for the win.
One time we figured that our souls are twins but our execution is different.
I have always read that Taurus and Scorps admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't.
I just met a taurus that I am obsessed with.. at first he was veryy into me. The whole eyes meeting across the room thing, texted me the day after we exchanged numbers... it slowly faded as i learned he had just begun dating a pisces.
UGH...a little off topic, but Scorp/Taurus combos for the win.
taurean men are sexay 😛
Posted by ScorpioLaday
our souls are twins but our execution is different.
I have always read that Taurus and Scorps admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't.
I just met a taurus that I am obsessed with.. at first he was veryy into me. The whole eyes meeting across the room thing..Scorp/Taurus combos for the win.
The obsession is mutual..There is no connection I love more than this one. I tend to draw alot of Scorps to me (Bcuz of my Scorpio Moon).
To add to""Taurus/scorp admire each other because each one has something the other doesn't"... I would say that there is a feeling of "completeness" we feel when we come together, we are the "YING" to the other's "YANG"..and there is mutual respect by knowing of the powers we each possess. We KNOW each others capabilities. Where the scorp, can get away with his plans,plots & games of manipulation with the other 11 signs...Taurus will be on the other end with the Book of Plays, READY to call the Scorp out..giving the Scorp no choice but to ALIGN and behave himself. Cuz the BULL wont accept BULL from outside the range. PERIOD.
We're both stubborn, but loyal and lovingly patient when madly in love.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by ScorpioLaday
We KNOW each others capabilities. Where the scorp, can get away with his plans,plots & games of manipulation with the other 11 signs...Taurus will be on the other end with the Book of Plays, READY to call the Scorp out..giving the Scorp no choice but to ALIGN and behave himself. Cuz the BULL wont accept BULL from outside the range. PERIOD.
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^^ too True. which is why i love you guys... so many other people make things so easy by wanting so desperately to be liked and hiding their opinions to do so, but imo, that translates to boring.
I could only imagine the intensity of having that connection with a bull...that mutual understanding and relentless dedication towards commitment.
Truly must be one of the most, if not the most powerful unity in the zodiac.
I've got a taurean buddy who's married to a scorp and their relationship is nothing short of...solid
Truly must be one of the most, if not the most powerful unity in the zodiac.
I've got a taurean buddy who's married to a scorp and their relationship is nothing short of...solid
"I've got a taurean buddy who's married to a scorp and their relationship is nothing short of...solid"
Solid, stable, consistent..and again respect.
Solid, stable, consistent..and again respect.
Posted by SkyLinePhoEnix
I could only imagine the intensity of having that connection with a bull...that mutual understanding and relentless dedication towards commitment.
Truly must be one of the most, if not the most powerful unity in the zodiac.
I've got a taurean buddy who's married to a scorp and their relationship is nothing short of...solid
..*Breaks out 80s Ashford & Simpson vinyl*..."And now its SOLID!!..SOLID as a ROCK!!! and nothings changed iiit, the thrill is STILL hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-HOT!!!!!!!"
Posted by Nemesis
it is true 1000% dedication and love. nobody is capable of putting a wedge between these two. it's been tried, before they got married haha. none of them are super intellectual. i think they like to keeps things plain and simple which is good. and proves to be a token for their long marriage. but they have mutual interests and hobbies.
just because i like this combo so very much later on this evening i will start typing out the chapter "scorpio/taurus" from linda goodman??s book "love signs" and post it here 🙂
YAY!, Can't Wait!!
Posted by IntriguedScorp
No. Is my experience. Too many weird head games and I find its Taurus that plays jealousy games not the scorp in this pairing. This has been my experience
Then again my experience is as a young pup. Neither one of us was evolved so it always came down to butting heads and stubbornly hanging onto our position even if it tore us apart. I wouldn't recommend that. Perhaps more mature people can make this work. Patience and sympathy are needed.click to expand
DEF give it another go with someone more MATURE and evolved. Maturity is key.
Posted by Slicks
From a male Taurus perspective Scorpio females are the devil incarnated and must be exterminated at once.
ouch, I don't think I could ever NOT be with a Taurus man.
Posted by TAURUSbellePosted by SkyLinePhoEnix
I could only imagine the intensity of having that connection with a bull...that mutual understanding and relentless dedication towards commitment.
Truly must be one of the most, if not the most powerful unity in the zodiac.
I've got a taurean buddy who's married to a scorp and their relationship is nothing short of...solid
..*Breaks out 80s Ashford & Simpson vinyl*..."And now its SOLID!!..SOLID as a ROCK!!! and nothings changed iiit, the thrill is STILL hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-hot-HOT!!!!!!!"
haha! I'm really happy for you and I know it will STAY soild!
