Message posted by: antibling on 3/5/2007 6:55:06 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.46 so,has MM copped off with Guarav — as if it wasn't going to happen anyways..........
Gaurav and I will leave our mark on this world...for yours you will remember this budding romance...
My thoughts come from the experience that Fire signs are quick to jump to conclusions (even though they have no reason to think themselves too quick), and because of this, they usually don't give themselves enough time to settle down and 'live with it', let alone take the time to observe and understand 'it'.
Fire signs are an extension of their own mentalities, they take one thought, one idea, one spirit, and spread it like it's conquest. That's just what experience shows me. I'm not making any harsh judgement, nor am I doubting any of the good qualities that fire signs have. And I'm not claiming to be "evolved" or have a higher thinking so please get off that. It's very cynical of you to suggest that I speak from a high horse more than I speak from simple, careful understanding of the consistencies I recognize, for instance, cynicism is common for fire signs, it just is.
Fire signs are usually of the opinion that 'he said that because it benefits him', usually assuming of a selfish motivation. I'm not here to fight with you though. Argument (physical, mental, verbal, etc.) is just another characterization of the warrior, Aries. I'm really not trying to be a smart ass here, I'm just telling you that I do understand. I pay very close attention. This is not books and Astrology-reading I'm learning from here, nor is it a biased opinion from a bad experience with a friend or ex, I'm simply learning from the consistencies I see in plain association with many natives of each sign over time. I'm always learning, of course, but for now, what I know is what I know, regardless of whether others notice the same. The only reason I'm posting is that some people may agree with what I've seen and some people may learn or become interested. Anything else that I provoke with this post is not intentional at all - definitely not aiming to insult. Those who don't notice what I've noticed... well there's nothing I can do about that at all, so I'm not worried about it. Those people can disagree silently, aloud, or be plain confused, it doesn't matter, it's normal. Nothing I can do. Even if by some godly fortune I was 100% right... nothing I can do.
I just would hope that people who hope to understand the workings of other signs also work to understand the way their own sign perceives things, because that's just as important. When others say that Scorpios sometimes have their best judgements blurred by others things, well I'm cautious. Sure I'd like to say 'hell no', b
but I'd much rather check my bearings. I don't fight it, I'd like to dig deeper and find more of 'the clues' - why they would say that, what makes them say it - before trusting my own answer or trusting theirs. That's just the way I am, and I wish people understood that, but when people don't, what can ya do?
For me depth of understanding begins with the realization that things are rarely what they seem to be. More precisley they are rarely what we want or expect them to be. People are not who they say they are or what they think they are. Human events and actions are not product of simple cause and effect. Relationships (social and personal) are not a mere interaction of sterotypes.
Everyone fabricates their own self serving veneer of rationalization and propaganda. For me depth of understanding and personality begins when you stop glossing the contradicions and start taking them to heart. you stop perpetuating and start investigating, and the journey begins with self.
Yes..seeing things for what they REALLY are underneath layers of facade..and not just skimming the surface...Cold harsh brutal reality..Not everyones cut out for the job..
Yes Val..I have come to the realisation that the reason we are sooo bloody moody and introverted is that we can see all this whilst others can't..Its a blessing and a curse..Curse in that we can't just overlook that and accept you for who you are..(that could just be me...)
Sometimes out in a group situation, a chick is yapping away..everyone around her maybe in awe..but that one person who is not amused (ME). Why? I just CANNOT be because I can see her for what she really is..IN THAT ONE INSTANCE..and it really irritates me and saddens me at the same time that others don't see that..I don't want FAKE in my life..GENIUNE GENIUNE GENIUNE
LOL...From my experience water signs do have this knack of getting to the bottom of the things while fire signs simply ride over. Anyways one shouldnot mix "tendency" with "efficiency" - So one may spend hours n days in investigating and be "deep" while the other may perhaps just accomplish the same with flashing intuitions.
Sometimes out in a group situation, a chick is yapping away..everyone around her maybe in awe..but that one person who is not amused (ME). Why? I just CANNOT be because I can see her for what she really is..IN THAT ONE INSTANCE..and it really irritates me and saddens me at the same time that others don't see that..I don't want FAKE in my life..GENIUNE GENIUNE GENIUNE
For situations like this, I've come to the conclusion that it is more productive and enlightening not to dwell on the artifice, but rather look on it as open theater - so you can engage and as a foil, or even cynic, without becoming an insulting boor
LMAO @ Val...your sooooooo good at this aren't you!..haha..love it..
Oh yes...the cutting remark..I am usually in best form when in an argument though..wit doesn't flow in these circumstances listed..Wit at its best during a heated debate...then no mofo can beat me!
Tsk tsk..