Scorpio and Virgo

Anybody here ever date a Virgo man? I dated one once and he was the nicest yet most unemotional guy I have ever dated. Such a gentleman and so attentive to me, but he was so overly cautious and slow moving in the relationship. He wouldn't even call me on the phone to ask me for a date. He always left me wondering if we would even have another date and instead of calling me like a normal person to ask me out he would just pretend to just run into me at the coffee shop and then nonchalantly ask me out every week. This would happen every Thursday for a Saturday night date for about 3 months. I finally lost patience with him.

One of my good friends is married to a Virgo and he shows absolutely no emotion whatsoever, is not at all affectionate, untrusting, and so cheap. It took him 8 months before he did anymore than hold her hand. She finally got drunk on Tequila one night and just attacked him. She woke up naked in bed with him the next morning. They kissed, but he refused to have sex with her because she was drunk. Very shortly after that they were engaged. They have been together for over 2 years now, but he still doesn't trust her and still shows no emotions.

Are all Virgo men like this?? I have a really cute one asking me out right now. He is half Chilean though so hopefully he has a little more fire in him. LOL!!

Don't get me started, honey bunny.

"Anybody here ever date a Virgo man?"

I didn't.

"That remains to be seen, and I thought you weren't going to participate in threads with title of my name on it I won! "


Well, we agreed on not commenting on each other's comment or thread only, and since you are first to comment on mine, i win.
Better luck next time baby 😉

DC

your eyebrows are absolutely fab, doll. threading?

"What about a Leo or Cancer or Pisces man, Hypno? Ever dated them?"

I dated Kris many times, so a leo yes.

That was a thread created about you not by you, go back to our agreement rules, section 142 and read.
I win Lickkkkkerrr.

" it says that a thread about a person counts because that thread is created to attract that person's attention, and more than likely than person is going to respond"

Yes, but i posted before you, so you responded to mine.
Anyway, let's make it a draw, ok?
But a slight advantage for me 😉

indeed, threading is the only way to go! to hell with waxing.

hey, hey! i resent that remark. i wax and my eyebrows look just fine...


ok...maybe not as good as DC's, but fine nonetheless...

poo

i'm tellin you. once you stop wax, you never go back. cuz threading is where it's at...

same effect, less pain and pulling of the skin.

sorry to interrupt, ladies.

xun- i got that new stephen colbert. lolol

i watch the full episodes on colbertnation.com because i don't have cable.

"because i don't have cable."

I don't know why, but whenever someone says this I always laugh my ass off.

lol why, DK?

is it because saying that is like admitting you live in the stone age?

i don't watch tv. with or without cable, i never watched tv really. every now and then i will tune into certain shows that i enjoy like "hell's kitchen" or "so you think you can dance"...but not faithfully.

"unless you have nerves as strong as steel, DO NOT go for virgo!!!

You will feel lonely most the time with a virgo man."

So what's new?? Most men make me feel lonely most of the time. LOL

O.K. Well I haven't heard any overwhelming evidence that all Virgos are horrible so I think I will go out with that Virgo this week. I can't help it. He is SOOO gorgeous and very nice. I was supposed to go out with him yesterday, but I canceled until Thursday because I knew I was going to be wine tasting during the day and I didn't want to be all messy for my date that night so I just rescheduled.

I haven't heard from the internet addicted scorp, but he found out that I put my profile back up on the dating site I think. He has his profile hidden and he thinks that I don't know that he is on there, but I have him on my favorites list so even though he is hidden from all others unless he is on their favorites list I can see every time he logs on. I was on there until about 11:20 last night and for the first time since we broke up he came online and he must have logged on about 20 different times between the hours of 9 and midnight checking to see if I was still on there. The most hilarious thing to me is that on that site you can check off things that you don't want to be contacted for. He is supposedly looking for women who.....

Must not have messaged users looking for intimate encounters or sex.
Must not be looking for Hang Out
Must not be looking for Talk/E-mail
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Friendship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be looking for Activity Partner
Must not do drugs
Must not be married
Must not smoke

WTF— See why I was so fooled?? It's like he has two different personalities. He has the one that he wants people to think he is and the one he REALLY is. All the shit that he is doing he says he doesn't want. That's what makes me see that he really DOES have a problem.

"gslove -- the "MUST NOTs" are limitations. Any person looking for hang-out and such will not see his profile. Perhaps he changed these just recently. It looks like he doesn't want to be seen."

Do you mean if my limitations are not exactly like his I won't see his profile? Even though I know he was online, when I did a usersearch for his name nothing came up so it looks like his profile is still hidden.

No he had those on there before because I remember noticing it and thinking and assuming he must be really looking for something real if he is specifically making a point saying "No casual encounters". Most guys don't check any of those boxes. See what happens when we assume? LOL!!

I just got a call from my virgo friend of 7-8 years. He is dieing of lou garrets disease, and I was so happy to hear from him last time I spoke with him he was preparing to go out on disability that was about 3 months ago so I knew not to call his job, and just hope he calls me and let me know how he is doing.

He is married, had a fling for the first 2 years I met him. He told me that he could not take care of me and his wife...I told him I understand and respect his honesty and from then on we have been the best of friends he would call every couple of months just to say hi

And know that he is dieing he just told me that he had to call in an aide to help him cuz his wife does not want to help him, and he feel like if he has to constantly ask her for help and she has a problem with it he just as well call for an aide.

I am sad that my friend is dieing because I loved him so much as a friend and when I needed help I knew I could call on him to help me.

so gslove I don't know what you are looking for as far a how a virgo is all I can say is I have met 4 of them in the last few years and this one and one other virgo are still very good friends of mines and I would not trade the friendship for the world.

So sorry about your friend SL!! I'm glad you can be there for him when his wife isn't. He needs some emotional support right now.

"gslove -- let's say you are looking for hang-out, you will not be able to contact him unless you change your pref on relationship type."


I'm pretty sure he has it hidden because both of ours says longterm and match pretty perfectly which is why he found me in the first place. Plus I think that once you have someone on your favorites list even if you change it you can still see them. He has his profile hidden and he has his instant messaging on. He is probably only IM'ing people for sex. He was on again last night. He kept logging on and logging off every 5 minutes. It was really weird. Maybe he doesn't know he has his profile still hidden and he is wondering why no women are contacting him so he keeps logging on and off to try to get peoples attention so he will stay on the top of the list. I'm finding it quite amusing. Of course I am getting a ton of responses. Most of them lame, but there are a couple of diamonds in the rough. I'm having fun!!

Yes, most Virgo men don't show emotion.

We tend to get drowned by Scorpion emotion.
I don't know if it is because I am growing older, or just my past experiences.
But I feel much more comfortable expressing my feelings to a non Scorpio.

These relationships have great potential, but... hmmm.
The no calls thing is normal, I personally don't call anyone unless it is crucial. Tends to be an economical choice.

No romance... err... well we can be, just rarely...

Cajun spirit, You don't know what you are missing. Try doing a hit of ectasy and experience some real emotion and passion just once. LOL!!!!

This thread is interesting, I actually get along very well with Virgo's, apart from one, but i know about 5 and i get along great with 4 of them.

Wierd in what way??

I was just sitting here thinking how did I meet each of my virgos friends and LOL.

1. Ascot Night Club
2. WPGC Radio chat or something
3. BlackPlanet
4. Yahoo Personals

🙂

Hahahaha, I'd love to talk with you personally fumingli

I think that would be most entertaining 🙂