Posted by Nemesis
http://www.sendspace.com/filegroup/5y9% 2BmvgpN QoYFIBqI bGslgfBGf% 2B7vtwkS5CgDj6Fvkneg% 2B2xHfbg
i??ve divided the files into:
Cover
Introduction
Chapter I
Chapter II
Chapter III
Chapter IV
please let me know if it worked. 🙂click to expand
That was a good read! much of it was what I expected but there were some pretty good explanations for scorp behavior which always helps with self-analysis.
If every scorp/bull could somehow read this before jumping into a relationship it would definitely improve cohesion...because based on instinct and lack of maturity alone, which are usually the culprits, these signs are doomed as a couple. crazy how simple misunderstandings can inhibit life-changing events. But I'm glad to see it working for some, since that understanding is there.
the segment on female scorps was pretty hilarious, the author made em sound psycho which makes me wonder what sign he/she is and what kind of history they've had that could've potentially led to biases in their descriptions. I'm curious now what the book says about scorp/scorp relationships if it's even in there lol that chapter probably has one word in it..."NO."
Ah Taurus men make me weak 🙂
Posted by Nemesis
http://www.sendspace.com/filegroup/5y9% 2BmvgpN QoYFIBqI bGslgfBGf% 2B7vtwkS5CgDj6Fvkneg% 2B2xHfbg
i??ve divided the files into:
Cover
Introduction
Chapter I
Chapter II
Chapter III
Chapter IV
please let me know if it worked. 🙂
THANK YOU -THANK YOU- THANK YOU NEM!! it Worked!!! 🙂
I found the entire book (over 900 pgs) in pdf here:
http://www.2shared.com/document/BGyep0Hd/Linda_Goodman_-_Love_Signs.html<BR>
I saved it to a jump drive, so far I have had no problems with the download, which was about an hr ago, but at your own risk, of course...
http://www.2shared.com/document/BGyep0Hd/Linda_Goodman_-_Love_Signs.html<BR>
I saved it to a jump drive, so far I have had no problems with the download, which was about an hr ago, but at your own risk, of course...
Yeah, I found it because I wanted to look at what it had to say about several other combos after reading what you put up for TAURUSbelle
I didn't think you'd want to scan and upload more of it either, cuz I know how troublesome it is...
Her Sun Signs book is here (but not downloadable):
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/contents.htm
I didn't think you'd want to scan and upload more of it either, cuz I know how troublesome it is...
Her Sun Signs book is here (but not downloadable):
http://www.cyberspacei.com/englishwiz/library/names/zodiac/contents.htm
Completely off topic, but may be of some interest to some ladies here, is an excerpt from pg 920 on Astrobiology.
"... a woman can conceive only during a certain approximately two-hour period of each Lunar month, when the Sun and the Moon are exactly the same number of degrees apart as they were at the moment of the woman's first breath at birth - which may be discovered simply from the planetary positions (astronomically calculated) contained in any ephemeris. Without exception, a woman can conceive at no other time than this approximately two-hour period, easily determined if her birth data are known. Each individual woman's "cycle" is different, bearing no relation to the generalized, and consequently inaccurate, so-called "rhythm method." It's absolutely foolproof. And awesomely profound.
Assuming the birth data given by the woman's parents to her (and by her to the astrologer) is correct - and barring all the deplorable deceptions practiced in legal adoption - a woman doesn't even need to know the hour of her birth. Simply the correct month, day and year will suffice to allow the professional astrologer(who should, of course, be chosen with great care, as to both efficiency and ethics) to present her with the gift of this totally reliable, absolutely harmless and spiritually acceptable "period of abstinence." For it falls on a certain day, different each Lunar month, as well as different for each woman. If a day or two are added as a safety margin on either side of the day within which the two "fertile hours" fall - lovers and mates will need to "refrain from embracing" only five days per month."
"... a woman can conceive only during a certain approximately two-hour period of each Lunar month, when the Sun and the Moon are exactly the same number of degrees apart as they were at the moment of the woman's first breath at birth - which may be discovered simply from the planetary positions (astronomically calculated) contained in any ephemeris. Without exception, a woman can conceive at no other time than this approximately two-hour period, easily determined if her birth data are known. Each individual woman's "cycle" is different, bearing no relation to the generalized, and consequently inaccurate, so-called "rhythm method." It's absolutely foolproof. And awesomely profound.
Assuming the birth data given by the woman's parents to her (and by her to the astrologer) is correct - and barring all the deplorable deceptions practiced in legal adoption - a woman doesn't even need to know the hour of her birth. Simply the correct month, day and year will suffice to allow the professional astrologer(who should, of course, be chosen with great care, as to both efficiency and ethics) to present her with the gift of this totally reliable, absolutely harmless and spiritually acceptable "period of abstinence." For it falls on a certain day, different each Lunar month, as well as different for each woman. If a day or two are added as a safety margin on either side of the day within which the two "fertile hours" fall - lovers and mates will need to "refrain from embracing" only five days per month."
I love Goodman's approach. And she is the first to admit that the stars only have a part (tho significant in her opinion) in making relationships work, but an individual's free will and choices will determine the outcome.
