Scorpio emotional detachment

Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

I can totally do that yeah.

Posted by scorpio1994
Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

Yes.

Oh yeah, I felt that on my skin after I offended somehow Scorpio girl that is into me. So yeah, you can be cruel and ice cold then, lol. 😄

Yes, if I have no respect for someone I'll feel nothing for them. It happens automatically, a shut off or my feelings never even start in the first place. It isn't common for me to encounter people who I respond that way to. It's a good thing, never bad, when it happens. It isn't unwarranted.

Posted by Vageenka
You can't do that, the feelings you deny yourself to feel just get stored in your subconscious.

And then eventually you either snap, have an emotional breakdown or become a psychopath ?

No vageenka!! It actually turns into indifference n I move on real quick

Well, in my case, after that icy behavior and all those attacks, she came back, and said that she is sorry for acting like a kid, she miss me a lot...lol

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You can't do that, the feelings you deny yourself to feel just get stored in your subconscious.

And then eventually you either snap, have an emotional breakdown or become a psychopath ?

No vageenka!! It actually turns into indifference n I move on real quick

Jealous!!!

If I loved someone it takes me forever to move on. Same with betrayal, I stay angry for a long time. But I noticed with me I need to feel those emotions to eventually truly be able to move on and free myself ?

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Haha. I really feel gifted that way sometimes. The way I move on, people would think I never loved. Which is not true at all. I love passionately.

But once I'm done, there's nothing left..not even hate. It's over for good.I seek no closure.N the resilience... I'll forever be thankful for my sun lol!!

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Posted by Vageenka
You can't do that, the feelings you deny yourself to feel just get stored in your subconscious.

And then eventually you either snap, have an emotional breakdown or become a psychopath ?

No vageenka!! It actually turns into indifference n I move on real quick

Jealous!!!

If I loved someone it takes me forever to move on. Same with betrayal, I stay angry for a long time. But I noticed with me I need to feel those emotions to eventually truly be able to move on and free myself ?

Haha. I really feel gifted that way sometimes. The way I move on, people would think I never loved. Which is not true at all. I love passionately.

But once I'm done, there's nothing left..not even hate. It's over for good.I seek no closure.N the resilience... I'll forever be thankful for my sun lol!!

Queen Teena, dropping the haters like Ashlee Simpson dropped from her recording label.

When will the others? Lol!

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Lol!! I feel it's just in your head. You must just be willing I guess. That's the reason I prefer head over heart 😄

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Posted by scorpio1994
Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

Yep.

Once we evolve, though... we learn not to be so icy and just communicate properly... and even... forgive.

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I don't know if that's about being "evolved" or "unevolved". Some people just aren't with the mental energy or effort.

Icing one out =/= lack of forgiveness or poor communication skills.

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Posted by Vageenka
You can't do that, the feelings you deny yourself to feel just get stored in your subconscious.

And then eventually you either snap, have an emotional breakdown or become a psychopath ?

For me it's not about suppression. Oh trust I feel every feeling.

After I'm done feeling though, they don't deserve to be acknowledged anymore.

I understand. ? Closure is important

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For who? Closure is only necessary if you haven't made peace with a decision.

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Posted by scorpio1994
Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

Yep.

Once we evolve, though... we learn not to be so icy and just communicate properly... and even... forgive.

I don't know if that's about being "evolved" or "unevolved". Some people just aren't with the mental energy or effort.

Icing one out =/= lack of forgiveness or poor communication skills.

I would ice our loved ones. For me it was easier to just ice out than deal with all the emotions.

But I agree with you if it concerns people that don't mean much to me to begin with...

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I'm not sure I fully understand. You mean it would easier to do so with a loved one than a say.....close friend or someone you care about that betrayed you?

Why is it easier for you?

Posted by ScorpioTruth
I do agree that as we age and evolve we are more realistic in knowing that even we are not perfect and have hurt or let others down, so we grow to become more forgiving, especially when we know we've needed to ask for forgiveness ourselves.

I'm not disagreeing with any of that. However because I have decided to distance myself doesn't mean I haven't forgiven the person. There really isn't anything to forgive. I can forgive. For me it's more about I trusted you. Now I don't. I cared. Now...what's your name again?