Linda Goodman is the absolute best! I have stayed up many a night reading Love Signs when I can't stop thinking whatever crush i have. Her Scorp/Pisces bit is also very spot on..gave me the shivers
Posted by AreTwoFour
I found the entire book (over 900 pgs) in pdf here:
http://www.2shared.com/document/BGyep0Hd/Linda_Goodman_-_Love_Signs.html<BR>
I saved it to a jump drive, so far I have had no problems with the download, which was about an hr ago, but at your own risk, of course...
AWW THIS is just WONDERFUL! Thanks R24!! I'll be looking into the "rhythm method" ....as that could be useful later when I'm ready for kids. :-)
Thanks again!
Posted by TaurusNikki
But I will admit with my ex scorpio and I still have this weird connection, we can't seem to stay away from each other if we are in the same room, and he can stare the hell out of me, I even feel when he is looking at me, even more strange we always seem to know what the other is thinking, but it couldn't work out, I was too dominant and making him have feelings makes him seem weak but it wasn't, so he got scared, one thing I know Scorpios hate the thought of feeling weak, very hard to see reason when Scorpio always has to be right
So true. They hate when they are weak and would rather leave. And they always have to be right. Pretty crazy!
SkyLinePhoEnix: the author made em sound psycho which makes me wonder what sign he/she is and what kind of history they've had that could've potentially led to biases in their descriptions.
>>>Linda Goodman is an Aries. Her book on sun signs was the first that I've read on the subject many yrs. ago, and still the best IMO. She definitely has some biases, but is surprisingly unbiased in certain parts of several of her books. I remember a couple of comparisons where she specifically put the Scorp female over and above the Aries.
TLS
>>>Linda Goodman is an Aries. Her book on sun signs was the first that I've read on the subject many yrs. ago, and still the best IMO. She definitely has some biases, but is surprisingly unbiased in certain parts of several of her books. I remember a couple of comparisons where she specifically put the Scorp female over and above the Aries.
TLS
SkyLine - the Taurus/Scorp thing is all over this forum. Look in the archives on the scorp or taurus board and there's a ton of stuff. I've recently met my first female scorp my age, and experienced the most powerful attraction I've ever felt in my life - completely on a whole different level than the physical (even though it was that too). If you want to laugh at me, you can see me lose my s h i t complerely here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/what-taurus-male-thinks-of-scorpio-females-3750536/
That's the spell I was under simply after some extended flirtatious body language, and magnetic eye contact. Quite embarrassing but that's how I felt. For all I know, this girl is an unevolved power-trip scorp and was just teasing me. Regardless, I'm still in love.
An interesting thread starting from a (rather arrogant) Taurus perspective but having some good insights from scorps is here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/the-taurus-scorpio-dance-1190614/
A google search on this pairing will turn up all sorts of interesting analysis. Only the most introductory books and sites I've read don't mention the strong magnetic attraction here. I think it goes much deeper than polar opposites in that I feel we can understand and read each other better than some of the other signs (though we can also confuse the hell out of each other). As has been said, I think its a yin/yang thing, rather than an opposition - the two signs are complimentary and intertwined. From a recent book I picked up on the Taurus personality:
"Being opposites in the zodiac, the Scorpio woman and her Taurus man are like the Yin-Yang symbol, each half containing a minute essence of the other while also perfectly reflecting the whole. They seem familiar, even directly after meeting, because its something they recognize in on another. It's a partnership that just feels right, like a hand in a well-fitting glove. They cling together in the sure knowledge that they complement and complete one another."
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/taurus/what-taurus-male-thinks-of-scorpio-females-3750536/
That's the spell I was under simply after some extended flirtatious body language, and magnetic eye contact. Quite embarrassing but that's how I felt. For all I know, this girl is an unevolved power-trip scorp and was just teasing me. Regardless, I'm still in love.
An interesting thread starting from a (rather arrogant) Taurus perspective but having some good insights from scorps is here:
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/scorpio/the-taurus-scorpio-dance-1190614/
A google search on this pairing will turn up all sorts of interesting analysis. Only the most introductory books and sites I've read don't mention the strong magnetic attraction here. I think it goes much deeper than polar opposites in that I feel we can understand and read each other better than some of the other signs (though we can also confuse the hell out of each other). As has been said, I think its a yin/yang thing, rather than an opposition - the two signs are complimentary and intertwined. From a recent book I picked up on the Taurus personality:
"Being opposites in the zodiac, the Scorpio woman and her Taurus man are like the Yin-Yang symbol, each half containing a minute essence of the other while also perfectly reflecting the whole. They seem familiar, even directly after meeting, because its something they recognize in on another. It's a partnership that just feels right, like a hand in a well-fitting glove. They cling together in the sure knowledge that they complement and complete one another."
(cont.)
Becoming totally obsessed after the experience with the scorp, I've read probably over 100 sites and every section of every astrology book in local bookstores dealing with the relationship betw. these two signs. What follows is based on my reading and my limited experience. Obviously I generalize alot, and its hard to generalize about scorps, as they seem to vary more than other signs (with the stages and all that).
On male taurus/male scorp friendships, these are some of my closest/deepest friends. Firstly, the relationships are *full* of synchronicities and strange mystical ironies. As gay as this sounds, I've actually experienced synchroncities that are *about* synchronicities, while discussing the *concept* of synchronicities and Carl Jung's work on them, with scorp friends. I've read the signs can compete and envy each other somewhat. This is def. true w/my scorp friends. I do music production on the side and 2 of my best friends that I've collaborated with musically are scorps. We're super competitive with one another but in a way that doesn't offend - it is recognized that its a mutual inspiration. When one side comes up with work that is impressive to the point of intimidating (fairly often), the other will freely admit this. As a bull, I envy the scorp intuitive knowledge. Bulls tend to work hard at what their passionate about and learn in a very hands-on, practice-makes-perfect enduring sort of way. This is how I've learned music production, graphic art, etc. - all through intense focus and endless hours. Scorps I know have innate musical gifts that almost make no sense. To mention just one - they are so on-beat with everything they do, its like they have a metronome in their brain. My dad was also a scorp. He never learned music but can pick up *any* instrument and play it beautifully. Total natural musical genius as are my other two scorp friends. From a taurus POV, this is a kind of magic that makes no sense and we'd like to have it. Its like that with everything. I went to school for philosophy. I can discuss the deepest most abstract philosophical concepts with scorps and they grasp it instantly (whereas it took me alot of studying), and can often actually work with it - add to it, get me to think about it differently, etc. Perhaps I always will have more knowledge in an area, but that's bc I worked for it, but they seem to know alot of the concepts innately.
Becoming totally obsessed after the experience with the scorp, I've read probably over 100 sites and every section of every astrology book in local bookstores dealing with the relationship betw. these two signs. What follows is based on my reading and my limited experience. Obviously I generalize alot, and its hard to generalize about scorps, as they seem to vary more than other signs (with the stages and all that).
On male taurus/male scorp friendships, these are some of my closest/deepest friends. Firstly, the relationships are *full* of synchronicities and strange mystical ironies. As gay as this sounds, I've actually experienced synchroncities that are *about* synchronicities, while discussing the *concept* of synchronicities and Carl Jung's work on them, with scorp friends. I've read the signs can compete and envy each other somewhat. This is def. true w/my scorp friends. I do music production on the side and 2 of my best friends that I've collaborated with musically are scorps. We're super competitive with one another but in a way that doesn't offend - it is recognized that its a mutual inspiration. When one side comes up with work that is impressive to the point of intimidating (fairly often), the other will freely admit this. As a bull, I envy the scorp intuitive knowledge. Bulls tend to work hard at what their passionate about and learn in a very hands-on, practice-makes-perfect enduring sort of way. This is how I've learned music production, graphic art, etc. - all through intense focus and endless hours. Scorps I know have innate musical gifts that almost make no sense. To mention just one - they are so on-beat with everything they do, its like they have a metronome in their brain. My dad was also a scorp. He never learned music but can pick up *any* instrument and play it beautifully. Total natural musical genius as are my other two scorp friends. From a taurus POV, this is a kind of magic that makes no sense and we'd like to have it. Its like that with everything. I went to school for philosophy. I can discuss the deepest most abstract philosophical concepts with scorps and they grasp it instantly (whereas it took me alot of studying), and can often actually work with it - add to it, get me to think about it differently, etc. Perhaps I always will have more knowledge in an area, but that's bc I worked for it, but they seem to know alot of the concepts innately.
(cont...)
I have more technical artistic ability than my one scorp friend, as I've been drawing all my life and he has never. But I'm amazed at how he has decided to become a fashion designer, and can just draw really well, without any formal training, and more importantly *design*. My dad was the same way. One example would be that most people need to learn a method to do perspective drawing or they make obvious mistakes when trying to do a landscape for instance. My scorp dad could just naturally draw in near perfect 2 and 3-point perspective. Not sure where scorps get the artistic ability from, but it is strong. That goes for poetry as well. I write as do both my scorp friends, and they are both amazing. We share pretty much everything creative (in any field) with each other, and we are like one another's muse - it is such a fruitful relationship. We can fail to speak for months, then talk again and pick up exactly where we left off.
One thing I find odd though is that, from the astrology books I've read, Taurus is supposed to be more materialistic and Scorp more spiritual. I've found the opposite the case in all my scorp relationships. I'm always the one deeper into religious philosophy, the occult, and metaphysics. I could care less about money as it seems to naturally just stick to me, and all the Scorps I know are really obsessed with trying to gain wealth, worldly success, or recognition, but it seems to always elude them. Perhaps its an age thing. There's definitely a common sense of humor, though bulls seem to offend scorps alot with their rough humor (read this too). Bulls seem more open in general about their own flaws - more able to laugh at themselves, and more prone to bragging than Scorps. I remember a scorp friend I had, super talented amazing dude - really physically strong, well-built and looked intimidating, but he was the most gentle person ever. We'd be joking around and I'd go too far, and he'd like whisper in this soft-spoken voice and convey that I had hurt his feelings. I always felt horrible but couldnt' understand the inner sensitivity. When I moved far away from my hometown, both my scorp male friends had *really* strong emotional reactions like I was abandoning them and I could not understand it. I though they were joking at first but learned otherwise.