Perhaps we all have different understand of icing out or emotionally shutting down, which is cool to see to get a different pov. For me it's simply indifference. I don't go out of mg way to treat the person poorly, I simply stop caring. About them, what we had or shared. The person slips into the category of "any old person in the world" vs someone important to me. In all cases thus far, anyone that slips into this category truly doesn't even cross my mind unless another person mentions their name or a conversation sparks a memory I am reflecting on for the purpose of that conversation.

Truthfully will all of my water, which dominates my chart, I'm grateful I have an air moon. I'd probably be typing this post from prison for killing someone because it hurts that bad when someone betrays/hurts me. I'm grateful it allows those feeling shift to indifference quite quickly.

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Posted by Vageenka
You can't do that, the feelings you deny yourself to feel just get stored in your subconscious.

And then eventually you either snap, have an emotional breakdown or become a psychopath ?

No vageenka!! It actually turns into indifference n I move on real quick

Jealous!!!

If I loved someone it takes me forever to move on. Same with betrayal, I stay angry for a long time. But I noticed with me I need to feel those emotions to eventually truly be able to move on and free myself ?

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As a taurus, being the mirror image of scorpio, I find I relate a lot to the icing out thing. I tend to hate, hate HATE that person and do it in a concentrated time so that I can get it out of my system and just be completely apathetic about their existence to the point I won't be bothered by their presence if I have to continue to endure it for some reason, and can actually recreate it into a new friendship. I can become friends with their next girlfriends, to the point where we're total buddies and she becomes comfortable talking to me about issues and we bond quite a bit.

I find it a lot easier to move on if they did something to hurt me. Focus on that and burn their memory down to embers. Then comes the ice. Or both. Fire ice. I have to do that in order to start over, if the break up wasn't a complete disaster.

Posted by GC01
It's a water sign thing.

Yeah my chart is water dominant. lol

Posted by ozzzy
Oh yeah, I felt that on my skin after I offended somehow Scorpio girl that is into me. So yeah, you can be cruel and ice cold then, lol. 😄

I sense you will never get over that one

I can.......in time. First of all i have to go through the letting go process and grieving and then i am done

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Posted by ScorpioTruth
I do agree that as we age and evolve we are more realistic in knowing that even we are not perfect and have hurt or let others down, so we grow to become more forgiving, especially when we know we've needed to ask for forgiveness ourselves.

I'm not disagreeing with any of that. However because I have decided to distance myself doesn't mean I haven't forgiven the person. There really isn't anything to forgive. I can forgive. For me it's more about I trusted you. Now I don't. I cared. Now...what's your name again?

Perhaps we all have different understand of icing out or emotionally shutting down, which is cool to see to get a different pov. For me it's simply indifference. I don't go out of mg way to treat the person poorly, I simply stop caring. About them, what we had or shared. The person slips into the category of "any old person in the world" vs someone important to me. In all cases thus far, anyone that slips into this category truly doesn't even cross my mind unless another person mentions their name or a conversation sparks a memory I am reflecting on for the purpose of that conversation.

Truthfully will all of my water, which dominates my chart, I'm grateful I have an air moon. I'd probably be typing this post from prison for killing someone because it hurts that bad when someone betrays/hurts me. I'm grateful it allows those feeling shift to indifference quite quickly.

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This is exactly what I meant too yeah.Indifference. Forgiving is not even thing. I forgive anyway. Can't hold any hate.

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Posted by ozzzy
Oh yeah, I felt that on my skin after I offended somehow Scorpio girl that is into me. So yeah, you can be cruel and ice cold then, lol. 😄

I sense you will never get over that one

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Over what? 😄 She already apologized, and realized that she was acting like a kid, immature, so she wants me back...and I already forgot that ice cold behavior. 😉

Definitely !!!

My motto: I tried to be nice but I have my limits.

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Posted by ozzzy
Oh yeah, I felt that on my skin after I offended somehow Scorpio girl that is into me. So yeah, you can be cruel and ice cold then, lol. 😄

I sense you will never get over that one

Over what? 😄 She already apologized, and realized that she was acting like a kid, immature, so she wants me back...and I already forgot that ice cold behavior. 😉

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In the future, when you leave each other behind, you won't forget her

Posted by scorpio1994
Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

without question.

Posted by Infinite8

Posted by scorpio1994
Hi I'm Scorpio, just wondering if anyone else has the ability to completely shut down emotions and become ice cold to those that wrong you?

Yep.

Once we evolve, though... we learn not to be so icy and just communicate properly... and even... forgive.

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load of crap....This is the "church" answer. A