I have more technical artistic ability than my one scorp friend, as I've been drawing all my life and he has never. But I'm amazed at how he has decided to become a fashion designer, and can just draw really well, without any formal training, and more importantly *design*. My dad was the same way. One example would be that most people need to learn a method to do perspective drawing or they make obvious mistakes when trying to do a landscape for instance. My scorp dad could just naturally draw in near perfect 2 and 3-point perspective. Not sure where scorps get the artistic ability from, but it is strong. That goes for poetry as well. I write as do both my scorp friends, and they are both amazing. We share pretty much everything creative (in any field) with each other, and we are like one another's muse - it is such a fruitful relationship. We can fail to speak for months, then talk again and pick up exactly where we left off.
One thing I find odd though is that, from the astrology books I've read, Taurus is supposed to be more materialistic and Scorp more spiritual. I've found the opposite the case in all my scorp relationships. I'm always the one deeper into religious philosophy, the occult, and metaphysics. I could care less about money as it seems to naturally just stick to me, and all the Scorps I know are really obsessed with trying to gain wealth, worldly success, or recognition, but it seems to always elude them. Perhaps its an age thing. There's definitely a common sense of humor, though bulls seem to offend scorps alot with their rough humor (read this too). Bulls seem more open in general about their own flaws - more able to laugh at themselves, and more prone to bragging than Scorps. I remember a scorp friend I had, super talented amazing dude - really physically strong, well-built and looked intimidating, but he was the most gentle person ever. We'd be joking around and I'd go too far, and he'd like whisper in this soft-spoken voice and convey that I had hurt his feelings. I always felt horrible but couldnt' understand the inner sensitivity. When I moved far away from my hometown, both my scorp male friends had *really* strong emotional reactions like I was abandoning them and I could not understand it. I though they were joking at first but learned otherwise.
I don't think the bull understands the deep scorp sensitivity or emotions - def. not male/male relationships. My dad was a scorp and I never saw him as emotional even though he was the most loving person I've ever known. He cried once in his life at something very traumatic. His mind was a steel trap - could cut any habit or addiction in an instant. I think the male scorps have such good emotional control, in front of other men at least, that you come off as really thick-skinned. This, according to what I've read, is supposedly what scorps can envy in bulls - the emotional stability and grounded inner calm. Not sure if that's true.
I had an explosive incident with a scorp dude at work over not realizing that I offended him. He was a bit of a creepy crawler always hitting on married women which I didn't respect so I just ignored him. He kept approaching to provoke me for no reason like he was jealous. Always making comments about my clothing and shoes (and the dude had no taste and was obviously a little jealous). He bought some new shoes and came by to show them off and ask me what I thought of them one day (which I thought was really strange behavior). I ragged on his shoes as that was kinda how we had interacted but he took it really personally. Our next convo actually turned physical and we were locked butting heads in the office in front of a ton of people! Hahahaha...never experienced anything like that in a work environment and thankfully it didn't escalate. I flipped on him verbally and kinda embarrassed him real bad, as he actually started the physical s h i t, and he just kinda sat and took it. Next day we mutually apologized and the guy had like a religious conversion to Islam within 2 days of that incident and completely changed his character.
I had an explosive incident with a scorp dude at work over not realizing that I offended him. He was a bit of a creepy crawler always hitting on married women which I didn't respect so I just ignored him. He kept approaching to provoke me for no reason like he was jealous. Always making comments about my clothing and shoes (and the dude had no taste and was obviously a little jealous). He bought some new shoes and came by to show them off and ask me what I thought of them one day (which I thought was really strange behavior). I ragged on his shoes as that was kinda how we had interacted but he took it really personally. Our next convo actually turned physical and we were locked butting heads in the office in front of a ton of people! Hahahaha...never experienced anything like that in a work environment and thankfully it didn't escalate. I flipped on him verbally and kinda embarrassed him real bad, as he actually started the physical s h i t, and he just kinda sat and took it. Next day we mutually apologized and the guy had like a religious conversion to Islam within 2 days of that incident and completely changed his character.
(cont.)
On the male/female Taurus/Scorp stuff, I honestly never got why women found my male scorp friends so attractive. Now I realize that scorp rules over sex, and just oozes that raw sex appeal in an almost intangible way, and I just couldnt' see it physically, as I'm not sexually attracted to men. Having taken a look at the females though, I totally get it.
Main thing I've learned is to be careful with this relationship. Its a risk and requires preparedness. There seems to be deep pain for both if it doesn't pan out. Every book I read on scorps said "DO NOT MESS WITH THIS WOMAN if you are not fully serious", and I ignored that. I kinda had a prior commitment which I was not willing to break, *but* the vibe was so strong with this girl, I had to tease the situation a little bit. I shut the whole thing down and completely ignored her recently and I have to admit my heart is broken - severe emotional pain - even to where I relapsed on an opiate addiction just to cope with it for a bit. I see her now and she looks *pissed*. Its kinda scary...hahahaha. I wonder if she will sting my ass one day. I learned a ton though...
I'm talking to a scorp woman right now in a tough spot with a taurus man who is (very unhappily) married. Which leads to some of the differences betw. the signs that scare me. Firstly, getting a Taurus to leave a spouse (even a terrible one), is so difficult because we have stupid loyalty. That taurus/scorp bond just might be able to do it, but....Scorp and Taurus seem to both be loyal but have a very different interpretation of that word. Which leads to....
How to trust a Scorpio? From what I've read and seen, Scorpios seem loyal to their ideal soul mate. They are ambitious people and expect *alot* from their mate. If he/she is falling short in an area important to the Scorp, they can get pretty cold. If another potential mate comes along, and they feel that psychic vibe (which apparently they can feel strongly with more than just Taurus - Cancer/Pisces for instance), what is stopping them from decieving themselves into beleiving this is the soul mate and cheating? Taurean loyalty is very different from this. If my spouse who I've committed to, falls into a deep depression and loses all ambition, loses all her limbs and has her face burned off in a car accident, and cheats on me and tells me she doesn't love me anymore, some part of me still wants to see if we can work it out (esp. if kids aer involved).
On the male/female Taurus/Scorp stuff, I honestly never got why women found my male scorp friends so attractive. Now I realize that scorp rules over sex, and just oozes that raw sex appeal in an almost intangible way, and I just couldnt' see it physically, as I'm not sexually attracted to men. Having taken a look at the females though, I totally get it.
Main thing I've learned is to be careful with this relationship. Its a risk and requires preparedness. There seems to be deep pain for both if it doesn't pan out. Every book I read on scorps said "DO NOT MESS WITH THIS WOMAN if you are not fully serious", and I ignored that. I kinda had a prior commitment which I was not willing to break, *but* the vibe was so strong with this girl, I had to tease the situation a little bit. I shut the whole thing down and completely ignored her recently and I have to admit my heart is broken - severe emotional pain - even to where I relapsed on an opiate addiction just to cope with it for a bit. I see her now and she looks *pissed*. Its kinda scary...hahahaha. I wonder if she will sting my ass one day. I learned a ton though...
I'm talking to a scorp woman right now in a tough spot with a taurus man who is (very unhappily) married. Which leads to some of the differences betw. the signs that scare me. Firstly, getting a Taurus to leave a spouse (even a terrible one), is so difficult because we have stupid loyalty. That taurus/scorp bond just might be able to do it, but....Scorp and Taurus seem to both be loyal but have a very different interpretation of that word. Which leads to....
How to trust a Scorpio? From what I've read and seen, Scorpios seem loyal to their ideal soul mate. They are ambitious people and expect *alot* from their mate. If he/she is falling short in an area important to the Scorp, they can get pretty cold. If another potential mate comes along, and they feel that psychic vibe (which apparently they can feel strongly with more than just Taurus - Cancer/Pisces for instance), what is stopping them from decieving themselves into beleiving this is the soul mate and cheating? Taurean loyalty is very different from this. If my spouse who I've committed to, falls into a deep depression and loses all ambition, loses all her limbs and has her face burned off in a car accident, and cheats on me and tells me she doesn't love me anymore, some part of me still wants to see if we can work it out (esp. if kids aer involved).
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They say Scorp and Taurus are both jealous, and the jealousy can even kind of work (though I'm not sure what's exceptional about scorp jealousy); I've never been with a woman of any sign that wasn't *extremely* jealous - checking my phone, emails, all of it. But let's say both signs are real jealous and you mutually agree on what is/what isn't acceptable. With what I've heard about Scorps, sex is always on the brain, and they actually use their sexual nature to affect people everywhere they go. I've seen it, felt it - it is really something else. The scorp girl at my work has everyone under mind control and I can read it so easy. She is surrounded by all men - some very powerful and attractive men - and she determines exactly what their boundaries are. If she's feeling quiet and she wants to shut them down, they know not to approach. If she's happy and wants to socialize, they swarm around her. They are like her puppets and alot of the energy she's using is sexual. With *that* much power, how can a Taurus really ever trust? We have a magnetism and we build up a harem over time, but once we commit, we drop the harem and we don't have the energy to rebuild it real fast whenever we want, or the desire. Scorp sex power seems to be a kind of power that corrupts a bit. And I get it, if I could do that, I would be using it on people all the time - pretty much everyone.
The mindgames are also outrageous. Scorps seem to play so many headgames, testing the hell out of people. This girl would do her sex little strut and capture my eyes with it, completely walking the opposite direction from me, and then *whip* her head around lightning fast, look right into my eyes and do her smouldering grin like "gotcha!". Its sexy as hell but WHO does that s h i t? It seemed to devolve into a power struggle of who likes who more, who checks who out more, etc. I picked up on so many games, that I felt I had to play my own. Taurus really doesnt play games though. We have maybe three - "hot/cold", "hard to get", and "the disappearing act". These are not really games but just extensions of other aspects of our character. I employed them almost in defense, and they really only made everything more confusing.
They say Scorp and Taurus are both jealous, and the jealousy can even kind of work (though I'm not sure what's exceptional about scorp jealousy); I've never been with a woman of any sign that wasn't *extremely* jealous - checking my phone, emails, all of it. But let's say both signs are real jealous and you mutually agree on what is/what isn't acceptable. With what I've heard about Scorps, sex is always on the brain, and they actually use their sexual nature to affect people everywhere they go. I've seen it, felt it - it is really something else. The scorp girl at my work has everyone under mind control and I can read it so easy. She is surrounded by all men - some very powerful and attractive men - and she determines exactly what their boundaries are. If she's feeling quiet and she wants to shut them down, they know not to approach. If she's happy and wants to socialize, they swarm around her. They are like her puppets and alot of the energy she's using is sexual. With *that* much power, how can a Taurus really ever trust? We have a magnetism and we build up a harem over time, but once we commit, we drop the harem and we don't have the energy to rebuild it real fast whenever we want, or the desire. Scorp sex power seems to be a kind of power that corrupts a bit. And I get it, if I could do that, I would be using it on people all the time - pretty much everyone.
The mindgames are also outrageous. Scorps seem to play so many headgames, testing the hell out of people. This girl would do her sex little strut and capture my eyes with it, completely walking the opposite direction from me, and then *whip* her head around lightning fast, look right into my eyes and do her smouldering grin like "gotcha!". Its sexy as hell but WHO does that s h i t? It seemed to devolve into a power struggle of who likes who more, who checks who out more, etc. I picked up on so many games, that I felt I had to play my own. Taurus really doesnt play games though. We have maybe three - "hot/cold", "hard to get", and "the disappearing act". These are not really games but just extensions of other aspects of our character. I employed them almost in defense, and they really only made everything more confusing.
Last thing I'll say as I've already blathered on waaaay too much; I apologize....
Scorp and Taurus both seem to power-trip alot. From hanging on the Taurus board, bulls (including myself) can't seem to speak without sounding like braggarts. Bulls on these boards brag about their temper like its a form of power. Every bull knows it isn't. Taurean temper is satanic - when we finally lose it, we lose all concern for anyone and everything around us. Every bull knows its evil and only serves to hurt people when they lose it, and that's why we are usually really good at controlling it. Scorps (esp. some) seem to be more secretly arrogant, and almost given to worship their sign. In some of the scorp/taurus threads I actually see taurus/scorps arguing about which is the more powerful sign, like our totems are going to fight; its basically like bragging about who is more arrogant. "Scorps are the most powerful sign in the zodiac" the scorps keep saying. Riiiight....Astrologers indeed might say this but what are astrologers into? The occult and all associated powers - what Pluto gives, they want. Scorp sites that discuss scorps (there's a ton) are insightful but not very forthcoming about scorp weaknesses. What's power? Sexual power? Psychic power? Sure.....but is that more powerful than love itself? Or more powerful than forgiveness (where scorps seem to struggle?). Is stinging revenge more powerful than turning the other cheek, or returning kindness and love to someone who treats you wrongly? I think the latter requires more strength, to such an extent that almost no one can do it. The ones who can change the entire world. When I think of power, I think of Ghandi, Jesus Christ, or Martin Luther King. Look at the power they wielded and the changes affected in the world as a result. Scorps seem to hide their flaws out of fear of losing power. But in relationships especially, the true power is in deep vulnerability. When you power-trip and hide hurt, the other can't change - their heart can't be moved by seeing what they've actually done to you - on your face and in your emotions. When you hit back, react in anger, they do the same and it escalates. When you show your weakness and how they've hurt you, if they love you, they react in protection of you. I've always felt, in extreme arguments with SO's, the power of a woman's tears was always greater than any of my unrelenting stubborn arguments.
Scorp and Taurus both seem to power-trip alot. From hanging on the Taurus board, bulls (including myself) can't seem to speak without sounding like braggarts. Bulls on these boards brag about their temper like its a form of power. Every bull knows it isn't. Taurean temper is satanic - when we finally lose it, we lose all concern for anyone and everything around us. Every bull knows its evil and only serves to hurt people when they lose it, and that's why we are usually really good at controlling it. Scorps (esp. some) seem to be more secretly arrogant, and almost given to worship their sign. In some of the scorp/taurus threads I actually see taurus/scorps arguing about which is the more powerful sign, like our totems are going to fight; its basically like bragging about who is more arrogant. "Scorps are the most powerful sign in the zodiac" the scorps keep saying. Riiiight....Astrologers indeed might say this but what are astrologers into? The occult and all associated powers - what Pluto gives, they want. Scorp sites that discuss scorps (there's a ton) are insightful but not very forthcoming about scorp weaknesses. What's power? Sexual power? Psychic power? Sure.....but is that more powerful than love itself? Or more powerful than forgiveness (where scorps seem to struggle?). Is stinging revenge more powerful than turning the other cheek, or returning kindness and love to someone who treats you wrongly? I think the latter requires more strength, to such an extent that almost no one can do it. The ones who can change the entire world. When I think of power, I think of Ghandi, Jesus Christ, or Martin Luther King. Look at the power they wielded and the changes affected in the world as a result. Scorps seem to hide their flaws out of fear of losing power. But in relationships especially, the true power is in deep vulnerability. When you power-trip and hide hurt, the other can't change - their heart can't be moved by seeing what they've actually done to you - on your face and in your emotions. When you hit back, react in anger, they do the same and it escalates. When you show your weakness and how they've hurt you, if they love you, they react in protection of you. I've always felt, in extreme arguments with SO's, the power of a woman's tears was always greater than any of my unrelenting stubborn arguments.
I see the signs, not as better or worse - more powerful or less, but as modes of incarnation with lessons to learn, whether we choose them, or are shuffled into them by some karmic necessity. I doubt we will be bulls or scorpions in the afterlife, or any intermediate state of our souls.
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My sister is a Taurus and I am a scorpio. We are 2 years apart. Growing up she use to boss me around and tell me what to do and I would do it because I never wanted to make her mad at me. As we got older we still had problems because I finally stop letting her boss me around and she would get upset with me alot. About 5 years ago or longer we got into a big heated argument about a guy I was dating that we both new years ago (I think she was jealous) So one day we were at my mothers house and she started talking all this shit to me under hear breath mumbble smart remarks and I got tired of it so I stepped to her, got right in her face and said "What the fuck is your problem? You got something to say to me say" She said nothing so then I told her to Leave me the fuck along or I will fuck her up. My mom came out to see what the problem was and I told her "Tell you daughter to leave me alone before I kick her ass" after that I was so heated I had to leave my momes house becuase I would have punched her in her face at that moment. After that we did not speak for months and we were int he same room we did not acknowlege each other.
It took us years to finally get to a point where we finally understand each others ways. She does not see that we are opposite but I do. We are very close, she was ther for me when I was unemployed for 8 month, she encourgaed me to hold on and stay focus, she willing to help me pay my bills but I did not need her help because I was stubborn like that. She watched me continue to pay my bills on my own. She told me many times how proud she is of me. We are always going out together and her friends are jealous of the closeness that we have because they don't have that with their sisters.
I am dating a Pisces with a Taurus moon and we are having some push and pull issues, he wants me to do certain things and I won't and it pisses him off. I think when I stop being so stuborn and losen up a bit we will probably have a really good relationship.
It took us years to finally get to a point where we finally understand each others ways. She does not see that we are opposite but I do. We are very close, she was ther for me when I was unemployed for 8 month, she encourgaed me to hold on and stay focus, she willing to help me pay my bills but I did not need her help because I was stubborn like that. She watched me continue to pay my bills on my own. She told me many times how proud she is of me. We are always going out together and her friends are jealous of the closeness that we have because they don't have that with their sisters.
I am dating a Pisces with a Taurus moon and we are having some push and pull issues, he wants me to do certain things and I won't and it pisses him off. I think when I stop being so stuborn and losen up a bit we will probably have a really good relationship.
I hate this computer I'm using sorry for the typos.
Posted by BeautifulLocs
My sister is a Taurus and I am a scorpio. We are 2 years apart. Growing up she use to boss me around and tell me what to do and I would do it because I never wanted to make her mad at me. As we got older we still had problems because I finally stop letting her boss me around and she would get upset with me alot. .
Yeah, bulls can definitely be a bit bossy. I know a few late april taurus males that are especially like that. When I get together with my male bull friends, its like a bragging contest, and competitive with everything else - arguing alot, etc. Its kinda creative and humorous but its rough and exhausting too sometimes. Its like we have to establish dominance - esp. when the friendship is young. Grown men and we will often wrestle and box to settle bragging rights. I used to have a big tendency to try to take a dominant father-like role over my friends. I learned over time how offensive and foolish that was. Have had a few scorp blow-ups where I'm actually shocked at how mad they get, thinking they were like me and would just take it, or dish it back, but never realizing how angry I was making them. Felt horrible and learned some lessons at those times. Acting all tough and haughty, overlooking someone else's feelings - then you see yourself more clearly in the reaction of the other, and you realize how obnoxious and tactless you were being. That was probably a huge lesson for your sister that she needed to experience.
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